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Hey guys anyone else feel in everyway shape and form that you are gay BUT dont really find yourself checking men out at all in public? I mean I look at woman more in public but in my head I literally only picture myself with a man, like forever. I only fantasize about men, only watch gay porn, only imagine myself with a man, I just dont look at them in public at all. Anyone else feel this way? Am I wierd?? Lol hit me up guys, im always up for a good chat, or fuck hehe
 
I guess, I have to ask, what do you look at specifically when you look at the women, are you looking at the size / shape of their tits or butt? When you fantasize about men, what specifically are you imaging doing with them? Sucking their cock or being fucked or fucking them?
As far as weird, NO, I don't think it weird as anything about sexuality is not weird. Maybe more unusual but honestly, we are all different from each other to some extent.
 
Am not attracted to men. I don’t look at a guy and think whether he’s hot or not. Don’t get any excitement being around other men. Having said that - I am turned on by a nice shaved cock and balls. I could suck dick all day. And I love the taste and texture of a man’s cum in my mouth or on my lips. I have bottomed several times and totally enjoyed it. Though I pride myself in being a good cocksucker and bottom, it’s always more about my excitement in the moment. After the deed is done don’t want to hang around for long.
 
dbeatty5476 said:
Am not attracted to men. I don’t look at a guy and think whether he’s hot or not. Don’t get any excitement being around other men. Having said that - I am turned on by a nice shaved cock and balls. I could suck dick all day. And I love the taste and texture of a man’s cum in my mouth or on my lips. I have bottomed several times and totally enjoyed it. Though I pride myself in being a good cocksucker and bottom, it’s always more about my excitement in the moment. After the deed is done don’t want to hang around for long.
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Me too.
 
I suspect a lot of that goes back to "gay guilt" from your upbringing. I am guessing you grew up that straight is "normal" and that there is something "wrong" with gay or being attracted to me.

So in your mind you want to be turned on by women but your body is turned on by men.
 
Joey69 said:
Hey guys anyone else feel in everyway shape and form that you are gay BUT dont really find yourself checking men out at all in public? I mean I look at woman more in public but in my head I literally only picture myself with a man, like forever. I only fantasize about men, only watch gay porn, only imagine myself with a man, I just dont look at them in public at all.
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As an above poster wrote, I too think some of this behavior could be long-internalized guilt to be "caught" looking at another guy vs. what's a societal "norm" (at least in older, not particularly progressive - or even religious - teachings) of looking at the opposite gender.

I'd actually be curious if this "looking" at guys in public changes when it might be situationally appropriate, accepted and even encouraged! For example, in a gay club. Or anywhere in a gay district/gay village neighborhood. Or a gay-oriented boat cruise, etc. If you remove an expectation of "dudes just look at chicks" from your thinking by putting yourself in a gay-friendly public situation I wonder if it'd change for you. If it did, then take that confidence and realization that "you're still you" into situations you're in now where you might be okay with it, even if it's deep down in your subconscious that you're somehow not okay with it.
 
jjonn3 said:
I suspect a lot of that goes back to "gay guilt" from your upbringing. I am guessing you grew up that straight is "normal" and that there is something "wrong" with gay or being attracted to me.

So in your mind you want to be turned on by women but your body is turned on by men.
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No guilt. I’m just not attracted to men. Why can’t it be that simple.
 
jjonn3 said:
I suspect a lot of that goes back to "gay guilt" from your upbringing. I am guessing you grew up that straight is "normal" and that there is something "wrong" with gay or being attracted to me.

So in your mind you want to be turned on by women but your body is turned on by men.
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I would say thats pretty accurate lol. For some of us living the life we want and need isnt always an option.
 
I found myself in a similar boat, that was until I went to a gaybar.
I would have the fear that "what if they aren't gay" and they ridicule me.
But in a gay bar it's a total open space that everyone is happy to chat and flirt with.
 
Joey69 said:
Hey guys anyone else feel in everyway shape and form that you are gay BUT dont really find yourself checking men out at all in public? I mean I look at woman more in public but in my head I literally only picture myself with a man, like forever. I only fantasize about men, only watch gay porn, only imagine myself with a man, I just dont look at them in public at all. Anyone else feel this way? Am I wierd?? Lol hit me up guys, im always up for a good chat, or fuck hehe
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Feel kinda the same way, no attraction in public, but in private way more into them
 
Some of y'all need to lay off the porn and masturbation.. if your only interested in covk that's the porn addiction
 
I understand and can relate. I’m not really into men in public either. However, all of my thoughts and fantasies have always been with men. I watched some heterosexual porn only to find myself focusing on the man’s cock. So, I started watching gay porn and now it is exclusively what I watch. I’m not aroused at all watching heterosexual porn. Though I agree that women are beautiful to look at and I notice females in public. As a general rule, I do not check out men in public. Though sometimes I may think, what would he look like naked, what would his cock look like? Maybe that came from the gym shower over the years. There were always guys that I was attracted to in the shower and then seeing them with clothes on, not so much. I’ve never been to a gay bar but I think I would if I knew of any. My curiosity is killing me. I’ve always wanted to suck cock and eat cum from a very early age. Never understood that, but I still want it more than ever. Maybe if I finally experience the gay sex that I so desire, I might view guys differently in public?
 
firsttimeagain said:
I understand and can relate. I’m not really into men in public either. However, all of my thoughts and fantasies have always been with men. I watched some heterosexual porn only to find myself focusing on the man’s cock. So, I started watching gay porn and now it is exclusively what I watch. I’m not aroused at all watching heterosexual porn. Though I agree that women are beautiful to look at and I notice females in public. As a general rule, I do not check out men in public. Though sometimes I may think, what would he look like naked, what would his cock look like? Maybe that came from the gym shower over the years. There were always guys that I was attracted to in the shower and then seeing them with clothes on, not so much. I’ve never been to a gay bar but I think I would if I knew of any. My curiosity is killing me. I’ve always wanted to suck cock and eat cum from a very early age. Never understood that, but I still want it more than ever. Maybe if I finally experience the gay sex that I so desire, I might view guys differently in public?
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Go out and explore bro. Hot up Grindr or find a guy who willing to let you play
 
Biggijstar said:
Go out and explore bro. Hot up Grindr or find a guy who willing to let you play
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I have thought a lot about it, but it has to be safe in every way. It can’t be with just any horn dog either. I joined a dating site thinking it might be guys looking for more than a hookup. Once would never be enough. So far it’s been a waste of time and money. But, we will see. A JO partner would be a good start but that would still need to be someone trustworthy. It’s a dilemma for sure.
 
firsttimeagain said:
I have thought a lot about it, but it has to be safe in every way. It can’t be with just any horn dog either. I joined a dating site thinking it might be guys looking for more than a hookup. Once would never be enough. So far it’s been a waste of time and money. But, we will see. A JO partner would be a good start but that would still need to be someone trustworthy. It’s a dilemma for sure.
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It is I want you to have fun
 
I’m not attracted to a guys face at all. But I am attracted to women.

I look at a nice ass though no matter what it’s attached to. But I also enjoy seeing a nice looking dick.

I also don’t mind sucking dick. But I’d prefer to just get mine sucked.
 
yeahrightsd said:
I’m not attracted to a guys face at all. But I am attracted to women.

I look at a nice ass though no matter what it’s attached to. But I also enjoy seeing a nice looking dick.

I also don’t mind sucking dick. But I’d prefer to just get mine sucked.
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You probably need to stop porn or masturbating. You can't be not attracted to men if your sucking. Don't be using men if your not even attracted get a dildo
 
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