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		peeonme
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Here is something that my ex (black guy) experienced while with me.
My husband is white. Before him, I was dating a black guy. At the time, I was living in an all white neighborhood in the suburbs. One time, I had him over to help me plant a big-ass tree. He was a particularly muscular dude, so I figured he should be a big help to dig that big hole.
So, we were out there in 80s sunny weather sweating huffing and puffing digging a hole in my front yard. A police squad car pulled up. The cop conveniently ignored me and wanted to see his ID. Someone had called the police on my ex! Some Karen bitch was intimidated by a black guy helping her neighbor plant a tree so much that she called the police on him.
This was, of course, before everyone had a smartphone that could record at a whim so we didn't record it.
But my point is shit like that has been happening to black folks forever. Every black person knows what it's like to be followed around in a store. Every black person knows what it's like to be visiting a friend in white neighborhood and have someone calling the police on them.
I know what you're thinking. So what if the cop wanted his ID? What's the big deal? The big deal is in the 21st century, a black person still has to justify his existence. We were planting a tree for goodness sake. And he had to justify his existence and presence while planting a tree.
I fully realize most white people still don't believe such a thing just doesn't happen.
First I have been followed around a store by plain clothes security, they get paid to follow people. Another time I stopped by a coworkers house, we were outside talking when the cops rolled up. It seems that his wife didn't know who I was and thought that I was going to rob him. Then there was the time that I was driving to the garage and was pulled over for a burned out tail light, the cop called back up. We all have our stories about life. I just paid a fine of $150. for playing my radio "too loud". Terms such as "every black person" are an exaggeration, I am sure that it has happened to many, but not every black person.


 
						 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		
 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		