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At what age do you want to "settle down"?

When do you want to be 'settled down'?

  • 18-25

    Votes: 5 9.3%

  • 25-30

    Votes: 17 31.5%

  • 30-35

    Votes: 16 29.6%

  • 35-40+

    Votes: 16 29.6%
  • Total voters
    54
I settled down at 33 :-)

Sometimes I miss my single days but having a loving companion is tops
 
I did my settling down at 25. There was no plan, that was the age to do it, it was was just how it turned out. Then we drifted apart after 13 years.

Now at 48 I've no desire to
 
herry1 said:
I did my settling down at 25. There was no plan, that was the age to do it, it was was just how it turned out. Then we drifted apart after 13 years.

Now at 48 I've no desire to
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If this were to happen to me I don't think I'd settle down with someone again. Not that I have regrets but I can't imagine being out there again.
 
I've struck gold myself. If for whatever reason I cannot be with him into my senility, I would not look for anything like it.

That being said, if lightning strikes twice, well, that's what my lightning rod is there for! ;)
 
Kulindahr said:
I've never been 'out there', thanks to my past. Don't know how, either.
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Kulindahr, I know too many people who found a match even very late in life for me not to comment. Have an idea of the sort of things you'd look for in a partner?
 
bankside said:
Kulindahr, I know too many people who found a match even very late in life for me not to comment. Have an idea of the sort of things you'd look for in a partner?
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Um... someone with a house, so I wouldn't have to go homeless?



Not really -- at this point it's hard to think. I just got news that someone who once explained to me that suicide was not an option is dead, supposedly suicide.
 
I voted for the first option being 25 I guess I could of chose. I know I have found the person I want to be with. and I know we both want kids so I dont want to be 40 - 50 taking care of a young kid or teen.
 
The man I've "settled" with was straight, lol. (Loser)

Anyways, I'm incredibly young, but I still want to be attached with someone deeply and do shit with them, forever. :(
 
I was settling down in the later yrs of a 12 yr relationship more so then my partner. When that relationship crapped out I quickly went back to same as before, same as it ever was, but shit I was 12 yrs older however time stood still and if feels like I never was in that relationship,but the day before I met him was yesterday and I was single then like I am tomorrow.
 
GL said:
i wish i were settled down in that coupled sense but considering the lousy prospects i've encountered i am coming to that point where any 'settlement' will be on a purely individual basis.

and being 40 years myself i'm troubled that the cut off age group in this poll is 35-40. its as if the op thinks that once you hit 40 gay life is over.
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Don't put words in my mouth. There were only 4 options, it was a technical decision.
 
GL said:
i wish i were settled down in that coupled sense but considering the lousy prospects i've encountered i am coming to that point where any 'settlement' will be on a purely individual basis.

and being 40 years myself i'm troubled that the cut off age group in this poll is 35-40. its as if the op thinks that once you hit 40 gay life is over.
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I guess it's time for me to go kill myself quietly in a corner..... sigh...
 
I voted 30 to 35, because the question was WANT to settle down, not WHEN.

Before 30 I wasn't mature enough, and that's ok, had my fun 8'). But the urge to couple and stay that way monogamously grew . . . had several relationships of three years or more since then: and now I'm happy being single! But like Swellegant, being content in being single means you are ready for settling down!

Go figure. . . .
 
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