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Can't get satisfied by less than 7in anymore.

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Martkell2007

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Ever since I dated a guy with 7 inches, anything less just doesn't excite me. The guy I'm with now is 6, and it looks small to me because I'm used to bigger. I remember when I wasn't that way. I won't have sex with him because I'd just embarrass myself or him with my lack of enthusiasm.

Anyone else have this problem and how did you get over it?
 
I would say that you most definitely do not deserve the "guy you are with right now [who] is 6" and you should consider how shallow it is to only fancy someone because he has a big cock. For shame![-X:rolleyes:
 
I'm the complete opposite, I wouldn't let a guy over 7 anywhere near me down there lol.
 
Martkell2007 said:
Ever since I dated a guy with 7 inches, anything less just doesn't excite me. The guy I'm with now is 6, and it looks small to me because I'm used to bigger. I remember when I wasn't that way. I won't have sex with him because I'd just embarrass myself or him with my lack of enthusiasm.

Anyone else have this problem and how did you get over it?
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i think you have a low sex drive. How is that sound ?
 
I understand the dilemma, how about taking a break from getting done up the butt? Try foreplay, oral, tossing salads what have you. The fact that the sex you are having with the person you are with is "embarrassing" is certainly not healthy, but then again neither is requiring a certain size because there are ways around it. Give it a rest and see if some ass-chastity does some good.
 
Maybe it's just him you're not into

I'm sorry but the measure of a man's worth is a lot more than the size of his dick. It's him you sit across the table from and share decisions, laughter and tears with
 
If it's that important to you, break up with him, and let him find someone he CAN satisfy. Then start searching again. And be specific, that the most important thing is that the guy be well hung. "Anyone under 7" need not apply."

I like larger ones, too, all things being equal. But that last bit is the important bit, because all things are NEVER equal. The best lover I've ever had was under 6". The worst was probably 8" or so. As far as I'm concerned, dick size is WAY less important than the guy attached to it. It seems that, quite often, big dicks are attached to big dicks.

Lex
 
Skinslife said:
I'm the complete opposite, I wouldn't let a guy over 7 anywhere near me down there lol.
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:wave: Same here!!

Sex is, well, sex. It's the connection I share with that person that makes it all the better.

I think it would be wise to evaluate what is important in life and what is trivial.
 
You really do come off badly in this thread.

Hopefully you'll set this guy free immediately so he can stop wasting his time with you.

After the previous dramahhh in your life with the last guy, I would have thought that cock size would have been the least of your worries.
 
rareboy said:
You really do come off badly in this thread.

Hopefully you'll set this guy free immediately so he can stop wasting his time with you.

After the previous dramahhh in your life with the last guy, I would have thought that cock size would have been the least of your worries.
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i remember very little about the last guy. i think it was about dramas in the kitchen shouting or something not sure. !oops!
 
I was afraid to look in this thread because I knew the responses wouldn't be good.

This is exactly why I haven't told him.

I'm no whore, and I don't have sex often. I wish I did. I have not had sex with him, and I don't want to because he is small to me. I know it sounds harsh, but it IS how I feel.

I'm going to continue to date him and hope that we develop a bond that allows me to look past his penis size.

And Rareboy it was NOT dramatic. More problematic. We never got in arguments or yelled at each other. I'm not the type to speak without control over my emotions. I'd rather be silent than let anger, rage, hate, etc speak.
 
I just cannot imagine size being that important - sure there isn't something else - maybe you just aren't that into this guy. Surely you can't be that shallow. I could see if everything else was equal, having a preferrence for a certain size.
 
Ugh, the thought of someone thinking of me as shallow is so . . . shallow. Not that anyone up here has directly attacked me with the "s" word. I just think that since we don't know each other, reserve judgment.

I don't have a connection with this guy yet beyond casual friendship. We are dating. But his penis size is preventing me from forming that initial boyfriend bond with him. And I want to form it because he is a very nice, decent, caring man with God and family.

And he is also (prepare for potentially shallow statement) quite wealthy. But Ive dated and loved sooo many poor men you can't hold that sentence against me.
 
Shallow is as shallow does. Sorry, but when you come in here to complain about not being interested in a guy because he has an average sized penis but is wealthy, it's shallow. It doesn't mean you're always shallow or a fundamentally shallow person, but your behavior in this instance is shallow.

If it's really a problem, stop dating him. It's rude to lead somebody else on like that. It sounds to me like you're dating him out of pity (well, I'll keep dating him because he's a good guy even if I'm not attracted to him). I honestly have to question if you even should be dating at all right now. Maybe you should focus on having some fun instead of dating guys for the time being if this is currently what's important to you in another guy. There's nothing wrong with that. You just need to be aware of your current needs.
 
Martkell2007 said:
Ugh, the thought of someone thinking of me as shallow is so . . . shallow. Not that anyone up here has directly attacked me with the "s" word. I just think that since we don't know each other, reserve judgment.

I don't have a connection with this guy yet beyond casual friendship. We are dating. But his penis size is preventing me from forming that initial boyfriend bond with him. And I want to form it because he is a very nice, decent, caring man with God and family.

And he is also (prepare for potentially shallow statement) quite wealthy. But Ive dated and loved sooo many poor men you can't hold that sentence against me.
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Sorry agree with those above that are calling you shallow.... I have to agree with them.
You have a very nice, decent, caring man that is close to God and is family and all you care about is that he is one inch short of the dick size you'd prefer?

I sure don't like to be harsh to people on jub man... but you deserve it.
You are only dating yet you already know his penis size. Not sure how you know it... but if that is preventing you from wanting to be with him you'd best just tell him to fuck off and let him find someone that appreciates him for the fine guy he seems to be.
You can find a big dick anywhere... but it's damed tough to find a good and caring man... and if he has put up with you so far I'd say he's proven how fine and caring he is.
Go and find a big dick... and be happy with it.
Just hope you will be happy with the big dick... seems you'd rather have that than the fine guy that may be carrying a smaller one.

Much more to a realtionship that the size of a guys dick man.
I feel sorry for you. When you find that perfect dick then you let us know if the guy behind it is as good as the one that you have the chance to be with right now.
 
I'm gonna disagree with the majority here.

For instance, I think it's a requirement that any guy I date or hook up with have a good sense of humor. I don't think I could last more than a few days with a guy who was uber-serious and didn't like to laugh. Is that shallow? Or is that acceptable, because my requirement involves personality rather than a physical trait?

OP's requirement is a dick at least seven inches long. If he wants to not go to the bedroom with anybody who doesn't meet that criterium, that's totally his call. It'll be a tough one to prove before you get there - do you leave a ruler on the entryway table to make sure? - and yes, there may be some cool guys who don't get a shot at him. But SFW? If he wants to exclude guys with small dicks or bald heads or men who haven't been to the moon, that's completely his call.

Lex
 
Well, my last final thoughts, and I will let this thread die. Many of you have good points, and I don't rebuke them, but what I do frown upon are statements like

Shallow is as shallow does. Sorry, but when you come in here to complain about not being interested in a guy because he has an average sized penis but is wealthy, it's shallow.
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... and if he has put up with you so far I'd say he's proven how fine and caring he is.
Go and find a big dick... and be happy with it.
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These comments show a lack of substantial thought into the thread, and constitute empty responses with a lack of attention to what the topic starter is saying. Please at least TRY and come correct or don't come at all.
 
G-Lexington said:
I'm gonna disagree with the majority here.

For instance, I think it's a requirement that any guy I date or hook up with have a good sense of humor. I don't think I could last more than a few days with a guy who was uber-serious and didn't like to laugh. Is that shallow? Or is that acceptable, because my requirement involves personality rather than a physical trait?

OP's requirement is a dick at least seven inches long. If he wants to not go to the bedroom with anybody who doesn't meet that criterium, that's totally his call. It'll be a tough one to prove before you get there - do you leave a ruler on the entryway table to make sure? - and yes, there may be some cool guys who don't get a shot at him. But SFW? If he wants to exclude guys with small dicks or bald heads or men who haven't been to the moon, that's completely his call.

Lex
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I agree. I can't even be friends with people who don't make me laugh, so I expect quite a lot from prospective partner.
 
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