Can People Tell You're Gay From How You Act ?

[RonR18]

Only when I grope them.

 

[doctorsun]

Everyone I've told has been shocked. The only exception was my mother who told me she knew I was gay when I was 2.

 

[Laufey]

I'm sorry but if you "know" someone is gay when they are 2 it's simply a lucky guess.

 

[xbuzzerx]

I'm sorry but if you "know" someone is gay when they are 2 it's simply a lucky guess.

You know this because you've mothered a child from birth? lol.

 

[Laufey]

A mother is the only one capable of seeing the signs?

What are the behavior patterns of a 2 year old which would indicate it's gay?

 

[refujiunderground]

Yes. What Happened to Lucky7???? I always liked him. Shit, another good one is gone.

CXXX

the funny thing i notice is that the people that usually delete themselves either can't handle this site for whatever reason or they're super paranoid because they think that they gave to much info about themselves on here where they need to complete disassociate themselves with their jub account. if they're so paranoid, then they don't have to post pics of themselves or say where they live if they don't want anybody to know about them. there's nothing wrong with guarding your privacy.

 

[Ganoderma]

No. I keep meeting new people, and it turns out I always need to tell them. Even yesterday, when I was at a party.

(...) but my friends had no idea.

^^^^^ Same over here (but a long time ago when this was the case). But things were totally different for the ones with a girlfriend, as the girlfriend almost always told me she knew / more or less had thought that I might be gay (but had never discussed this topic with the guy). So all guys had no idea.

 

[Ganoderma]

The response was "I thought you were a confirmed bachelor".

Now and then, I also get such a reply. Does not bother me for a moment.

 

[Adrusek81]

It depends. I have been told by many girls that they knew that I was gay because I wasn't looking at them lasciviously at treated them like they were just another person. However, there have also been girls (usually, girls who dislike me), who have accused me of being excessively attentive, to the point of making them uncomfortable... Which is weird, because I was just brought up in a very conservative environment in which it was a man's obligation to treat women as "ladies". However, I have never, ever in my life seen a woman as remotely attractive or desirable.

Men vary. Some men tell me that I am too gentle, and they picked up on the fact that I was gay immediately. Others react surprised when I tell them and say that they would have never imagined that I am (nor cared at all, for that matter). There have been instances of men pointing out my gayness out of sheer spite, just because they don't like me - as if being gay were something shameful that can be used to assassinate someone's character and tarnish their reputation.

I depends on the people I have to deal with and the situation I find myself in, I guess. In any case, I am happy as I am so... As they say, whatever. I don't lose any sleep because of people's opinions, even though I do find it irritating when men who know that I am gay start behaving as if coercing them into have sex with me were the only purpose of my existence... Funnily enough, it's always the guys you haven't even noticed who react like that , which, to be honest, I find weird and incomprehensible.

 

[bendted]

I'm enjoying all the "no one can tell" replies, especially the ones who have posted pictures in the past on here.

I don't pass as straight or fool anyone. They know immediately. In fact, I've never been forced to officially come out as it's obvious.

Maybe I need to brush up on my straight acting skills.

 

[Ganoderma]

I quickly ran into Lucky on Grindr. Told him y'all miss him. He said " I probably just need space."
Like I said earlier, I'm sure he'll be back.

Thanks for your kind reply, and please wish him good luck. Please tell him that I appreciated his postings, and that I can understand very well that he needs some time and space to figure out about his future activities.

 

[umjreon88]

People's Gaydar seem to work a lot better than mine, so it is no surprise if they could sense my sexual inclination.
To all my friends, I like to bring out my inner "camp" and a "Diva" just for laughs.

 

[Audio Tech]

No one knew when I told them, or they were just being polite. I don't really know. My Parents said they had no idea.
Only once was I outright asked, probably because I didn't want to partake in the Hooker they got for a party I attended.

For the most part I'm just too damn average and boring for anyone to guess.

 

[evanrick]

i hope so but it seems a lot of my friends convince themselves they aren't gay...hard to relate with them when they do this.