Being Intimidated by Good Looks

[AllMan]

A person cant help how they look.

Sometimes a good looking person might even want you to approach them but the 2 of you miss out because the good looking person is shy and the average looking person fears rejection.


What is average looking anyways lol


If you see something you want go after it.

Do whatever it takes to get what you want out of life.

Don't limit yourself ever.

Yes you win some and you lose some but at least you know you tried.


Missed opportunities are one of the worst things ever.

Yes, we know that's what you stand for--especially since you trick str8 men into thinking you are a woman so you can get the satisfaction YOU want (nevermind THEIR wants and feelings), then get in a "relationship" with them just to lead them on & BREAK THEIR HEARTS!

 

[Telstra]

SilverWolf, everything you speak about Digicel is GOLDEN.....I was sitting there reading his [strongly hypocritical] posts and wondering to myself "is this guy really deranged and thinks his logic is actually SANE?, or is he just talking outta his ass for the sake of inciting drama, attention, and shock value?"

how can you read someone's posts and come up with him being deranged !!!

 

[SilverWolf]

I can't tell if your talking to me and referring to this post but if you are....




If every action has a reaction, why do you make you actions based on lies and deceptions to get the reaction you want?

If you were not referring to my post disregard this

A person cant help how they look.

Sometimes a good looking person might even want you to approach them but the 2 of you miss out because the good looking person is shy and the average looking person fears rejection.


What is average looking anyways lol


If you see something you want go after it.

Do whatever it takes to get what you want out of life.

Dont limit yourself ever.

Yes you win some and you lose some but at least you know you tried.

Thanks for answering my question Now I know, you have no regard for the other person's happiness or desires so long as you get the dick pic and maybe a relationship to make yourself feel loved. But a fugly passing himself as cute and meeting up with you? Shame on the fugly in your eyes What he did was wrong but at least you knew it was not what you wanted and could walk away. Imagine if he was only interested in an online relationship and kept lying to you and you fell in love with lies Wait, don't imagine ask one of your "straight" online-lovers.

Again, one day you will wake up to an empty bed with a email saying "I love you girl,even though if you were a guy I'd probably kill myself" or jail or a cracked skull.

But hey as long as you did whatever it takes to get what you wanted, its all good
Never mind the lies you told, the men you deceived, the fake relationships, as long as you got what you wanted its OK

(I'm beginning to see why straight guys never want a gay guy to look at them )

In all seriousness, I suggest you get help before you end up in a situation that that threatens your life, be it from a guy you lied to, or be it from yourself when you realize these guys only love your lies, and not really you

 

[SilverWolf]

SilverWolf, everything you speak about Digicel is GOLDEN.....I was sitting there reading his [strongly hypocritical] posts and wondering to myself "is this guy really deranged and thinks his logic is actually SANE?, or is he just talking outta his ass for the sake of inciting drama, attention, and shock value?"

Thanks!

Its nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels if you have no chance with a guy because he likes women only, don't lie and lead him on

 

[Digicel]

^^^

Yes make it a new years resolution for 2010.

Believe in yourself.

Know that no one is better than you.


Build that confidence and reap all the rewards.

 

[DeafFoxDemon]

sometime i do, but mostly i just tried to go for someone who have personally

 

[BabiGayPimp]

Yes I have been intimidated by guys who look like Gods, and I've always been wrong. The best looking, most gorgeous ones often turn out to be the nicest and most approachable. Best of all, they can be had, if you give them a chance, and give yourself a chance.

 

[Telstra]

Yes I have been intimidated by guys who look like Gods, and I've always been wrong. The best looking, most gorgeous ones often turn out to be the nicest and most approachable. Best of all, they can be had, if you give them a chance, and give yourself a chance.

mmm would be nice to learn from you.
Write more about your experience.

 

[sixthson]

I can't be the only one who cracked up over these two lines.

 

[Lefty]

Guess digi wigi is lucky he isn't completely ugly...ON THE OUTSIDE

what a pimple on the ass of a cancer jmho

 

[Telstra]

Guess digi wigi is lucky he isn't completely ugly...ON THE OUTSIDE

what a pimple on the ass of a cancer jmho

don't need to be too harsh Lefty.

 

[mydrew1]

I'm not intimidated, just betting they're straight like most guys.

 

[Lefty]

You are right telly, I should just put him on ignore and carry on.....maybe you guys down there will adopt him?

 

[Bidude117]

I just assume most hot guys are straight.

Plus, no one wants my ugly ass anyways.

 

[mydrew1]

Yes I have been intimidated by guys who look like Gods, and I've always been wrong. The best looking, most gorgeous ones often turn out to be the nicest and most approachable. Best of all, they can be had, if you give them a chance, and give yourself a chance.

And since you're the only one who knows of such people that's your good luck, not necessarily anyone else's

 

[Bidude117]

Yeah me too.

And I assume that they're bat-shit fucking crazy Rihanna worshippers as well. Keeps me from saying a word to them.

I am!

<3 Rihanna.

 

[Joshua_me]

Good looks are important. There's no doubt about that. Good looking people are treated better in our society. They can get laid easier, they get promotions at work, they often go through the first part of their lives having to develop next to no personality at all.

They didn't have to. They've received preferential treatment since the playground.

But.

Looks are only one piece of the pie. Base your life solely on the way people appear and you are in for a bitter disappointment.

First in others, then in your own reflection.

I never cease to be amazed at the 20-somethings on this board that use terms like "fugly" and "old guy" as if that's never going to happen to them.

Shallow gay men grow up sooner than they think into bitter old queens.

Be smarter than that.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>I never cease to be amazed at the 20-somethings on this board that use terms like "fugly" and "old guy" as if that's never going to happen to them.

The thing is - it HASN'T happened to them (yet). As long as they've been on the prowl, they've been attractive and desirable. And as such, fugly and old gays are "others" - annoyances that they have to deal with, like mosquitoes on a hot summer day. Will they eventually turn into one? Perhaps. And from what I've seen, these hotties-turned-notties simply start bitching that "gays are so damn shallow".

I should point out that it works both ways for me. In addition to never being intimidated by a guy's hot looks, I've never been repelled by a (f)ugly guy, either. That doesn't mean I seek out the less attractive guys, but I'm always willing to chat with them and see if something clicks. I figure it's what I'm asking of them, as well, so...

Lex

 

[BabiGayPimp]

mmm would be nice to learn from you.
Write more about your experience.

I could write a book about this. I've always had better luck with better looking people (bodybuilders, model types), perhaps because there's an aloofness and a curiousity that travels both ways and connects.

A couple of years ago, I became infatuated with a drop-dead gorgeous latino guy that I started seeing around town. We made eye-contact a few times, in a few clubs. One afternoon, at an outdoor gay function, I introduced myself and got him!

Then there was the pouty-faced lovely morocca-tino (Moroccan latino) I spotted at a local bathhouse who, initially, tried to ignore me. Before the night was up, I got him, orally, anally, and in a three-way.

And black muscle-bro's for days...Pretty people are often misunderstood and underrated.

 

[ibill1]

How many of you have ever not talked to a dude because you thought he was too good looking for you?


I say just go for it. The worst he can say is, "no i am not interested"

Many more fish in the sea

Yea, but all the ones my age are floating on the top!