Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

[Sha-Rok]

In Las Vegas? Haha!....You're a basically a smoker if you've spent any significant time in any bar, casino, or club out here. But I don't get how you were planning to find a guy who doesn't drink at a bar?

 

[oakpope]

It's nice to have 'standards'. But it should not be limiting you. Don't wait for the man that ticks all the boxes. He doesn't exist.

What my limited experience has taught me is also this : when you think you're searching for someone, a perfect someone, in reality you may not be really searching. It's easier to think you're out to find love and a magnificent one, when in fact you're not ready and are very afraid to fall in love and be out of your comfort zone.

 

[medic1]

Wow. Is that a true story, or did you just make that up?

The OP wants "classy men with good values who are happy with who they are." Would such a guy murder people?

Think Ted Bundy, The Green River Killer , ect .

Alas i do not qualify as a classy guy because i have my dick pierced and i also have some GREAT art work inked on me .
You know what ?--------------None of that mattered when i received my 1st Degree or the MB Chp that i worked my bollocks off to achieve .

The fact that i have stunning Hazel/green eyes a dick just over 9 inches , i throw myself out of planes as all my mates on here can verify .
And just under the 6 ft mark , i may not be "classy" but , i sure am sizzling.................

 

[hylas]

eh, you dont sound like someone whos very easy to get along with, youre probably happier alone.

the good news is, youre still pretty young and presumably inexperienced. you still have plenty of time for getting off your high horse.

 

[crushinonted]

You're a 22 year old, non-drinking male in Las Vegas, who is looking for a serious, long-term relationship... based on the numbers, I would say you're the exact opposite of "normal". Don't fret! You're just ahead of your time. Most of your peers will catch up in about 4-5 years (I said, "most").

 

[sixthson]

It's not just about finding the right guy, it's about being the right guy. There is nothing wrong with having an ideal and I don't think you are asking too much, but when your standards are carved in stone, you get a rep as being too rigid and not allowing for the humanity of others. Some things we look for in others are non-negotiable, like fidelity, but other things should not stop us from opening up to another person, such as a guy who likes to have a beer.

Good luck, buddy.

 

[rareboy]

Soo, I just wanted to bring something up that has been frustrating me lately and that is the lack of classy men with good values who are happy with who they are, in the dating scene. I'm 22 now, and I've tried different avenues when dating, like meeting guys online, going out to bars, through friends, and local gay social events.

I'm looking for a guy who is clean, normal, respectable. Someone I can be proud to take home to my parents. That means no tattoos, no piercings, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't use foul language, and takes care of his body. You don't have to be a pro bodybuilder, but hitting the gym a few times a week and eating healthy foods is what everyone should be doing anyway. I'd think more gay guys would be into that.

I myself possess all of the qualities I have just mentioned, and have to believe someone else out there does as well, but right now I'm feeling super alone and hopeless. So what do you guys think?

They are definitely out there.

Maybe you'd find the guy of your dreams at the gym? Or in a running club? Or even a volunteer organization.

But make sure you cut some guys a little slack. You could throw away a diamond because you think it is just glass.

 

[LAPan75]

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They/We are out here/there....
but, the pricks get far more play since they have less scruples....
and thus are the majority of the examples everyone sees.

We have been looking for normal people for many years now and have yet to find one anywhere close to us.​

`

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

^That's because the very idea of normality is a sickness.

Thank hell people are starting to erradicate it.

 

[tcrawford18]

Oops sorry guys, I hadn't updated my profile before, so I guess I should just explain that I moved away from Vegas. Because, whoa yeah the guys there definitely all had issues. Now I'm in Ohio, much better. But still difficult to find men of my taste. Still not giving up though

 

[Seduce]

In today's society it's definitely difficult to find someone with each of those qualities, but they definitely exist. Heck, I'm 19 and I have those qualities so at least there is one person in the world that it's like you too.

I don't advice you to settle, but neither demand too much. Once love finds you, it will come in any package so you have to be ready to recognize it and go with the flow. Cheer up, you are just 22 so there will be A LOT of time for you to find your perfect match.

 

[JayHawk]

Oops sorry guys, I hadn't updated my profile before, so I guess I should just explain that I moved away from Vegas. Because, whoa yeah the guys there definitely all had issues. Now I'm in Ohio, much better. But still difficult to find men of my taste. Still not giving up though

Seems like you got a bit of advice and a lot of disgruntled "I don't fit the mold" guys. No matter. DON'T settle!!

Here is the thing, plenty of guys exist that are just what you are looking for but you cannot find them in the normal gay hookup methods. Let's face it the bar or grndr are for finding fuck buddies and sometimes it becomes more but that is very unlikely. Something like POF, A4A and GuySpy are equally filled with one timers but sometimes there are romantics on those places.

So if apps and clubs aren't turning the trick (no pun intended) then maybe you ought to get involved in something you think your perfect mate would be involved in around town. Working on the AIDS project, volunteering for habitat for humanity, volunteering at the VA hospital, and so on. I don't know you well enough to know what you give value to, but you do and you can figure it out.

Don't settle! I said it again because it is true. If you start out a relationship with the concept that a person has a giant metaphorical wart on their nose then you will never un-see it. You are 22 and want real relationship. Likely that means you will be waiting until you are older because most 22 year olds simply wanna get their rocks off. While you wait you will find some things you are looking for get more restrictive and some go away completely. But don't settle, because as soon as you do then the right guy, or what you think is the right guy will pop into your life.

 

[SaskGuy]

There's lots of guys like that, but you might need to compromise on one or two things. You're 22 as well, so you have a looong time to find the right guy, and there's lots of them out there.
Of course, it's possible that you'll find a guy who completely fits your criteria, and for a guy like you, it won't be too difficult... but if you compromise, you have a much greater chance of finding someone, and who knows? You might find someone who's absolutely perfect, that you would have passed up due to your high standards.

 

[Ryuukie]

You have to kiss a lot of frogs before one of them turns out to be your prince. Don't be so quick to rule someone out. You may be surprised of what lies just behind the surface.

 

[quasar]

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly”.

 

[-Kane-]

Much luck with all that

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[Scealle]

I am pretty sure they are out there, just don't give up trying My coach got a year plus skating offer back in Ohio and she told me the people there are pretty great so it probably shouldn't be too much of a problem.

 

[tcrawford18]

Thanks to all of you who told me not to "settle." Yeah that word doesn't even sit right with me. Definitely don't want to do that. But a lot of you have good points too, I'm still young and have lots of time to look for a guy that can make me happy on all counts.

 

[Boredd]

Just wait. Once you fall in love with someone, you'll fall regardless of what flaws they may have.

And love usually finds you when you're not looking for it. So I suggest just go with the flow, live life while you're still young and the right guy will come along