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Being a gay male is a life ruiner. Reddit post.

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If the OP has absolutely zero desire to keep an open mind and at least try a different approach or attitude towards things then we're all just wasting our time here. When you fully dismiss literally every single piece of feedback given then you know there's a serious problem. Sadly, stubbornness will probably be his downfall.

You can lead the horse to water but we can't force it to drink..
 
mikey3000 said:
Then I suggest you start looking for love (?) in more appropriate places: jail, mental health institutions, grave yards, North Korea...

Wow. Just :eek:
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I know you were being extremely sarcastic with that, but shit.

Isn't love supposed to be love?

I'm a fucking gay black man, who the fuck am I to judge how people find love, however nontraditional they are?

I'm so fucking confused now.
 
Sebazz said:
Why do you ask for help then?
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In an attempt to maybe sway me or see it from another picture.

Or for someone to prove me wrong, or meet me halfway at least.

I'm being labeled as this miserable sadistic person for one, and I don't like that hsit.

Even if I were, don't I still deserve to be fucking loved? Shit. Fuck.
 
Taralen said:
I know you were being extremely sarcastic with that, but shit.

Isn't love supposed to be love?

I'm a fucking gay black man, who the fuck am I to judge how people find love, however nontraditional they are?

I'm so fucking confused now.
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No man, I'm not being sarcastic, I'm being honest. If you want to choose being miserable for the rest of your life, but don't want to be alone, then it's best you find equal misery to compliment yours. No not all love is love, sadness can be addictive too. You know by now, with your current attitude, no one else will touch you with a 10 foot pole, and you don't want to fix your attitude, so be it. It's ok. Find someone equally as miserable about your lots in life and whine together for the remainder of your miserable existences. It really is ok as not everyone needs or deserves to be happy. Besides without misery like yours, the rest of us wouldn't have anything to gauge our happiness against. Your misery IS beneficial for the rest of us. It's useful to those who want/need to be happy. Thanks. Luck to you, good or bad, how ever you want it.
 
mikey3000 said:
No man, I'm not being sarcastic, I'm being honest. If you want to choose being miserable for the rest of your life, but don't want to be alone, then it's best you find equal misery to compliment yours. No not all love is love, sadness can be addictive too. You know by now, with your current attitude, no one else will touch you with a 10 foot pole, and you don't want to fix your attitude, so be it. It's ok. Find someone equally as miserable about your lots in life and whine together for the remainder of your miserable existences. It really is ok as not everyone needs or deserves to be happy. Besides without misery like yours, the rest of us wouldn't have anything to gauge our happiness against. Your misery IS beneficial for the rest of us. It's useful to those who want/need to be happy. Thanks. Luck to you, good or bad, how ever you want it.
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But you make it sound like a bad thing. You make complaining bad? Why is complaining bad?

I don't want to be miserable, but I don't want to be a robot and perfect either.

I love my flaws. Sorry.

We are not robots. Life has ups and downs.

I would love to vent and express myself to my man and for us to fuck afterwards and have us smoke some marijuana and, go out and to eat and shit and get some ice cream. That would be so nice.

I guess I'm ET the Alien for thinking like that once again then?
 
mikey3000 said:
I think being born without arms or legs can be a life ruiner, but this guy won't allow it. He inspires me. And he's cute as fuck!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=707VD48BuOs

Or this father and son team. Both have a right to bitch about their lives, but instead they inspire.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rF7Bv9Rjl0E

I show these to you not to belittle your own troubles but to show you that ordinary people can do extraordinary things with the right attitude. I admire them to the stars and back.
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Very few people can do this.
Alot are "earth worms food" perhaps ...
 
Happenis1 said:
This pretty much nails it

Taralen - Why would or should anybody else love you when you don't even love yourself?

Back in my single days, I would go on dates and sometimes guys would subtly denigrate themselves or do something to show their low self-esteem and it would just be the biggest turn-off.

Confidence is the number one sexiest trait because it makes you look secure in yourself, makes the other person feel safe as well as reinforces the other person's decision to think its worth dating you.

Hey, if you don't even believe in yourself then why should anybody else? That's what most other gay men are probably thinking.

Based on your posts (especially in your other thread), it appears as if your strategy is to guilt men into dating or befriending you and this just doesn't work. The sad truth is that nobody owes you anything. Up your confidence game and you'll see better results in all areas of your life .
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Such a good post :)
 
Taralen said:
I'm not telling you guys to fuck off.

I'm saying if you guys aren't willing to at least meet my halfway and understand why I'm mad, then I don't know.

I'm aggressive yes, but I'm still a nice person.
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You need to join the army and tell the army trainer (i assume he is very strong and muscled)
"being gay male is a life ruiner ... " :lol:
 
So have we concluded at long last that being a homo is not a life ruiner?
 
According to Taralen posts,
he is quite scary to live with because of his thoughts ... but not sure about in person tho ;)
 
When even the OP realizes that they have no more to add to a thread but are just bumping it to take up page space....it really is time to let it die.
 
rareboy said:
When even the OP realizes that they have no more to add to a thread but are just bumping it to take up page space....it really is time to let it die.
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I'm not done with this thread. My post got messed up because the internet was acting up yesterday.
 
Nonsense. You are just bumping the threads because you are desperate for someone to argue with, or to validate your position.

Anyone reading even a couple of pages will quickly realize there's just nothing more to add.

Again, please seek a real therapist to work this out with. There's nothing more that anyone here can do.
 
rareboy said:
Nonsense. You are just bumping the threads because you are desperate for someone to argue with, or to validate your position.

Anyone reading even a couple of pages will quickly realize there's just nothing more to add.

Again, please seek a real therapist to work this out with. There's nothing more that anyone here can do.
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I'm not asking for help, I'm asking for discussion.
 
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