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Came out to best friend...that's not the half of it

good job! as for what to do now, i think it would be best to move on for now and find someone who is ready for a relationship if you are, your friend will know you're holding out for him-because thats really what you would be doing, and if he's not looking for anything right now that might make things kinda dramatic.

plus, if you start getting into the dating world he might get jealous at some point :p but for now, forget about him, now that he's sure you like him, he will tell you if he starts to feel differently.
 
It has been my experience that "I'm not ready" equates to "I'm not that into you, thanks."

So, I'd suggest, too, that you move along and keep him as a friend. If the future holds more, it'll happen.

But for now, enjoy the friendship.
 
Generally, it's a polite way of saying "I'm not into you."

I'm sorry man. Look on the bright side. At least you have an amazing friendship. Now go find yourself a guy and experience everything there is to enjoy in life. =)
 
looseliam said:
It has been my experience that "I'm not ready" equates to "I'm not that into you, thanks."

So, I'd suggest, too, that you move along and keep him as a friend. If the future holds more, it'll happen.

But for now, enjoy the friendship.
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Was going to make a long post, but this says pretty much everything.
 
Congrats on telling him how you feel. He's not ready so It's time to look around and see what's other adventures life has in store for you. There is so reason to feel sad because he knows how you feel and maybe one day he will be ready. Trust me, as soon as he sees that you are interested in someone else he will be a bit jealous. Just try looking at this time in your life as a time for learning and exploring. Have fun and try not to over think things.
 
Thank you guys so much...this was a huge step for me in my life and you guys really helped me through it!! THANK YOU!! I am not going to pressure him or seem desperate, I'm just gonna let it be and if something happens in the future then it will. All I can say is I've never had anyone in the world make me feel the way he makes me feel, and Im not crazy there is something between us. But I know he is absolutely not ready, he is not comfortable yet. He does not want anyone b/c he doesnt want to deal with the way he feels. But Im not gonna just wait around for him either. And I know if I ever become interested in someone else he will be jealous, but maybe thats what he needs to see he might miss out on someone special.

Either way thanks again you guys!!!
 
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