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Cancer Update:

GOOD VIBES????? You've got an entire marimba orchestra here, guy!

Good luck to you. I'll say a few extra prayers for you. I think your plans for the procedures and for you family are incredibly sound.
 
Okay, I admit it, I am freaking out just a little bit now. Tomorrow is the big day, I get the results of the PET Scan, which is not what is freaking me out. I also have to call my sisters tomorrow and tell them that we need a little family get together for some news (that is what all the anxiety is about, and no amount of Xanax is gonna help with that one). I feel reay for what ever news I get, i just need to figure out a way to tell the sisters that I am coming to CT. I also hope that they are going to be there. I just don't want a whole lot of drama. I have gotten myself to a place where I am dealing with the news, and provided that the PET Scan does not show any further spread in the torso or other areas, then I really think that I have a good chance to get through this. I also need to be prepared to counter the info that I know my sisters will get from the internet.

All of the cancer sites that I have gone to have said that typically someone who has lung cancer metastatis (sp) the life span is typically 1-2 years after that. These are the latest stats available and does not include the treatments that are available by way of the cyber kife, gamma knife and other advances.

There I feel a little better but will be as nervous as a hooker in church come tomorrow as I dial the number for my sister.
 
Hey sexy Steve, you should not be worried about your sisters now. If they start with all this internet info you have to shut them down right away. I know they are doing it because they care for you but you don't need the agro. Just call them up and say that you feel like getting away for the weekend and are coming to see them! That way they won't have time to do the internet thing. I wish you all the best, and worry about you now and thats it!! Don't make me come down there!!! Love ya babe!!!
 
Hi Steve,

I agree with Elwood (just don't tell him).
You need to take care of yourself and shouldn't have to worry about what the rest of your family may or may not think. I know that is easier said than done sometimes.
Take care of yourself first, my friend.

And you know that our love and respect for you is as strong as ever. (*8*)
 
Steve, I obviously don't know your sisters, but have you tried telling them how they can help you get through this and how they would add to your stress level (which you don't need right now) if they did otherwise? In any case, my thoughts will be with you tomorrow. You will get through this, one day at a time.
 
please keep us posted, and we'll all be thinking about you tomorrow.
 
(!) (!) (!) Maybe the dancing bananas are telling a bit much, but I got the results of the PET Scan today. Other than a little activity in the left lung (which I was assured was normal for someone who got hit as hard as I did with the radiation, it is a sign of healing) everything else looked clear. No indication of anything in the bones or anyother organ for that matter.

So, the radiation oncologist called me and he said that i am good to go for the cyber knife procedure. I should get a call by the end of the week with the dates for the new MRI as well as CT Scan. I told him that if they can schedule everything for the same day it would be great and he assured me that they would. just told him that they can pick a day, schedule it and I will be there.

Granted, having brain lesions is not the best of news to have to deal with, but this little ray of sunshine has done so much to ease the load I have been carrying.

I will say that my oncologist down here on the cape said that I have been one of those confusing patients that a doctor runs into once in awhile. He is going to pass my name on to someone who is trying to get some support groups going in this area (since there are none) and thinks that I should speak to the group on the power of attitude and positive thinking. I would be honored and happy to do whatever I could to help out others.

Thanks for all the good vibes you guys sent out there, it worked.........:=D: :=D:
 
Well that was worth coming home from holiday to hear.

I was searching for updates from you and I am glad it was relatively good news that I come across.

Hang in there. I will be thinking of you.
 
WOW, STEVE, that's great (or even better than great) news! Keep it up, and keep on surprising the doctors. Thank you for all the updates, and I mean all - even the ones when times seemed more bleak. There's a lot of prayers out here!
 
Thats great news to hear also , thanks for keeping us updated , all the best
 
Best of luck Steve. As a cancer survivor myself, I can truthfully say that a positive attitude will go a long way towards giving you the best possible outcome(*8*)
 
Keep fighting, general. We're right here with you. And I'm sure you'll be a star of that support group!
 
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