Bottoms that don't get hard.

[netgayone]

Some of the posts above talked about cumming first, then letting the top fuck your hole. Have you tried this?

Thanks, I will try it even though the times that i wasn't really into sex, still I was hard as always.

 

[asianstudlover]

That being said, I DO enjoy making a bottom cum by the sheer force of my fucking him.

HardKinkyBoi, that IS also hot. I always dig those flicks where the bottoms wear jockstraps and never even take their penis out. Better yes, I get off on seeing a bottom get fucked wearing a pair of white briefs that have a hole cut out in the ass... VERY hot.

This is so hot. Or even if both of them have briefs on, and the top only pulls his cock out and he pulls the bottom's briefs down just enough to fuck him. So hot.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Not always, but often I'm soft when being fucked.

I think I stay hard when I feel there's a chance for a flip/flop and I'll get my turn.

So, what I'm saying is that versatile guys are the hottest...

 

[versatileplayer]

Not always, but often I'm soft when being fucked.

I think I stay hard when I feel there's a chance for a flip/flop and I'll get my turn.

So, what I'm saying is that versatile guys are the hottest...

My bf is a big dicked versatile - and that's really the only kind of guy I can partner up with for the long term.

I can't think of just topping or just bottoming....... I'd never be happy unless all my parts are well used.

I like flipping - but also like regular old - you bottom - me top kind of sex too...

 

[cocksucker4use]

Some of the posts above talked about cumming first, then letting the top fuck your hole. Have you tried this?

The way this is described above, cumming and then enduring the pain of gettin fucked after the bottom cums appeals to me as a submissive pig bottom. Always had to be pretty horney to get fucked and be able to take it anyway, as it often hurts me alot until my (still tight!) hole opens up fully to accommodate my top's cock...and then I really get the physical and emotional ecstasy that only a hard cock deep inside me can provide. When I do cum while bein fucked I am then hella over it and get off the bone, usually suckin him off or whatever he wants. This alternative is interesting, and I will try cummin and then takin it until HE is done with me. Have a dom who will think this is hella hot....sometimes I think he hesitates to fuck me because he knows I enjoy it SO much....If he knows I am not likin it though, it will maximize his pleasure and control of me, and he will prolong the experience and ultimately nutt in me like a motherfucker as he ignores my pathetic whimpering and begging. It will be the price I have to pay for the privelege of his dick inside me and that I was allowed to cum at all.

 

[bnabottom]

Bumping this one...

 

[hotatlboi]

I like seeing guys that stay soft when they get fucked too. It is about the submissive thing. They are the recepticals for the tops pleasure not the ones to be pleasured.

I usually stay soft when I'm bottoming but it is definitely pleasurable for me.

The top isn't the only one getting pleasure.

 

[KptnLine]

Found this thread and had to comment since so much of it applies to me.

I have one for you guys- does anyone else get turned on by bottoms who stay flacid while getting fucked? I don't know why, but I LOVE seeing that. Love seeing a huge cock plow a tight little ass, love seeing the duality of a big erect cock fucking the hole of a bottom who's unerect cock looks tiny in comparison. It's even better when the bottom doesn't get himself off in the scene. It's all about the top and his dick plowing hole until he cums. Awesome.

I guess it's kind of personal for me. One of my occasional favorite things to do is service a guy and completely ignore myself in the process. Sometimes I even keep my clothes on, while I give total head-to-toe mouth service to a man until he shoots. So I guess it's the total submissive thing for me that gets me off.

Anyone else feel this way?

When I first started bottoming, I would usually get hard and go soft on and off during anal sex...But this was also when I was jerking off 1-2 times every day AND having sex. I started getting into orgasm denial with myself about a year ago and I gradually reduced and then basically stopped masturbating between sex sessions. I had a conversation with my bf about this and he and I started practicing orgasm denial together. Now not only was I not masturbating, but he would frequently fuck me without giving me an orgasm.

Now, I was usually rock hard the whole time I was getting fucked, but I would also usually stroke my cock and edge myself without cumming. Then, my bf told me how hot it would be if I would completely ignore my cock AND allow him to control my orgasms. It has been a couple months now, and I get very little if any penis stimulation during sex. Even though I am almost always horny, my dick is almost always soft now when my bf fucks me. It was weird at first, but I've gradually come to love it. By ignoring my cock, I have been able to focus on the amazing sensations in my ass and I have become that much more submissive.

I always dig those flicks where the bottoms wear jockstraps and never even take their penis out. Better yes, I get off on seeing a bottom get fucked wearing a pair of white briefs that have a hole cut out in the ass... VERY hot.

It is hard to ignore your cock during anal sex if you're used to stroking it. My bf and I used handcuffs on me to prevent me from stroking. I would also sometimes wear a jockstrap when getting fucked. I also had an old, tight pair of jeans and several old pairs of briefs. I cut the ass out of both, so my bf could fuck me in those.

That was to get me used to not having access to my cock, but now I am usually naked when getting fucked, though occasionally my bf does like my to throw on a jock or my old jeans.

The one exception to the rule is when I get on top of my bf and ride his cock. I go from flaccid to rock hard in about 30 seconds. However, this is also the position I get into in order to have a hands-free (prostate) orgasm.

It's not that I don't get hard as a bottom - I am usually hard when I'm blowing or massaging my bf. But now when I get fucked, I am usually soft except in that one position. My bf says it's because my cock knows there's no point in being hard, it's not going to get stimulated, so why bother? And I actually enjoy being soft, it just makes me feel like that much more of a bottom.

 

[gwmbottomm]

I had been bottoming for a long time when one of my tops mentioned that he loved the fact that I was always hard when he fucked me. I had NO idea that everyone didn't stay hard while the were being fucked. He made it seem like the norm was for the bottom to be soft, so that was a huge surprise to me.

The other day I was riding my top and really leaned back, and my dick instantly went to 'half mast'. That was the first time that happened, and I LOVED the way it flopped around and seemed, well... pretty useless. I loved the fact that I couldn't get distracted by wanting to jack off.

 

[gwmbottomm]

Being topped is really not the most comfortable (or pleasent) feeling in the world. It can be awkward and/or downright painful. So it makes sense when guys are flaccid when their asshole is being continually jabbed.

If the description of what a top is doing can be described as "jabbing", you might want to find a different top. I've only been with a couple of tops who could be described that way, and they didn't know what in the hell they were doing. And they certainly didn't get any 'repeat business' from me.

 

[crackheadmofo]

I stay rock hard when I'm getting fucked. Twice now Ive been getting boned and came without even having to touch myself and still been able to stay rock hard and cum again, lol.

When i am topping though I have no problem with a guy going limp. I find it hot too. Looking down and seeing my hard cock and him laying there moaning but soft. Like it in porn too.

Wow, im hard just thinking about it, lol.

 

[CallMeHTD]

Damn, am I happy this thread got a resurrection. So fucking hot. The idea or orgasm control is a huge turn on for me both as a top or bottom.

Would love to play with you boys. And I could totally top or bottom. Guess you could say I'm into extremes! I also love that your BF calls the shots. As it should be.

Found this thread and had to comment since so much of it applies to me.



When I first started bottoming, I would usually get hard and go soft on and off during anal sex...But this was also when I was jerking off 1-2 times every day AND having sex. I started getting into orgasm denial with myself about a year ago and I gradually reduced and then basically stopped masturbating between sex sessions. I had a conversation with my bf about this and he and I started practicing orgasm denial together. Now not only was I not masturbating, but he would frequently fuck me without giving me an orgasm.

Now, I was usually rock hard the whole time I was getting fucked, but I would also usually stroke my cock and edge myself without cumming. Then, my bf told me how hot it would be if I would completely ignore my cock AND allow him to control my orgasms. It has been a couple months now, and I get very little if any penis stimulation during sex. Even though I am almost always horny, my dick is almost always soft now when my bf fucks me. It was weird at first, but I've gradually come to love it. By ignoring my cock, I have been able to focus on the amazing sensations in my ass and I have become that much more submissive.



It is hard to ignore your cock during anal sex if you're used to stroking it. My bf and I used handcuffs on me to prevent me from stroking. I would also sometimes wear a jockstrap when getting fucked. I also had an old, tight pair of jeans and several old pairs of briefs. I cut the ass out of both, so my bf could fuck me in those.

That was to get me used to not having access to my cock, but now I am usually naked when getting fucked, though occasionally my bf does like my to throw on a jock or my old jeans.

The one exception to the rule is when I get on top of my bf and ride his cock. I go from flaccid to rock hard in about 30 seconds. However, this is also the position I get into in order to have a hands-free (prostate) orgasm.

It's not that I don't get hard as a bottom - I am usually hard when I'm blowing or massaging my bf. But now when I get fucked, I am usually soft except in that one position. My bf says it's because my cock knows there's no point in being hard, it's not going to get stimulated, so why bother? And I actually enjoy being soft, it just makes me feel like that much more of a bottom.

 

[CallMeHTD]

One of the best fucks I've ever had was with this hot daddy bear who was a total, TOTAL bottom. So much so that he would typically start fingering his own hole while we were kissing and he was stroking my cock. The last time we fucked he'd lay on his stomach and reach around to finger his own hole whenever I'd pull out for more lube. And that dick of his would get soft and tiny and flop around everywhere the minute he would engage his own ass. It was a hot messy time of me fucking him with my dick, cramming my own fingers up his hole along with his own fingers crammed up there, and eating that sloppy hole between bouts of fucking, getting that ass juice all over my beard. Then I'd slide back into him for a messy, hot kiss. A couple of times I even slide back into his hole while his fingers were still crammed up there. He'd moan very loudly, then start finger fucking himself in rhythm to the thrusts of my dick plowing him at the same time.

When I was ready to cum I told him to start finger fucking himself as hard as he could stand, so he reached around and began pummeling his own hole with his fingers. Meanwhile I grabbed that flaccid dick with my left hand while I jacked with my right and, gathering him by the base of his fat balls, began pulling him towards me as hard as I dared, eventually smashing the head of my dick against those balls as I jacked, while he watched me over his should fingering himself and grinning at me.

He liked it ROUGH. My dick looked all fat and huge jacking next to his tiny, limp one. HOT.

I eventually shot all over that tiny, flacid dick of his while ordering him to fuck himself as hard as he could.

 

[LayshK]

It doesn't take much for me to get hard so its easy for me to stay hard when I'm getting fucked hard. Also I like seeing bottom being soft in porn.

 

[otkboy]

Hi.

For those (like me) who enjoy the contrast between a submissive limp-dicked bottom and a dominant hard-cocked top then you might also enjoy it when the bottom's cock is locked in a chastity device while he is getting fucked.

I think that getting fucked up the ass while your cock is locked in a chastity device is the ultimate in submission because both guys know that no matter what the bottom is not going to have an orgasm. The top will have a wonderful orgasm and the bottom will remain frustrated, without release. The contrast can be even more enhanced if the top is moaning with pleasure and talking about how good it feels to fuck, while the bottom humbly listens and gets his ass pounded.

 

[thongboi]

Not a chasty device but jocks do a good job of helping a bottom stay limp, I should know, it's what I do when being topped.

 

[MarlboroLite]

I'm very glad to see that limp bottoms are considered hot by a good number of people! Obviously tops who consciously like it appreciate the submissive aspect of it and are turned on by seeing the bottom's dick be useless.

As a total bottom myself, over time I started to want to be limp and now I can't get fucked any other way. Not getting hard in combination with also having a small dick to begin with makes it even better! When I get fucked it looks exactly like this and it makes me feel like an even better total bottom:

 

[asianstudlover]

Some of my favorite porn are vids of soft-cocked bottoms.Vids were it is obvious the bottom was chosen to be of submissive service to the top.That's why I LOVE muscle stud Marcus Mojo/Landon Mycles!!!So many hot pics on the net of his small cock lying limp while some big-dicked top pounds away at him.Gets me off every time!!

Marcus is really one of the top bottoms because of this. sometimes he's "tepidly" hard but sometimes soft and he's still ENJOYING. Do you hear the genuine sounds he makes

 

[tatertot]

I have seen that in porn many times. I don't find it hot at all. It seems like the bottom is not enjoying it if he is soft. I have never had that issue nor anyone I ever been with.

 

[versatileplayer]

I'm very glad to see that limp bottoms are considered hot by a good number of people! Obviously tops who consciously like it appreciate the submissive aspect of it and are turned on by seeing the bottom's dick be useless.

As a total bottom myself, over time I started to want to be limp and now I can't get fucked any other way. Not getting hard in combination with also having a small dick to begin with makes it even better! When I get fucked it looks exactly like this and it makes me feel like an even better total bottom:

A small limp cock is pretty hot. Take it without lube for me too buddy.

Ever had a guy grab you by your little limp cock and twist it, slap the fuck out of it....