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alzmqp

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Hello. I am 28 years old, single. I would like to extend a warm welcome to all of you. This is my first post here, however I have been browsing the forum for months. I am very pleased to be here with you 🙂
I would like to ask you how to stop being ashamed of my body hair, especially the one on my chest? My chest hair pattern is something between PS and PSI (a little more than PS, less than PSI). As a rule, I don't wear v-neck and other shirts that expose my chest hair, because I'm ashamed of showing it. You'll probably find this strange, but for example, I haven't worn shorts for years because I'm ashamed to show the hair on my legs. I am also ashamed to be unshaven at work. There are more such examples.
I am ashamed to show my body hair both in front of family, friends and others. I can't somehow overcome my resistance - I think some people would think it's disgusting and unfine. What is interesting, while I'm ashamed to show that I am quite hairy, in case of other men I find body hair extremely sexy and exciting. Thus, I don't want to shave my body hair, I just want to stop feeling embarrassment. What would you advise me?

Thank you in advance for your answers.
 
The only suggestion I have is to browse the hot guys sub forum and see how attractive and sexually appealing body hair can be. Many of the members comment on how good looking a guy’s chest hair can be and many comment on how disappointed they are when a guy shaves his hair off.

And if you need a confidence booster share pictures of your chest in the amateur sub forum. I’m sure you’ll get lots of compliments.
 
No reason to be embarrassed, tbh.
 
Try challenging yourself and your fear by going out of your way to show off your body hair.

I always had my shirt open and/or off because it was too damn hot otherwise and I used to dance alot in clubs and got soaking wet in the process and needed the air.

The other thing - even though it is a pain in the ass (or chest:rolleyes:) when guys come up and rub your chest and try to pull out a hair or two (like who likes that????) - the hair on my chest and legs got me alot of dates and sex when I was single - so I say rock it and maybe if you do that enough your fear and shame will dissipate.

Can I ask - what is it exactly that you are ashamed by? Is it hair in general or the type of hair?
 
What do PS and PSI mean? (I'm hopeless when it comes to initials and contemporary slang.) As you mention you find body hair sexy and exciting, so I won't suggest you shave. If, however, you think you may be too hairy, you should consider getting a trimmer--there are many to choose from--which have attachments or adjustments which will allow you to trim to a length you may like better. Scroll through Instagram and you'll find good-looking guys with great bodies who over a period of time post pictures of themselves, hairy and smooth and various stages of trimmed.

A random search came up with this guy:

 
Love hairy legs and chest. At 28 it's time to not give a fuck what others think of you. As long as your hygienic and smell good. My 2 cents.
 
alzmqp said:
What is interesting, while I'm ashamed to show that I am quite hairy, in case of other men I find body hair extremely sexy and exciting. Thus, I don't want to shave my body hair, I just want to stop feeling embarrassment.
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That is rather odd. I imagine most guys either embrace their hairiness and show it off or dislike it and shave. Either way, there's absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. I suggest you just get yourself out there and show (in a tasteful way!) what you've got. I'm sure you'll only get positive reactions.

There are a lot of guys here who like hairy, yours truly being one. Post a couple of photos in the show yourself off forum and you'll see what I mean!

Welcome to JUB.
 
I love a guy with hairy chest and legs. Nothing to be embarrased about.

Hope you get over your embarrasment.
 
My body hair is annoying, if I don't trim it down I end up like a real bear. Also its itchy and annoying. Just get a body hair trimmer.
 
Try to examine the underlying reasons for why you have this shame. The fear that people might find it unappealing is an effect of that fear so you have to dig deeper.

You didn't mention if you are out to your family and friends, or if you're personally accepting of being gay. If you're not, this could be a reason. Your attraction to other hairy men coupled with the fact that body hair usually starts appearing around the same time when we discover our sexuality could mean that you're associating it with being gay.

Do you spend a lot of time on social media? As far as appearance is concerned, current social trends favor primped, feminized versions of masculinity over a more natural look, so if you're a 'go with the flow' type of guy, you might be unduly influenced by thirteen year old girls who grew up fawning over hairless teen idols A quick search on youtube for body hair only turned up videos on how ro remove it. I did find this though . .


(Not sure why he says he loves his body hair and then trims it so close you could grate cheese on his chest, but alright)

Are you sexually inhibited? This could be another reason. Perhaps you haven't been with a lot of men who are turned on my it. If this is the case, message me and I'll come set you straight, so to speak. ;)

But since you yourself are attracted to hairy guys, try to internalize that. A lot of guys on this thread are into it, myself included. So try to sidestep the shame and instead figure out why you feel this way. Maybe do some reading on overcoming body shame (there's plenty of content out there) because that's what this basically boils down to.
 
Totally puzzled as to why you are embarrassed about body hair.

There are literally millions of guys who find hairy men incredibly sexy...I certainly do. and I love when you can see their hairy legs and chests when they are wearing shorts and open shirts...just wanna grab some of that delicious goodness.

I love seeing untrimmed and trimmed.

Post some pics of you in shorts here or shirtless and there will be a lot of support and maybe you can get over being so self-conscious.
 
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Welcome to JUB - no need 2 be ashamed - body hair is beautiful..!

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Oh sweet Jesus.
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