xbuzzerx
CE&P Secret Police
Ok and see... while I'm not saying everyone should just say "fuck it," leave their high-paying corporate job to follow their dream of being a gay erotic film maker... I DO think that staying in the closet because "they'd see me differently" IS "self-handicapping and self-limiting."
I agree with that. But I think as happens in all of these discussions, that quickly morphed (in the general discussion, not specific just to you or to your posts) into "anyone not aggressively out in every conceivable situation is closeted, a coward, and making excuses."

