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Are Bottoms Looked Down On?

Thank you for your responses, guys. They were very insightful and helpful.

I guess the reason why this issue is bothering me is because I'm the first one to discriminate myself as a bottom. I want to find a guy who'll let me top -- but I'm not sure that I want that out of my personal desire, or just because I see topping as the ultimate alpha male action.

Now here's some cheap psychology: ever since I was a child, my father, my mother and my older brother have looked down on me, especially on typical male things, like: they don't think I am a good driver, they will never let me drive the car, I can't be out till late (I am fucking 23) 'cause there are bad guys out there and so on.

They've always cut off my balls so to speak, so from my point of view, my being a bottom is just another example of me being in the passenger seat while others take control, that's why I might have trouble accepting it.

It feels like accepting that I'm gay all over again! :s
 
Well my fast, perhaps selfish answer is that bottom men are a national treasure. :D

But on a serious note, look at the responses in here: 90% of them are positive and supportive. Try to surround yourself with friends and people who are like that, who appreciate you for who you are.

Some people in groups will always take shots at people in other groups. Try not to get bogged down in that. If you keep friends who think you are great and can do anything, it will always make you feel better.

If you decide to date or partner or hookup with a guy, he should appreciate you for who you are, not make you feel bad (over the long term). Light-hearted role play is cool too of course.

Anyway. Just what I think.
 
I propose a STRIKE by bottoms.

Yes. Stop putting out altogether. All of you.

Then we'll see just how much tops sneer and deride. :-)
 
NineOfClubs said:
I propose a STRIKE by bottoms.

Yes. Stop putting out altogether. All of you.

Then we'll see just how much tops sneer and deride. :-)
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I wonder how long it would be until tops started trying to fuck each other

:lol:
 
In many cultures being a Top(Active) is not considered as bad as being a Bottom(Passive). In these cultures the woman has a passive role in sex. They are (once again) placing heterosexual roles in a Homosexual realm.
 
>>>I propose a STRIKE by bottoms. Yes. Stop putting out altogether. All of you.

How Aristophanes. :)

My personal experience has been that bottoms seem to "need" it more than tops. At least, I run into more gay guys saying something along the lines of "I need a cock in my ass!" than saying "I need to stick my cock in something!" But maybe that's just me.

Lex
 
I love getting fucked, and many of my friends--gay and straight--know I love getting fucked. I'm happy to be known as a bottom. It's actually never occured to me that anyone would look down on me for that reason, and I'm confident that no one has or would. I naturally assume that I'm admired in all aspects of who I am, including that fact that I like a stiff dick up my ass.
 
da BUM serve hu man ity well!
click feet ans attentions ans SALUTES DA BUM!!!

now da BUM go HELLO who up ma butt?
then guy go ooh ( bums cans talk now?)

but fa da new age folk like try out old age ways fa OOH ans what a mash of potatos dat is with old ways still goin

not a universials but talkin butts now

" butt butt ?"
butt butt butt buuuuuurrrrttt!
" ooh butt!"

all passengers now a livin please remeber take ya safty belts with ya

haaaaaaaa or :rotflmao:

one a hope flyin folk is good ans wear safty belts when visit nice folk all ova world ;)
 
SLOPPYSECONDS said:
da BUM serve hu man ity well!
click feet ans attentions ans SALUTES DA BUM!!!

now da BUM go HELLO who up ma butt?
then guy go ooh ( bums cans talk now?)

but fa da new age folk like try out old age ways fa OOH ans what a mash of potatos dat is with old ways still goin

not a universials but talkin butts now

" butt butt ?"
butt butt butt buuuuuurrrrttt!
" ooh butt!"

all passengers now a livin please remeber take ya safty belts with ya

haaaaaaaa or :rotflmao:

one a hope flyin folk is good ans wear safty belts when visit nice folk all ova world ;)
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Translation:
The bottom serves humanity well! Click your heels, stand at attention and salute the bottom!

Now the bottom says: "Hello!? Who's up in my butt?"
Then the top says: "Oh, bottoms can talk now?"

A portion of the new age folks like to try out old age ways for "Oo's and Ahh's" (and what a mess that is to deal with). The old ways is only dominant in certain regions and not universal. But talking bottoms now?

All sexually active men please remember to take your condoms with you.
One can only hope that traveling men are good at wearing condoms when having sex with men from around the world.
 
Sha-Rok said:
Translation:
The bottom serves humanity well! Click your heels, stand at attention and salute the bottom!

Now the bottom says: "Hello!? Who's up in my butt?"
Then the top says: "Oh, bottoms can talk now?"

A portion of the new age folks like to try out old age ways for "Oo's and Ahh's" (and what a mess that is to deal with). The old ways is only dominant in certain regions and not universal. But talking bottoms now?

All sexually active men please remember to take your condoms with you.
One can only hope that traveling men are good at wearing condoms when having sex with men from around the world.
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COOR thnaks ya help got right porka now! happy is is

world saved cause they got YOU!

;)

fairys a twinkles theirs toes ans flip flip! YAY!!!!
 
Mikami said:
Yes you can. Because it means they have remained ignorant and decided not to educate themselves or get to know the people they're racist against.…
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You sit in judgement of other peoples' attitudes.

But then I notice your motto~

"When in Rome we shall do as the Romans"

It's ironic. And hypocritical.
 
Are you kidding? I wish I can be a bottom or have the ability to take a dick and not bitch out because I can't take the pain.

If you're gay you're gay it dosn't matter if you're top, bottom, vers, or just like to mutually jerk off with guys. I know in certain cultures they do look down on the bottom more than the top because they think the bottom is more gay *rolls eyes* however they look down on the top too because he is still gay
 
This is sad that even in the gay community, we still discriminate against each other. I guess only time will smooth things out.

And by the way, its always those that have trouble accepting themselves that discriminate. Either that or their sociopaths who like to watch others in pain.
 
Geoffboyardee said:
This is sad that even in the gay community, we still discriminate against each other. I guess only time will smooth things out.

And by the way, its always those that have trouble accepting themselves that discriminate. Either that or their sociopaths who like to watch others in pain.
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I don't see the discrimination stopping anytime soon even with all the homophobia and hate we see outside the gay community.
 
Sha-Rok said:
Translation:
The bottom serves humanity well! Click your heels, stand at attention and salute the bottom!

Now the bottom says: "Hello!? Who's up in my butt?"
Then the top says: "Oh, bottoms can talk now?"

A portion of the new age folks like to try out old age ways for "Oo's and Ahh's" (and what a mess that is to deal with). The old ways is only dominant in certain regions and not universal. But talking bottoms now?

All sexually active men please remember to take your condoms with you.
One can only hope that traveling men are good at wearing condoms when having sex with men from around the world.
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Thank you! This is probably the first time i've understoof one of sloppyseconds
posts.:lol:
 
I really don't know how I did that...maybe I'm stoned or have been watching to much "dramatics"
GIFSoup
 
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