Can Pedophiles Be Cured?

[KrisHawkXXX]

sorry brandon, i've liked and supported you for a while now but your description of your juvenile actions were those of a predator. had an adult given the same stories he/she would have been identified as a pedo-predator. you were (are?) still preying but have reached the age of consent thus are in the trolling/dating/friend with privileges (buddy fuck) thus pedo no longer applys. hey maddy, anyone who goes out "looking" for action is a predator. the term is quite as nauseus/noxious as some interpret it but it still is the correct abel...still friends?

oh ok.. Of course we're still friends.

Ok Well I wasn't always out looking for sex.. I just had sex when a possible opportunity for sex with a friend's dad or a coach arose. If the chance came to me, I'd take it. But I wasn't necessarily out looking all the time. I had non-sexual hobbies with friends my age such as pokemon and furbies for example. I still had a typical childhood.

I was horny like all boys my age... I just had sex when an oppertunity arose... how does that make me a predator? I wasn't on the street corner holding up a sign lol.

I liked older men and still like them. I'm not preying on them... It's just my type. If someone has a foot fetish, are they a predator because they go after someone with hot feet? When I say go after someone, I mean their sexual preference, not necessarily that they are prowling for it whenever chance they get.

 

[Lefty]

well bud, were you doing sex games with your age group, or even those slightly older than you? as far as preying, you had to be doing something to advertise the availability and ease with which you could be had.

fact is most males at puberty become predatory for males or females or both. i know i was/am guilty, just wanted sex and didn't care if male or female...wasn't as selective as you i'm afraid. had a couple of bad experiences...rape without anal involvement, mostly oral inflicted on me by disgusting old geezers in the park and some consensual with males and females that was fantastic. the gal who taught me to muff dive was 20 to my 13 and wouldn't do vag because of pg fears. she also taught me about pot and some other things...ok thats it TMI

 

[Jayden]

Hmmmmm I better not say anything here. Some people just dont wanna hear anything other then themselfs.

 

[Jersey Domino]

There is as much chance of curing a paedophile as there is of 'curing' a homosexual or a serial killer.

You might be able to control the urges, but you can't control the mindset.

That sums it up perfectly.

 

[TickTockMan]

^I agree with that.

I don't understand age of consent laws. Do we have them because we don't really know how to tell when a person is mature enough to know if they can handle it? I would say we don't. How do you know if someone is ready to make that decision? I really think 16 is too young for some.


Madonna, how old were you when that started? Before or after puberty?

We have consent laws so parents can feel better about their kids not doing the same that they did. Ignoring the fact that it wont stop them from doing that and more. We also have them so politians can say they are protecting the children because that is what society wants to hear. I know laws are hard to get passed, but a one for all approach doesn’t work when it comes to personal behavior.



If anything can be cured it will be “mob” thinking. Whether people like it or not sex is probably the most natural thing in the world. Its not going anywhere.

 

[nitish]

With modern understanding of biology, and human sexuality, the answer is no. But we might be able to play around with human sexuality if our knowledge of biology becomes sufficiently advanced. When that day comes, you can be bi on Monday, hetro on Thursday and pedo it up by Friday.

Anyone that knows couple of things on human sexuality. Is fetishism biological, or society based? How is one attracted to popping balloons? I find it hard to think of a furry existing during the ice-age.

 

[Lukeee]

We have consent laws so parents can feel better about their kids not doing the same that they did. Ignoring the fact that it wont stop them from doing that and more. We also have them so politians can say they are protecting the children because that is what society wants to hear. I know laws are hard to get passed, but a one for all approach doesn’t work when it comes to personal behavior.



If anything can be cured it will be “mob” thinking. Whether people like it or not sex is probably the most natural thing in the world. Its not going anywhere.

So what do you think the laws should be on it? Or do you think there shouldn't be any?

 

[KrisHawkXXX]

This is an important topic that people are too scared to talk about, but it needs to be talked about. In government, homes, schools and even on the web. People say they are trying to protect the children, so lets protect the children. This topic should not be danced around, it too damn big.

Any the mods always have deleted it whenever someone complains. It's not endorsing or encouraging adults to have sex with minors, I guess the mods are letting it stay this time.

 

[TickTockMan]

So what do you think the laws should be on it? Or do you think there shouldn't be any?

I don’t believe the right fix is just passing a law or repealing one. There is too much involved. The conclusions I have came to have been withered by years of looking into sexuality and all that is part of it. This includes sex acts, emotions, psychology of, physicality of, sociability of, and monetary issues that may arise, etc.

To give you what I think you are asking for I will answer as if I can change everything that I would want. If you are curious why I feel the way I do write me a PM. I am sure what you are about to read will seem off base, but I don’t. I feel it is the cause.


1. Studies would be done to show thoughts and beliefs of sex, intimacy and relationships from high school students, collage students and adults in general.


2. High schools would greatly improve their sex education programs. Besides the basics of sex, intimacy and relationship building would be also be taught. The course would cover the definitions of sexual orientations and genders, history of sex and sexuality, heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual sex acts ranging from “love making” to BDSM and other forms of sexual acts. It would also cover safe sex; combining the merits of abstinence only and proper condom, glove and finger cot use to SDIs and other health issues including depression after losing a partner by break up or death and drug use during sex, etc.

The subject would be given over a four year time. It would also be taught by three teachers with special education themselves on the subject. Each teacher would represent an ideology. One would have liberal ideas on sex, one would have conservative ideas on sex, and the last would have moderate ideas. The class would be taught with an emphasis on discussion, making sure no one ideology is taught. It would not be a right and wrong class, but a class to help make the students learn how to be adults in a way that works for them. The teachers would be available for a private Q & A with the students by appointment whenever needed.


3. After number two has been implemented for ten years number one would be redone to see what if anything has changed. If a change is shown in high school and collage graduate’s thoughts on sex, intimacy and relationships for “the better” with a high overall understanding then number four would be implemented.


4. Age of Consent laws would be placed at 14 or 16 being decided by the studies done in number three. In addition “The Campfire Rule” would be wrote in. Simply stated “The Campfire Rule” is “leave it a little better off than it was before you got there.” This would be to protect those that need to be protected. “The Campfire Rule” would look at the mental & emotional, physical, social and financial well being of those under eighteen that are in a relationship. Parents and guardians would handle any of the above abuse by calling the police just as the would now.



Hopefully in time the children would learn to be more capable adults, which would carry over into their work lives. As it is now one day they are children and the next they are adults able to do what they want, all except drink. Though some do. This by far is not a fix all, nor is it intended to be, but I do believe things would get a whole lot better if people would stop being “scared” of sex and intimacy so much. I feel the above it a start.



If you want anything explained better feel free to write.


RJ