Ask The Pornographer - 2015

[Rex]

No. They're not. That's just them acting and knowing what needs to be done. What you see on camera is the performance I had to pull out of those guys. you don't see that 90% of the time they're having to spend off camera jerking off to straight porn to get hard enough for the next shot... I captured that scene in 40-second bursts. The things they said...the noises they made... I was feeding all of that to them. I would have to be talking through the whole scene saying "OK.. now smile a bit... make some noise... say XXXXXXX and give me some eye contact... now reach around.... OK, Devin, head back.... give me a ghasp.....ok Bo say XXXXXX"

It's like the Hokey Pokey. I was calling every bit of it.

Also remember that a lot of those guys were escorts so they knew how to act and perform to give the client what they wanted. Don't forget that it's a job. Female call girls also have sex with fat, ugly old guys and nobody says "well, they must like part of it." That's what it's like. Just a job.

Now that I work with Titanmen and I generally just work with gay men... I can actually concentrate on capturing the sexual chemistry between the men...



It's a conversation that I have a lot with people who just refuse to believe that the guys aren't having a great time. I guess it's a testament to how good I was at pulling performances out of those guys.

but there is no denying some of them get some form of enjoyment out of it. They may not be attracted to a man but the act itself might be enjoyable. I just don't see how they couldn't get some kind of pleasure out of it and still perform, but hey, you're the expert here.


Before this turns into a big debate on whether straight men in gay porn are really straight, I just want to say labels are just labels. Sometimes sex just feels good. If they were completely repulsed by the idea of having sex with a man, they probably wouldn't be there in the first place. I just don't see why anyone would escort their bodies and have sex with men to make money when they could probably make money doing something else, especially looking the way that they do. They get something out of it other than money that makes them want to do it. That's just my opinion.




Anyway, on to further questions:



1. How many guys who do gay porn, straight or gay, end up having regrets or it having a big impact on their future?

2. Why haven't any big gay porn companies tried to book straight men who work in straight porn? It wouldn't even have to be for a sex scene. I'd imagine getting someone like Brian Pumper or Dillon Day to do a solo jack off scene, or even a SG4GE scene would make HUGE amounts of money and it's something a lot of people would pay to see.

3. Do most people who get involved in gay porn seek it out or do you ever approach or contact people and convince them to shoot? On Military Classified, it seems as though the majority of guys on the site are found through craigslist, and the owner of the site who services them says he first pretends to be a female looking for sex on craigslist and then eventually tells them what the deal is.

 

[xboxfan34]

Another one, have you seen many gay porn stars become born again Christians after they retire and become really anti-gay?

 

[Rex]

Another one, have you seen many gay porn stars become born again Christians after they retire and become really anti-gay?

that kinda goes along with my question.


I've definitely seen one from Randy Blue. I wouldn't say he's anti gay but he is a born again Christian and became very religious a few years after doing porn. He identified as straight.

This also happens a lot with female porn stars.

 

[Soilwork]

but there is no denying some of them get some form of enjoyment out of it. They may not be attracted to a man but the act itself might be enjoyable. I just don't see how they couldn't get some kind of pleasure out of it and still perform, but hey, you're the expert here.

Like I said... when prostitutes have sex with very ugly fat guys... nobody says "well you did it so you must have enjoyed it a BIT."

Or... like when I was a teenager working at a hamburger joint in the stinking hot pit coming home covered in grease... nobody ever said "well... you go to work there so you must enjoy it a bit, right?" No... I needed money. That's it. It's a job. Go ask the Garbage Man how much he loves picking up garbage. He doesn't. That's his job.

I know you don't believe me and you keep insisting that they guys do enjoy it... The best way I ever heard anyone describe it was one of the Gay 4 Pay guys i worked with. He said "I don't get any enjoyment out of it, but... I mean... I don't mind it. I don't want to barf or anything. It's better than cleaning toilets, probably."

So... take from that what you will.


1. How many guys who do gay porn, straight or gay, end up having regrets or it having a big impact on their future?

I don't have actual numbers on that. I hear about it every so often but I think most people who go into porn know what they're getting into. Gay men especially aren't naive about how it'll impact their life. I always tell everyone that porn don't go away.. you can't take the piss out of the pool. If your family finding out will ruin your life... don't do it because they WILL find out.

2. Why haven't any big gay porn companies tried to book straight men who work in straight porn? It wouldn't even have to be for a sex scene. I'd imagine getting someone like Brian Pumper or Dillon Day to do a solo jack off scene, or even a SG4GE scene would make HUGE amounts of money and it's something a lot of people would pay to see.

SG4GE hasn't been in production for three years. The main reason is that the guys just flat out won't do it. They don't want to do solos. They usually didn't want to work for a site called "Straight Guys For Gay Eyes."


3. Do most people who get involved in gay porn seek it out or do you ever approach or contact people and convince them to shoot? On Military Classified, it seems as though the majority of guys on the site are found through craigslist, and the owner of the site who services them says he first pretends to be a female looking for sex on craigslist and then eventually tells them what the deal is.

I mean... there are no studios that will tell you how they recruit performers. Industry secrets are sometimes all you have. I know some studios do what Military Classified says they do, but Titan generally has the men come to us to work. If I see a man I want to shoot, I'll give him a card but that only works maybe 1 time out of 100.

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Another one, have you seen many gay porn stars become born again Christians after they retire and become really anti-gay?

No. I know Tom Katt became a preacher but he was pretty gay-positive. You hear about a few of them in the news, occasionally, but nobody that I know.

 

[xboxfan34]

I do find it really odd that Tom Katt is supposedly now "straight" and is a pastor, but he supports gay rights...

 

[Cormac135]

Good work getting Titan off the banned list

Do i get a free t-shirt for bringing it to your attention

Is Joe Gage still making movies ?

 

[MrPerfectMan]

I do find it really odd that Tom Katt is supposedly now "straight" and is a pastor, but he supports gay rights...

It's kind of refreshing, and there's a whole community of gay christians out there (gcn.net). I need to go look up Tom Klatt's church now and see how far it is from me...lol

 

[Soilwork]

I do find it really odd that Tom Katt is supposedly now "straight" and is a pastor, but he supports gay rights...

yeah, go figure.

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Good work getting Titan off the banned list

Do i get a free t-shirt for bringing it to your attention

Is Joe Gage still making movies ?

Thanks... sadly we don't make T-shirts anymore.

But yes... Joe is still going strong. I worked with him recently.

 

[Rex]

Like I said... when prostitutes have sex with very ugly fat guys... nobody says "well you did it so you must have enjoyed it a BIT."

Or... like when I was a teenager working at a hamburger joint in the stinking hot pit coming home covered in grease... nobody ever said "well... you go to work there so you must enjoy it a bit, right?" No... I needed money. That's it. It's a job. Go ask the Garbage Man how much he loves picking up garbage. He doesn't. That's his job.

All I can say to all this and your post above is we have very different views on what sexuality is.

 

[Soilwork]

All I can say to all this and your post above is we have very different views on what sexuality is.

OK then... tell us... they don't enjoy the sex, they only do it for the money, they can't get hard or stay hard longer than a few seconds, they often have a garbage can close by to spit after kissing or sucking a dick, They can't cum unless looking at straight porn on a screen usually held just off camera... but you insist they enjoy it in some way. So... in what way do they enjoy it?

 

[Rex]

Yeah… no offense. I don't buy that. It's one thing to do something you don't enjoy but can still tolerate doing it. It's another to be completely repulsed to the point where you want to spit up in a garbage can for some quick, fast money and have it video taped and available for the rest of time. If that was the case, I'd have to question the mental state of someone willing to put themselves though such torture for a few hundred dollars and then come back for more and more.


This is just something that's better off to say we agree to disagree. As I said, labels are labels.

 

[MrPerfectMan]

All I can say to all this and your post above is we have very different views on what sexuality is.

You can also say when you've had one too many gay drinks, you (hopefully) don't start hitting on old grannies, or goats, you're gonna hit on who you're attracted to. Now hopefully these gayforpay actors wouldn't be doing the deed for money alone if it was old grannies or goats sharing the bed. But if they're having to stop every 30 seconds cause they're not keeping wood, then that would indicate they aren't gay.

 

[Rex]

You can also say when you've had one too many gay drinks, you (hopefully) don't start hitting on old grannies, or goats, you're gonna hit on who you're attracted to. Now hopefully these gayforpay actors wouldn't be doing the deed for money alone if it was old grannies or goats sharing the bed. But if they're having to stop every 30 seconds cause they're not keeping wood, then that would indicate they aren't gay.

I never said they are gay. As for the rest of what your post, I didn't understand what you were trying to say.

 

[Soilwork]

Yeah… no offense. I don't buy that. It's one thing to do something you don't enjoy but can still tolerate doing it. It's another to be completely repulsed to the point where you want to spit up in a garbage can for some quick, fast money and have it video taped and available for the rest of time. If that was the case, I'd have to question the mental state of someone willing to put themselves though such torture for a few hundred dollars and then come back for more and more.


This is just something that's better off to say we agree to disagree. As I said, labels are labels.

I don't want to get into this but bisexual men always insist that everyone is bisexual. I don't know why, but they do. Most of them aren't "completely repulsed," but just get no sexual enjoyment out of it at all. I know you can't wrap your head around it.

 

[Rex]

I don't want to get into this but bisexual men always insist that everyone is bisexual. I don't know why, but they do. Most of them aren't "completely repulsed," but just get no sexual enjoyment out of it at all. I know you can't wrap your head around it.

and as I said, I don't buy into labels as much as you or some other people might, and I never claimed everyone is bisexual.

I'm just going to drop this now because your own thread is getting derailed.

 

[Soilwork]

if they're having to stop every 30 seconds cause they're not keeping wood, then that would indicate they aren't gay.

Or getting any sexual enjoyment out of it at all. They're not. But people will always believe what they want to believe.

 

[Soilwork]

and as I said, I don't buy into labels as much as you or some other people might, and I never claimed everyone is bisexual.

I'm just going to drop this now because your own thread is getting derailed.

no, this happens every time. We only just met so... every one of my threads turns into a clusterfuck which is why the purse fight smiley is named after me. I attract that.

 

[Rex]

I see. Well I don't want any part of it.

 

[MrPerfectMan]

I never said they are gay. As for the rest of what your post, I didn't understand what you were trying to say.

That's cuz I'm sick and high on theraflu. lol

 

[Rex]

Didn't know theraflu can make you high. Been there and done that with Sudafed and it was not an experience I'd ever want to go through again. The high from ambien… that might be a different story but we won't get into that.