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Are you a top or a bottom

Would I be correct in assuming most of you "versatile" dudes would be single and playing the field ?


In a relationship, I just can't IMAGINE checking the "top/bottom roster"
- or flipping a coin - before bedtime

I'll always know - with CERTAINTY - when I make love with my man,
I do so want to bottom for him, as he wants to top me

I take a lot of security in this - as HE does.
 
Australian_Nude_Dude said:
This is a subject that has INTRIGUED me, of late
I'd usually found if you ask a guy if he's a Top or a Bottom, you'll get one of two answers

A. I'm a Top.
B. That's my business.

Now this is understandable, given the terminology.
'A' represents the highest rung on the ladder, while 'B' represents the lowest.
So it's been encouraging to see Bottoms lay their cards on the table - without hesitancy - and almost a sense of pride.
I'll put this down to a lot of positive porn role model Bottoms - in my case, the beautiful, sexy and charming - Danny Montero.

But I've wondered how many of you Bottoms are 'out' in your private lives, to your inner circle of gay and straight friends, your wider circle of gay and straight friends - and even your siblings.
A Top and Bottom relationship means MUCH more than what goes where in any sex acts.
It explains your WHOLE relationship dynamic - and how you relate to each other within that relationship

My BF is my do all and be all over every aspect of our lives together.
So of course, I love calling him "my Top" and me "his Bottom"
He's EARNT that supreme title, that I'm pleased to make official, publicly.

So my question to all you Bottoms out there, in stable relationships, is how PUBLICLY 'out' are you ?
And how 'out' would you like to to be - as a Top and Bottom couple ?

INTERESTINGLY, most of the young guys and couples I've spoken with in other forum thought the concept very appealing
MANY, said they were "already there"
The OLDIES - in contrast - were SHOCKED, almost OFFENDED - at the very notion of letting out such a 'personal' secret

For my OWN part, I've never felt so FREE, LIBERATED - and CONTENTEDLY HAPPY (even as an "oldie")
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If anybody asks me, I just answer the truth.
 
I'm a bottom after trying both top and btm throughout my experimental sessions over the year growing up. Always have found being a bottom and taking another mans hard cock and big head in between my cheeks feeling the head kinda pop into my tight hole before he slides it all in and holds for a moment, there's nothing anywhere near like the sexual pleasure being a bottom brings especially if you're lucky enough to have had a sissygasm. I'd probably choose being a btm over a vagina most times.
 
I'm mostly a Top. I will let somebody play with my hole, but nothing too big or more than 1 finger goes up it. Love having my Ahole licked though
 
I'm a pleaser. I love being manhandled and knowing he got exactly what he wanted. I've only given blowjobs, never recieved one, and dream of a man grabbing my ass with both hands and taking it.

I have zero interest in topping.
 
I'm interested in oral more than anything, but I'm a bottom. Bottoming is an experience that straight men in hetero relationships will almost never have a chance to try (unless your girlfriend is into pegging, I guess). So bottoming is more interesting to me because it's almost unique to male homosexuality. I also think it could be fun to submissively offer my body to be penetrated.
 
Bottom and love it. No need for me to top. very much a control freak in every day life but love to be totally submissive and a little fem with a strong black man
 
tabby82 said:
Total bottom here. Most guys I have dated have been tops, the only way.
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I fully agree.
I reckon most Bottoms (and Tops) have hit their practical sex lives as "versatiles"
I have the utmost respect for 100% total Tops - who refuse to bottom in ANY situation - as I think of 100% total Bottoms, in the same way.
It just shows to me a sense of dedication in following your heart, natural state - and destiny - regardless of what might "feel good" at the given moment.
This is my PERSONAL view - and I expect many will disagree.
When I meet a guy, I like my 'Bottom' status to be there on the table - ASAP - just in case - to avoid anything being misconstrued.


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