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Anyone living with a ADHD, depressed and a schizophrenic person ?

It's not as easy as saying on meds means a sane, happy person, and off means a crazed person. There is biological evidence for schizophrenia more than any other mental illness. However, I have heard (not first hand) of people who on meds couldn't cope with the clearer reality of life and became very depressed.

I guess the bottom line is that in taking him on you are taking on some responsibility of assessing whether he needs more help, if he is very mentally distressed, confused, wants to hurt himself, etc. But I guess if he is functioning OK, all is well. And maybe I shouldn't be guessing this stuff at all. You should trust your gut and be concerned--I would in particular ask who his support people are in case you ever needed to call for him.
 
I'm really happy with you, Telly. Most people who has mentally ill friends/relatives usually alienate them right after they are diagnosed, and here you, as someone who has no connection and do not know him, choose to keep him in. Even though things could go unpredicted, I'm proud with your attitude (*8*)

Is he going to live for a long time with you? Because that is crucial. If the answer's yes, you might want to decide whether to involve yourself with his life or not and whether he will need you in cases of emergencies. And usually schizophrenic patients can experience recurrences when they are under stress --- so make sure you're not his source of distress.

Anyways, just being a helpful landlord will do for the moment :)

And when you start talking to your ass/foreskin, do tell us :lol:
 
onetwothreefour said:
It's not as easy as saying on meds means a sane, happy person, and off means a crazed person. There is biological evidence for schizophrenia more than any other mental illness. However, I have heard (not first hand) of people who on meds couldn't cope with the clearer reality of life and became very depressed.

I guess the bottom line is that in taking him on you are taking on some responsibility of assessing whether he needs more help, if he is very mentally distressed, confused, wants to hurt himself, etc. But I guess if he is functioning OK, all is well. And maybe I shouldn't be guessing this stuff at all. You should trust your gut and be concerned--I would in particular ask who his support people are in case you ever needed to call for him.
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I'll ask for his mums phone number. His mum live quite far.
His dad is in jail i think. Mum & dad are not together and they don't know where each others are.
 
freefall said:
I'm really happy with you, Telly. Most people who has mentally ill friends/relatives usually alienate them right after they are diagnosed, and here you, as someone who has no connection and do not know him, choose to keep him in. Even though things could go unpredicted, I'm proud with your attitude (*8*)

Is he going to live for a long time with you? Because that is crucial. If the answer's yes, you might want to decide whether to involve yourself with his life or not and whether he will need you in cases of emergencies. And usually schizophrenic patients can experience recurrences when they are under stress --- so make sure you're not his source of distress.

Anyways, just being a helpful landlord will do for the moment :)

And when you start talking to your ass/foreskin, do tell us :lol:
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I think so, i don't think he has much support from a dysfunctional family.
I'll be the main person to help in an emergency.

Well, we did talked about how often he cum and he said not often LOL
I told him about massaging guys and i got paid, and he know i'm gay :)
 
umm well as it happens i suffer from depression and have once put a gun to my head..it misfired and im still here as it were..

anyway ive been feeling quite down of late and rather lonely and alone , a bit lost as it were.
wouldnt mind hearing from some people who dont mind my listlessness or MIA periods , i dont come online much these days just havent the heart for it, cant really seem to stay focused etc etc

anyway would love to hear from any of you who care to send me a note or smile or converse some time..

Billy
 
I may be able to offer a bit of help. Sadly, not in regards to schizophrenia but to his depression. People can be depressed and healthy but it doesn't always stay like that. Another thing to consider is that everybody reacts to mental illness differently.

For me when my depression hit its peak, I became incredibly antisocial (almost like I was scared of them + noises/lights produced by them). I alternated between sleeping constantly and not at all. I never ate though. Well, never isnt absolutely correct but I generally ate every other day: no appetite, not some quest for the amazing skeletal body I've always wanted... (Not that I am THAT bad off).

When I was younger, I often used opiates to numb myself when I was depressed and it worked for the time. I am glad that I didn't use them throughout my last depressive episode as they would have made it so much worse.

I don't know enough about this person to give you any pointers. Getting his mother's information would be good, just in case of an emergency (or even better, his acting doctor/psychiatrist). Make sure that in requesting this info you ensure your intentions are for your peace of mind of his security (and thus your mental security of him as a roommate).
 
IrishBilly said:
umm well as it happens i suffer from depression and have once put a gun to my head..it misfired and im still here as it were..

anyway ive been feeling quite down of late and rather lonely and alone , a bit lost as it were.
wouldnt mind hearing from some people who dont mind my listlessness or MIA periods , i dont come online much these days just havent the heart for it, cant really seem to stay focused etc etc

anyway would love to hear from any of you who care to send me a note or smile or converse some time..

Billy
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I'm listening.
Hi ... :)
 
IrishBilly said:
hi...just a bit lost i guess, im very isolated and feel quite frustrated about it really have no idea where to start :confused:
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well, you want someone to send you a smile, there :) :)

Oh by the way, how often do you cum?
 
Yes.. my dad suffers from Schizophrenia .. and its very hard to deal with.
You never know when he`ll go crazy!
My advice would be to move out, ASAP.
 
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