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Are Straight Men Automatically Sexier Than Gay Men?

Just wanted to say (and I forget a lot of what I was saying in this thread, exactly) ......

I'm cool with gay guys now as partners/lovers.

I think. I haven't actually had any new experience with them, unfortunately.

It was just... an ex of mine from a long time ago got into my head about all this. He cheated on me with a supposedly straight guy... I felt like there was something wrong with me for being gay.

I think I'm better now. Thank you, everyone.
 
Rocky said:
....I think I'm better now. Thank you, everyone.
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That's good.

Thanks for following up and updating the thread.
 
Completely depends on the guy I've seen str8 guys I would blow on the spot str8 guys I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole and same thing with gay guys it really is an individual thing!
 
Unless I am forgetting someone - all my crushes have been on other gay men. There might have been a straight one I am forgetting but automatically the "straight part" is more of a turn off than a turn on for me.

I definitely do not think they are automatically sexier than a gay man - I might even say I automatically think gay men are sexier than straight men.
 
jumpup2 said:
Since I consider myself straight/curious and have never had sex with a man I may not be qualified, When I'm around gay men and boys I flirt and flex more than I do with women. It may just be me.
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Hey noting wrong with that
 
Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder and thus very subjective, however it says nothing about the other person.

I'm attracted to the male form, so I rarely know their sexual orientation at the start unless it is made obvious, however, that attraction is conflicted by feminine behaviour in the other person. It disturbs me that I find feminine behaviour in a man off-putting, but that is how I respond. I can be friends with feminine men, but when it comes to sexual attraction, it is diminished and I don't know why I respond in this way. My personal response is not a criticism of those men in any way, shape or form.

The rise of transsexuality has been particularly conflicting for me as I find myself attracted by some elements of the person, but non-attracted by others such as the absence of standardised male genitalia.

To put it bluntly, the more female a person appears, the less I am sexually attracted to them, but that's just me.

The terms "gay" or "straight" are reductive because they only relate to sexual orientation and ignore other aspects of a person. In reality, sexual orientation itself is not a reliable indicator of anything: men will have sex with men depending on the circumstances, without either of them necessarily being same sex attracted. I believe that the male sex drive is paramount with sexual orientation a secondary biological influence that is also moderated by environment. I also think our brains are wired in varying degrees of maleness and femaleness, independent of our form, due to influences we do not yet understand.

The most important thing to accept is that the universe is diverse and thus people can not be criticised for who they happen to be or their personal preference, only for their actions in deliberately impacting negatively on another.

As for the topic "Are Straight Men Automatically Sexier Than Gay Men", the answer can only be No because it depends too subjectively on the men involved.
 
The Answer is No for In General. That is the thing about diversity, it depends on your individual likes.
 
There are a lot more straight men than gay men, so there's more sexiness to choose from.
 
Rocky said:
So if someone gave me the option between either Bruce Willis for a husband - or RuPaul - and I pick Bruce Willis, I'm hating myself?
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Wait. So Bruce Willis vs. RuPaul? Do you think all gay men look like RuPaul? Are you serious? You seriously not come up with gay men that stand in equal size and look as Bruce Willis?
 
so op didn't just like feminine guys he like the masc types... i think..
 
I hooked up with quite a few straight guys and it started out as a friendship and things end up happening. I said it tons of times I get along with straight guys much better then gay guys.


Most gay guys won't even pay you any attention if your not attractive or "Hott"
 
Yes and no.
Closeted bisexuals are sexier.
Closeted gays are too complex to manage, normal gays or bisexuals are too 'easy'...closeted bisexuals aren't so complex neither so 'easy' so they are the right might way!(no, i'm jocking i'm describing myself)

Seriously: a sexy man is sexy!
 
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