Being Intimidated by Good Looks

[Digicel]

How many of you have ever not talked to a dude because you thought he was too good looking for you?


I say just go for it. The worst he can say is, "no i am not interested"

Many more fish in the sea

 

[CumAlong]

All the time. I always feel like I have no shot with the hot guys I am attracted to

 

[Spiff]

Many more fish in the sea

Yeah, like this one.

 

[Digicel]

You know what really bugs me?


When a fugly rejects me.

It happened once..We met off of a site he had used someone elses picture to trick me into meeting him in person.

So we meet at the mall and the site of him made me want to vomit.

So then i get on his case about using other peoples pic.

Then he has the nerve to call me shallow for only caring about a persons looks.

I said no its not about shallow its about the deception. You misrepresented yourself.

Then he says in any event you are not my type and he walks off in a puff.


How did he think he was? giving me attitude...

 

[CumAlong]

But you're so good looking!
You'll have no trouble at all

You behave mister before I you. You're always making me ... and I love it.

I keep telling myself that things are gonna change, that I will just go for it, and maybe something wonderful will happen. But in practice, I don't know how well I am going to do..

 

[lovebraziliaboys]

Well usualy i'm always attracted to straight guys......so its a bit of both, the straightness and the good looks.

 

[Digicel]

But you're so good looking!
You'll have no trouble at all

Umm hello there will be no flirting and or cruising in this thread. So you two get a room.

 

[SilverWolf]

You know what really bugs me?


When a fugly rejects me.

It happened once..We met off of a site he had used someone elses picture to trick me into meeting him in person.

So we meet at the mall and the site of him made me want to vomit.

So then i get on his case about using other peoples pic.

Then he has the nerve to call me shallow for only caring about a persons looks.

I said no its not about shallow its about the deception. You misrepresented yourself.

Then he says in any event you are not my type and he walks off in a puff.


How did he think he was? giving me attitude...

Thats true.

I really have to wonder about some of the men i get. A few of them even ask me if i have friends that are online so they can give them a show too. They love showing off their penis to people.


A real girl would not be so obsessed with seeing a mans penis on webcam. But only some of them get suspicious.

Some of them as they see me online they just turn on the cam and jerk off for me.


Other guys say:













Some of the guys even show me their ass and open it up so i see the anus.

Crime of impersonating a female? lol


Drag queens be ware lol.


Get real.


I do these men a favor.

Some of them are so lonely and desperate for attention. And i give it to them. I make them feel loved and appreciated.

I help them to cum.

I am horny they are honry as long as we both cum no harm done.

In any event if they were smart they would know i am a man.

I have a strong feeling that 65% of them know i am a man.

When i ask to see their ass they should automatically get suspicious but only 5% of them get suspicious.

Well as i explained in the other thread.

I am only attracted to straight men. Seeing as how i am a man..i can never be with a straight man.

The only way i can be with a straight man is to be a woman on the internet.

Sometimes we even get into real relationships.

Yes they think i am a girl but they are falling inlove with me. I am speak for her. Its my words that they are drawen to my personality not my anatomy.


Everytime i fall inlove with one of the men i always ask them are you with me just for my looks and they always tell me that they don't really care about looks its my personality they fell inlove with so in essence they are inlove with me.


There is this movie called: The Crying Game; perhaps you've heard of it? It was Oscar nominated and everything.

At least i hone my craft online. I would never dream of doing what Dil did.


I hate that we fall inlove its never my intention but sometimes we just click.

Maybe he was hoping looks don't matter to you and you would fall in love with his personality. After all, who cares if he uses someone else pics, he got you to meet in person where he could make you swoon with his charm. I mean, that is what you do with straight men. Its not about looks or whats between your legs, its about how you guys click Maybe if he was straight and you pretended you were a female, and never met, and you kept lying to him you guys could be in love filled relationship based on deception

Justify it all you want. Either one day you will learn to love men who love you back, or you will find yourself trapped in a world of illusions, lies and deception with no "real" relationship based on honesty, or you will find yourself in prison like that one guy who is in jail for using your "craft" or one day you will screw up and fall to far into the lie and end up with cracked skull when somebody is pissed and discovers who you really are

Either way, its funny to me, you could get mad at him for misrepresenting himself, when you do it all the time.

 

[uniballer]

Well usualy i'm always attracted to straight guys......so its a bit of both, the straightness and the good looks.

Exactly! The gym I work out at has tons of hot straight medical students, so there's just NO chance because of the attractive factor, AND the straight factor. I tend to stick to hot daddies because they can be in great shape and attractive, but they're usually less snobby than younger jock-types, at least that's been my experience.

 

[G-Lexington]

I've never had a problem talking to somebody due to their looks, of either gender. Ever. Why? Because I'm so oblivious visually that I tend not to notice how attractive somebody is until somebody else points it out. I found myself conversing with a guy at a gay bar once, about nothing in particular, and when we parted ways, my friend was stunned that I would walk right up and start talking to him.

"Well, why shouldn't I?"
"Because that's (name)!"
"Who?"
"(name)! The model!"
"...and...they don't talk to people?"
"God, you're SO clueless!"

Lex

 

[Digicel]

Nothing beats a try thats what i always say.

Also there is someone for everyone.


Keep those in mind.

 

[Enigma63]

Never. Good looks don't make anyone Holy or supernatural.

i agree i have never met anyone that is better than me, good looks are so superficial, they only get you so far in life

 

[SilverWolf]

Nothing beats a try thats what i always say.

Also there is someone for everyone.


Keep those in mind.

If nothing beats a try, why don't you tell all those desperate horny "straight" men you love who you really are?
Its worth a shot (to you) and you may get lucky with a dick pic from one or a few of them. If not, at least you tried.
After all, you assume that most of them are suspicious or just don't care your a guy. Or if when you say nothing beats a try, deception doesn't apply as long you get what you want....unless the guys wants to meet you and he is fugly but gave you the pic of a model and said it was him, then it its deception and bad and misrepresenting himself

 

[MusicMan87]

I'm not intimidated by "hot guys", actually I'm turned off by many of them because a lot of them are assholes. They are stuck up and think that they are too good to even say hello back to a lot of guys.

 

[Digicel]

I'm not intimidated by "hot guys", actually I'm turned off by many of them because a lot of them are assholes. They are stuck up and think that they are too good to even say hello back to a lot of guys.

Maybe your approach was wrong.

For every action there is a reaction.

 

[SilverWolf]

Maybe your approach was wrong.

For every action there is a reaction.

I can't tell if your talking to me and referring to this post but if you are....

If nothing beats a try, why don't you tell all those desperate horny "straight" men you love who you really are?
Its worth a shot (to you) and you may get lucky with a dick pic from one or a few of them. If not, at least you tried.
After all, you assume that most of them are suspicious or just don't care your a guy. Or if when you say nothing beats a try, deception doesn't apply as long you get what you want....unless the guys wants to meet you and he is fugly but gave you the pic of a model and said it was him, then it its deception and bad and misrepresenting himself

If every action has a reaction, why do you make you actions based on lies and deceptions to get the reaction you want?

If you were not referring to my post disregard this

 

[AllMan]

SilverWolf, everything you speak about Digicel is GOLDEN.....I was sitting there reading his [strongly hypocritical] posts and wondering to myself "is this guy really deranged and thinks his logic is actually SANE?, or is he just talking outta his ass for the sake of inciting drama, attention, and shock value?"

 

[Digicel]

Looks can be deceiving. Sometimes inner beauty matters most.

 

[AllMan]

.....but to stick to the topic of the thread, no I am not "intimidated" by extremely good looking guys, per se'. There is a difference between extrememly goodlooking and cocky----and goodlooking and confident. I just choose to ignore extreme goodlooking people because more than likely they think they are perfect and God's gift to the world----I can't deal with that arrogance.

I know I am goodlooking and women AND men tell me all the time, but I am not arrogant, and cocky, and stuck-up...I am actually rather humble and although I "give a damn" about my appearance, I don't TRY to flaunt it.

More than often, I will go for the "average joe" with a medium build, great personality, and goals in life; over the Adonis that has nothing going for him other than his beautiful face and 6-pack abs....because the "goodlooking guy" thinks everyone owes him something and he can get whatever/whoever he wants, when he wants it!

 

[Digicel]

A person cant help how they look.

Sometimes a good looking person might even want you to approach them but the 2 of you miss out because the good looking person is shy and the average looking person fears rejection.


What is average looking anyways lol


If you see something you want go after it.

Do whatever it takes to get what you want out of life.

Don't limit yourself ever.

Yes you win some and you lose some but at least you know you tried.


Missed opportunities are one of the worst things ever.