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Mike:
Reading through your posts in this thread, it is clearer why you are in the position you are in.
First, you need to get out of the situation. It is unhealthy and it will never get better.
Second, you need to take a long hard look at yourself. You came to this thread asking for advice. You've cherry-picked advice and you've shown a great deal of hostility when you were given advice that you didn't like or didn't fit into the sympathetic victim role that you see you yourself in.
One of the hard lessons of adulthood is that you are responsible for your actions and for your mistakes. You made the mistakes that got you to where you are. It's only by swallowing your pride and accepting that you screwed up that you will learn from them.
Also part of being an adult is listening to advice when you've asked for it and not lodging personal attacks or threats against those who offer it.
Reading through your posts in this thread, it is clearer why you are in the position you are in.
First, you need to get out of the situation. It is unhealthy and it will never get better.
Second, you need to take a long hard look at yourself. You came to this thread asking for advice. You've cherry-picked advice and you've shown a great deal of hostility when you were given advice that you didn't like or didn't fit into the sympathetic victim role that you see you yourself in.
One of the hard lessons of adulthood is that you are responsible for your actions and for your mistakes. You made the mistakes that got you to where you are. It's only by swallowing your pride and accepting that you screwed up that you will learn from them.
Also part of being an adult is listening to advice when you've asked for it and not lodging personal attacks or threats against those who offer it.