Bottoms that don't get hard.

[bnabottom]

Being topped is really not the most comfortable (or pleasent) feeling in the world. It can be awkward and/or downright painful. So it makes sense when guys are flaccid when their asshole is being continually jabbed.

Actually those of us who are bottoms find it very pleasant. The whole point of many of these posts--although you seem to have missed the point--is that having a hard on and experiencing pleasure are not always synonymous.

 

[cocksucker4use]

Dunno....think it is a function of age...at 18, i would stay hard no matter what...fast forward 30 years...no way, jose....sometimes i will precum ALOT, but not cum getting porked ....

 

[catcherboy]

Actually those of us who are bottoms find it very pleasant. The whole point of many of these posts--although you seem to have missed the point--is that having a hard on and experiencing pleasure are not always synonymous.

precisely. frankly i could care less whether i'm hard as long as he is.

 

[MyReply]

Actually those of us who are bottoms find it very pleasant.

I'm happy for you.

The whole point of many of these posts--although you seem to have missed the point--is that having a hard on and experiencing pleasure are not always synonymous.

Gee willy wilikers...was that the point that I missed? Damn...

 

[randomdude24]

I'm always soft when bottoming. Same when I finger my ass... I can cum by jerking off while getting fucked, but when I shoot my dick will always be half-soft. Must be some kind of physical reaction because it's certainly not from the lack of enjoyment!

 

[bnabottom]

Bumping this threat hope for more comments

 

[RiverRat]

I would say at best I might stay semi-hard some of the time but I usually drip like crazy and often milk out without an orgasm. I like feeling vulnerable and used.

 

[UncutBrit]

I'm always hard - whether I do anything about it is a different matter. Have had a mate use big toys on me but I was still rock solid. Used to hate being fucked after I came but one time I let this guy carry on, I worked thru it and now I love the feeling of coming out the other side. So horny.

 

[maxibutt]

I'm always hard - whether I do anything about it is a different matter. Have had a mate use big toys on me but I was still rock solid. Used to hate being fucked after I came but one time I let this guy carry on, I worked thru it and now I love the feeling of coming out the other side. So horny.

Yup, I'm almost always hard when my ass if filled up. I love it and even when I think of something up my ass, my cock starts to grow..... I'm such a shameless bottom...

 

[versatileplayer]

Glad to see this thread resurge. As I've said already, I find both soft and flacid dicks a total fucking turn-on. I've toped guys who were submissive, and topped guys that were really aggressive. Variety (in sex) is the spice of life.

But on a personal level, I find the idea of being a bottom who's only sexual purpose is to provide the top an orifice for the tops orgasm hot beyond words. And I love the almost romantic notion of the bottom getting so much pleasure from the tops actual orgasm that the bottom doesn't even have to achieve one himself! In other words, that orgasm is shared, but only the top gets to have the physical one. The bottom, being in service, only gets to ride the momentum and force that the tops orgasm brings. This is something I've personally experienced as a bottom. For me, that's a sexual ultimate. And few other experiences I've had come close to the wonderment that this one brought!

The best is getting fucked after you've cum - like your man jacks you right off so that when he's fucking you - you aren't hard - or maybe not even liking it....... maybe it hurts a lot - maybe you can barely handle it.......

 

[versatileplayer]

I'm always hard - whether I do anything about it is a different matter. Have had a mate use big toys on me but I was still rock solid. Used to hate being fucked after I came but one time I let this guy carry on, I worked thru it and now I love the feeling of coming out the other side. So horny.

milk your sack dry - and then let the tops have a go at you - it's fucking hot - a 6 inch feels like an 8 ...... 8 is like 12......

 

[Almostvirgin]

I don't get hard at all, in fact I don't even think about my dick when I get plowed. I just focus on the other dick, and hold on tight!

 

[LongShot23]

I basically get hard on my way to the bedroom (or where ever...) and stay rock hard until sometime after the whole session is over. I find it a little difficult to keep my top's cock inside me after I have cum, so I time it so my top cums first and then, with him still inside me, I beat off or he beats me off until I explode, which is mere seconds at that point. From what I hear though, it sounds very interesting to not pay attention to my own cock and concentrate on the cock that's inside me, so I think I'll try it as soon as I get a chance. Hot stuff!

 

[meluvjan02]

Some of my favorite porn are vids of soft-cocked bottoms.Vids were it is obvious the bottom was chosen to be of submissive service to the top.That's why I LOVE muscle stud Marcus Mojo/Landon Mycles!!!So many hot pics on the net of his small cock lying limp while some big-dicked top pounds away at him.Gets me off every time!!

 

[versatileplayer]

I basically get hard on my way to the bedroom (or where ever...) and stay rock hard until sometime after the whole session is over. I find it a little difficult to keep my top's cock inside me after I have cum, so I time it so my top cums first and then, with him still inside me, I beat off or he beats me off until I explode, which is mere seconds at that point. From what I hear though, it sounds very interesting to not pay attention to my own cock and concentrate on the cock that's inside me, so I think I'll try it as soon as I get a chance. Hot stuff!

If you cum first - just take it boy! If he's 7 inches it will feel like 10. If he's 9 inches it will feel like 15.

I love getting fucked after I cum and just grinning and bearing it for him - take the pain for his pleasure.......

When I top too - I love fucking the bottom after he cums and just making him take it "come on baby you can take it - come on baby just a little longer...."

 

[versatileplayer]

haha...that's basically how it is with me as well.

If it's a really giant dick - my cock won't stay hard - but I drip precum the whole time and I just take dick - love it - just surrender my pussy to the dick and let that cock have it's way with me

 

[maxibutt]

I don't have much experience with men, but the times that I was fucked I was ROCK hard and precumming everywhere. I couldn't touch my dick and didn't let the guy touch it because I was sure I'd cum and I wanted him to keep fucking me it felt so good. Also, when my gf fucks me with a strap on, I am rock hard too. A few times she turned me on so much with dirty talk and foreplay that I had a mindblowing orgasm when she penetrated me. I get hard just thinking about it in the ass. It's so fucking good

Wow, you nailed it. I have the same reaction pretty much every time.

 

[smoothoralbottom]

I pretty much have to agree with this post. When I was younger I stayed hard the whole time. It was new and was turned on by the whole experience, like I was doing something naughty and taboo. I was getting fucked in my ass and I think I was more turned on by the whole thought of being fucked rather than actually being fucked.

I don't bottom much anymore but I do use my dildo on myself and I am rarely hard. I think I benefit more because if I'm hard I just want to stroke and I end up cumming in a matter of minutes. So I'll ride my dildo for quite a while massaging my taint, pinch my nipples, going deep, squeezing down, pushing out. Just enjoying the "fucking myself" experience. The whole time, my cock is flaccid and just flopping around. Once I can't take it any longer, that's when I start stroking myself and I end up cumming a fucking river in five minutes flat. But I also love the feeling of my anus being my primary sex organ. I just enjoy the thought of being penetrated, getting fucked and being in heaven without my cock ever being touched.

After not getting fucked for a long time, I have gotten into it again, and vice versa. Frankly, when i was younger as a bottom i stayed hard, now i go flacid pretty much when penetrated and stay that way for like a half hour or so after he's done....have come to enjoy gettin it and feelin the hole experience and not to worry about my cummin....let's me play longer and with multiple tops, just like being an oral bottom.....and....have come to appreciate my anus a my primary sex organ.

 

[netgayone]

Hi everyone, new here and this thread made me register.

Getting fucked and stay flaccid has become one my recent fantasies but i can not really achieve it. I try to relax, I try to focus on my hole but i can't lose my erection. I told my BF about it but he doesn't like the idea very much although he loves that I finally stopped playing with my dick while he is fucking me, so now I can enjoy him to the max.

Are there any techniques? Any sites with advice on the matter? Maybe another thread I should check?

 

[CallMeHTD]

Some of the posts above talked about cumming first, then letting the top fuck your hole. Have you tried this?