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I've been dreaming about this guy John for while now. He's my good friend at college. I dream that he cums in my mouth and I swallow it and he smiles, but nothing like this has happened in real life. I've told him I've hooked up with guys and girls before and he doesn't care. He got naked in front of me once right after. And then tonight, about a year after I told him I've been with guys, I walked into his dorm room and he was soft and I was talking to him for a while with a cig in my mouth and I looked over and he got hard as a rock. It was hot and I wanted to suck it. He played it off and kept pushing it down. Do you think I should say something to him, let him approach me, let it go altogether, or what?
 
rareboy said:
Jesus.

What does it take for you to get the point?

Don't you read any porn?

http://www.nifty.org/nifty/gay/college/
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I really don't think porn is the right place to go for advice on sex desires. It tends towards, you know, fantasy. I would say it depends on what you were talking about and how much he was looking at you. He might just be a bit of nudist who was horny about some girl he knows while talking to you. I wouldn't let desire for people get in the way of your restraint. Remember, he's more likely to be straight than gay or bi, so don't make hasty sexuality judgements out of hope. If he comes on to you more clearly then sure, ask him out. Or you could be risky and ask him out without more signals if you are comfortable with the consequences. If refusal would be devastating or if it would make him quite awkward don't take risks. That's my opinion at least.
 
Maybe you should ask him if he's gay or anything? I mean, it has kind of come up now and he's your "good friend.", so I'd say it wouldn't be too intrusive. That might be a good starting place.
 
Use your gut...animal instinct..whatever you want to call it.....

You will get your answer fast...and when you get it..respect it.....whatever happens....

I think too many people get their head in the way....
 
eastofeden said:
Use your gut...animal instinct..whatever you want to call it.....

You will get your answer fast...and when you get it..respect it.....whatever happens....

I think too many people get their head in the way....
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I don't think that's necessarily a good idea. If you don't think about enough, you might not realize there is a good reason to just leave it. I have a straight crush I have considered telling about it, but I decided, based on rational thought, there was no point making him awkward. Unrequited feelings are tough, and giving someone else that tough situation is unfair if there are good reasons not to too.
Kinktwink, as I said earlier, you could just ask him about his sexuality first. That would be a good starting place if it works out. Especially since it might be a good way for him to outlet any insecurity he could potentially be feeling over his reaction, if it means what you suspect. You could help him deal. Then you could try getting with him if he says he's not straight. Patience, care and consideration is my advice.
 
SexyLion514 said:
I don't think that's necessarily a good idea. If you don't think about enough, you might not realize there is a good reason to just leave it. I have a straight crush I have considered telling about it, but I decided, based on rational thought, there was no point making him awkward. Unrequited feelings are tough, and giving someone else that tough situation is unfair if there are good reasons not to too.
Kinktwink, as I said earlier, you could just ask him about his sexuality first. That would be a good starting place if it works out. Especially since it might be a good way for him to outlet any insecurity he could potentially be feeling over his reaction, if it means what you suspect. You could help him deal. Then you could try getting with him if he says he's not straight. Patience, care and consideration is my advice.
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I know my approach would not work for everyone..but it has pretty much worked perfectly for me over the years.

I included it as an option....not as "the truth"....or "THE answer"...but I DO think everyone would do well to get out of their own way when these situations arise.

I use my gut before my brain as a rule...and in the game of love and sex...well...you will never see me clutching pearls.
 
^ This....................been there, done that and he did want help with it.

There's no way that a guy gets naked and hard in front of another guy, particularly when he knows he's a homo, without looking for some action.

If he doesn't want it, all he has to say is 'Nope'.

One of my great regrets from university was not making the offer to a guy who I later found out after I was involved with someone else, had really hoped I'd jump his bone when he did something similar when I was crashing in his dorm room during a snowstorm.
 
Has he seen you naked?

Apparently he is okay with you being gay, so what have you got to lose by letting him know you like him?
 
Damn thanks for all the responses boys. It's a tough call to make. He's one of my best friends so I don't want to fuck things up with that, but my my urge to drop on my knees and suck his cock is extreme. I've never been so horny for someone in my life and it's been ongoing for years. He saw me naked once when we skinny dipped in a lake with some friends but that's it. And he makes jokes a lot to me about people getting it up the butt or sucking cock and sexually moans a lot to be funny. I do this with all my straight friends too, so I'm not saying this is conclusive. My gut tells me to go to his room, rip off his pants and suck the fuck out of him. I'd bend over bare too, whatever he wanted. But how can I do that if there's a chance he might get weirded out. He was really offended by this girl reaching in his pants once too. She was fat and kinda dyke-y, no offense, and he told her to fuck off. Really don't want that to be me here. But I desperately want his dick in me.
 
You're obsessing over him and it's only getting worse. If he is one of your best friends, you don't want to risk anything changing that.
Let's assume he is not 100% straight, but in denial. It's doubtful you can change that.
How do you think he would react if you told him in regular conversation that you are attracted to him?
 
You don't just jump him.

But the next time...if there is a next time...that he is naked and bones up in front of you....tell him that you're always there to lend a hand.
 
Next time a situation like this happens (he pops a boner in front of you and you guys are alone), Its time for a good old fashioned pillow fight! There's nothing like some wrestling around to break the ice!
 
The recent time you walked into his dorm room, and he was naked, hard and pushing his cock down, would have been the perfect time, IMO, to walk over casually, with a smile on your face, drop to your knees, tell him "You need some help with this!" and get to work.
He wouldn't be handling/stroking his dick in your presence if he weren't interesting in some play. Don't bend over for him; that may freak him out if he's not looking to fuck. Too much gay realness. Let him tell/show you that he wants to explore anal. But giving him head is harmless and I doubt it would be grounds for his ending the friendship. After all, he knows you're gay and he's still being playful and showing you his dick.
 
kinktwink, you know that dream catcher you have hanging over your bed? Take one of the feathers out of it and next time you catch him naked with a boner, just casually pass the feather over the hair on his balls. When his cock flexes, then slowly run the feather lightly up his erect cock. When you notice him start to precum, take a finger and rub it over the head and lick it off your finger while he watches you. That will turn him on and you then know his cock is yours to swallow. Works every time, even on straight boys.
 
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