compliments on one's manhood

[fredrfredr]

have you ever paid someone compliments on how big his dick or balls are?
have you ever received such compliments?
I love doing it in locker-rooms when I go to the swimming-pool, and when i'm more or less alone with just one other guy.
it started about 2 years ago, when I saw the lowest-hanging balls in my life. I went "what a beautiful set of testicles you have! i wish I had the same!". The guy blushed and cupped his balls!
I did it again last summer, with my uncle. He wore speedos because he has a pool at home. I couldn't help saying "you're well-hung, aren't you?"

 

[jukezone]

thats really creepy

 

[Alexandre]

creepy perhaps but certainly impertenent

 

[Croynan]

This is a matter you should probably give a lot of thought to. By saying what you have, you have crossed into the other persons territory/space - which belongs to them alone unless they give you permission to enter.

If your attraction to male genitals that you are speaking to strangers in the manner you did, then maybe some professional insights would help. You are lucky the person didn't "go after you" regardless if what you said was meant as a complement. There are a lot of people out there who would just like any opportunity to "get a faggot" - and you don't know who they are.

Those kinds of comments you can save for when you are someone(s) you know and the environment is such that saying such things is appropriate i. e. a group possibly have sex together, or you and another person.

Would you want someone making comments to you of a sexual nature without your permission. It may not have seemed like a sexual situation to you but one you made those comments you altered that enviornment in both instances.

I am not trying to intrude in your privacy and you should not be intruding in other people's privacy without their permission. I do not know your age, nor should I.
But give serious thought to what you are doing and see if logically it really seems like appropriate behaviour on your part.

A side issue - why is the size of some one's cock such an issue. There are a lot of attractive average size cocks around that work just as week at the "giant ones."
If size is going to be and or is an issue you - think about it. The real critical issue is not the size of someone's cock and or balls, but who they are as a person.

 

[zeropercentdown]

sometimes at the local bath house I'll ge a compliment like "nice ass" or "ice balls". It really catches me off guard because I never really think of myself of having either. But hey,if it's turning some other guy on then that's fine by me.

 

[Eagle653]

I've never commented on anyone's genitals or ass unless I was having sex with them, and then I only said nice things, obviously. Most of the reactions have been studdering some form of "thanks" or denying the accuracy of compliment in some way. I, too, am uncomfortable with compliments about that--don't know why, except I don't know what to say. Saying "thanks" sounds like "I know" and that's conceited; denying the compliment is a put down of both them and me...so, what should you say? I guess complimenting them too is the way to go, but all this is too complicated and too much talking going on when mouths should be otherwise occupied.

 

[Bi Married Male]

Croynan has a good point of view. I like what he contributes. In an appropriate place such as being inside a persons private movie both at an adult bookstore, I have had the same urge to say "You have a great cock" or Great Balls..., but only in an appropriate setting such as that. I have also been complimented on mine just as somone unbuckled my belt and pulled my cock out of my underpants.....situations like that get so hot.

 

[Corny]

from time to time i tend to hand out some compliments to guys. usually i know how they will react or better i know before that they won't freak out. i don't know why, but well a guy who smiles back instead of looking away or irritated when you smile at him usually is self confident enough
i've yet only once handed out a compliment about one's manhood with whom i wasn't intimate .. and that was just yesterday, lol. i was swimming and there was an a bit older guy and i don't know why but i immediately thought he was gay. usually my gaydar doesn't work very well but i was sure this time. well when i was about to go, i met him under the showers again - he was showering directly across from me. i had my eyes closed and enjoyed the hot shower, and when i opened them again, i saw that he was nude now, and it seems i just caught him totally checking me out he blushed a bit and looked away as i know shamelessly checked him out, and he kept looking away immediately when our eyes met again after the other guy in the shower left, i grabbed my towel headed to the door, and said "you can look straight again now, but don't worry you shouldn't be shy at all with that package"
oi did i feel bad after that, but i couldn't stop smiling he passed me on his way out while i was drying my hair, walked past me, stopped, turned .. and asked "hey have we met before?" aaarrrrrrrrrg so cheap! i just said "don't think so", and he didn't say any word and left.
this could get awkward if i ever meet him again there

 

[Bi Married Male]

after the other guy in the shower left, i grabbed my towel headed to the door, and said "you can look straight again now, but don't worry you shouldn't be shy at all with that package"
oi did i feel bad after that, but i couldn't stop smiling he passed me on his way out while i was drying my hair, walked past me, stopped, turned .. and asked "hey have we met before?" aaarrrrrrrrrg so cheap! i just said "don't think so", and he didn't say any word and left.
this could get awkward if i ever meet him again there

Corny...That Guy was comming on to you in a major way. You don't have anything to feel "awkward about" If the oppertunity presents itself again and it is only the 2 of you in the shower or steam or sauna, I guarantee you that it is OK to attempt to feel this guys cock. He will not be offended. If you are in the steam room with him, just start to play with your cock and I'll bet he will start to play with his too......Thats your open to go for it.....

 

[Corny]

of course i know that he was "coming on to me" .. thats why i couldn't resist leaving this comment. but that does neither mean that he wanted sex immediately, nor does it mean that i would like to have sex with him.

 

[guajero]

i don't compliment peoples genitalia because that isn't what i'm there for. i have gotten compliments about my genitalia and i never know what to say in return. usually i say something like "i got it just for you" or "it was on sale at Nordstroms" i also like "all the better to fuck you with" but outside of a sexual environment it is weird to get and give comments about genitalia.
G.

 

[paatreides]

I've gotten many a compliment on my "package" and on my ass (used to be a dancer). Doesn't offend me a bit. I've also handed out my share of compliments. Nobody seemed offended or embarrased by it. "If you got it, flaunt it."

 

[greekdude]

I've been getting compliments on my butt since I was 16, but never my package. I'm only average in size.

 

[Hearts]

I must agree with Croynan on this one. It IS a bit territorial to comment on something that is truly so personal. I believe it is only permitted to comment on someone else's genital area (or any other "sexual" area, e.g. nipples) if that person is a close friend; especially if you are engaged in a romantic/sexual relationship.

 

[wanderer]

to each his own, but all i can add is that i would feel quite uncomfortable about such a compliment to my package. but that is just me, i guess the thing you have to watch out for is if the person will take the comment positively or negatively.


but to answer your question, i have not, but that doesnt meant i didnt want to.

 

[OtterJoq]

It's funny how in str8 life, a guy commenting on a chicks 'jugs', 'tits', 'nice big arse' is perfectly fine though....Why is complementing a guy for the same 'assets' considered inappropriate...?

I don't think it's appropriate to comment on a woman's body in that manner. To begin with, "chicks" is pretty damn offensive...not to mention SOOOOO 20th century...

 

[OtterJoq]

one idea is simple......dont advertise the merchandise if you cant handle the attraction it gets. I have seen guys with skin tight jeans or speedos,whatever straight or gay. They are well aware of the bulg or whatever. Fuck it........if they want to display it they will just have to accept anyone is seeing them.

Agreed. You don't wear something like that and then NOT want people to look at you.

 

[mikesurf]

Ok.. def cool about being into guys and all.. but If a guy came up to me in the lockerroom and said what a beautiful set of testicles I have.. id look at him like he was freaking crazy.

 

[CGHJ]

...depends for me. If I looked up and it was Brad Pitt, I'd say thanks, love yours too. If it was Pauly Shore I'd say, "Um...thanks?" If it was you, meaning, "random guy in lockeroom I don't know" I would give you a look that could freeze fire and say, "I beg your pardon?" or alternately, "What the fuck?".

Best time someone ever complimented me? When I was in the USAF I was at chow with some buddies. One, who was my roomate at thew time, was complaining that I jerked off constantly, so that he was always waking up and upon opening his eyes he'd see me wanking. But then he added, "Joe does have a big dick though, I'll say that for him." I'm pretty sure some of the guys at the other tables heard too. I loved every second of that. And it didn't stop me jerking off, either.

 

[tonyboy]

If I ever said anything like that in a locker room or pool changing room I think I might get my jaw broken. Wouldn't like that.