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Anybody else NOT enjoy anal sex?

Some guys like it, some guys don't. What's there to discuss.
 
Sounds like you think you are supposed to like it. It's a personal decision. If it's something a lover would like more of and you want to please him, there are ways to try to make it more enjoyable. Otherwise, it's up to you and your partner to figure out how you are going to be sexual. I find that the beauty of being gay.
 
95% top here, but i had to try getting fucked at least once. i tried it with a uber-hot dude who's dick was slightly smaller than average - thinner so i thought that it would be a good time to try. i was wrong - it hurt like fuck. it was way harder than i thought it would be. he fucked me for about 4 minutes until he couldn't hold back, pulled out and shot a huge load all over my back up to my shoulders. don't get me wrong, it was fucking hot to try it, but i don't think it is for me. i don't know how the hell guys are able to take 8 inches+... but i am very very glad they do.
 
:wave: I detest it entirely. I don't like to top or bottom. I read that studies show that at least 20% (1 in 5) gay men never engage anal sex. I know Noel Coward (one of my personal heroes) didn't like it at all. There are plenty of guys who don't like anal; we're just ignored. It isn't something you're supposed to do, it's just something some people chose to do.
 
yes mee too i just think its nasty really for guys & girls to do it
69 is the best way to "get inside each other" without anal imo
 
Excuse moi!? You can choose not to do it, but please don't call it nasty.
 
I'm 100% top and my partner is versatile. I could get along with another top and not have anal sex but it's important to my guy so we do it
 
would never give or recieve it, but watching it turns me on...it actually disgusted me when I first saw it. All I could think about was poop and how gross and nauseating it was. It took about 4 or 5 years for me to get an erection watching anal...
 
yeah at first cock frotting was the only thing me and my boyfriend did but he always wanted to try anal! I hated anal and I think its sick but we tried it and it isn't that bad just I wouldn't bottom! Not me man! He wants to try it but I can't let that happen hahaha
 
I've never done it, but I'm open to giving or receiving. I would just require that everything be squeaky clean before we start ;)

Nothings more of a turn off than fecal matter :(
 
saymyname said:
Excuse moi!? You can choose not to do it, but please don't call it nasty.
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Why not? Let's say you thought Brussels sprouts were nasty. That might bother a Brussels sprouts farmer, but no one would take personal offense. It's just an opinion. Chill out.
 
LoveIsNow said:
Why not? Let's say you thought Brussels sprouts were nasty. That might bother a Brussels sprouts farmer, but no one would take personal offense. It's just an opinion. Chill out.
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It's an opinion that reinforces the idea that gay sex is dirty, despicable, indecent, etc. We have enough shame being forced upon us by a generally homophobic and sex-negative society, so we don't need to throw degrading terms around within our own community. For example, I'm not really a fan of getting handjobs, but I'm not going to call it gross. Or, if you prefer, I certainly don't like to lick pussy, but I think to call it nasty would be offensive to lesbians and bisexual women and straight and bisexual men. It could also be interpreted as misogynist in general. So calling anal sex nasty, especially in association with homosexual anal sex, could be construed as homophobic.
 
I think it's beautiful.

If you don't at least try it a few times, you don't know what you're missing.
 
saymyname said:
It's an opinion that reinforces the idea that gay sex is dirty, despicable, indecent, etc. We have enough shame being forced upon us by a generally homophobic and sex-negative society, so we don't need to throw degrading terms around within our own community. For example, I'm not really a fan of getting handjobs, but I'm not going to call it gross. Or, if you prefer, I certainly don't like to lick pussy, but I think to call it nasty would be offensive to lesbians and bisexual women and straight and bisexual men. It could also be interpreted as misogynist in general. So calling anal sex nasty, especially in association with homosexual anal sex, could be construed as homophobic.
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I really don't think most people are that vulnerable to be offended by an opinion. If people chose go to such great lengths to be offended, that's their problem. I do plenty of things that I've been told are gross, but I just don't let other people's opinions bother me, and in return I'm completely open with my opinions.
 
Anal is not for gay men and few straight. I enjoy the pleasures of rimming, oral delights and wating to have my ass fucked for first time.
 
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