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Confess something that might surprise others or damage your reputation on JUB - 2014

Wednesday morning I went out on the SKYWALK at the Grand Canyon (and a very crazy sensation the first time, when it looks like there's nothing below you!)...and enjoyed it, and hung around a while. Later I sat right on the edge of the cliff, in two places (both at Guano Point), and dangled my legs right over the edge. Literally at the brink of certain death...one drop directly below my feet was 200 or 250 feet, and the other drop was nearly one-half MILE.

So now, as I write this, I shudder and I think "EEEEEK...I did THAT??" But, yes, and it was almost meditative.

OK, though, I'm not gonna STAND UP directly on the rim like that...

I had my picture taken by two different tourists (after I freaked them out a little haha), I hope at least one of them follows through and sends me the picture by email. Yes, on THEIR cameras not mine.

This is actually far west of the site where most people see the GC, and I think it's actually the best viewpoint even though the South Rim view is "somewhat" deeper.

It's expensive, but the construction was in the many millions, too. It is not part of the National Park, but is instead on the Hualapai Indian Reservation, it benefits the Rez, and it was constructed in good taste - the Skywalk, that is. (I was wondering if anybody named Luke was up there...)

I just finished visiting LilBit a short while ago, too. Such a super guy.
 
Astrology didn't lie. When Jupiter and Venus aligned; something sweet, lucky and indulgent come together. Yesterday I checked my astro for that aspect and today..
I caught my bus on time like usual but today was JUST IN TIME because I usually wait 30 mins more due to mismatched schedule.
I even had time for breakfast at QFC (Quality Food Center :mrgreen:) before I catch my bus. The menu I choose was QFC Mushroom Medley which is my favorite :drool I swear I'll cry if they discontinue that dish :(
and...I got my soup faster than a grandma behind me who also drooling for my soup. I didn't left her any mushroom, sorry grandma..better faster next time ;)
I enjoyed my soup next to an open window, on a high chair..at starbucks cafe. It was raining and sprinkle..and the hot soup ...just "perfect!" :-)
Plus..I listening to my mp3 which also playing my perfect song..so double the perfection! ..| ..|

After I finished my entree..I walked to the bus stop but along the way..it seemed I forgetting something.

It was my backpack! I left my backpack with wallet, cellphone and office stuff!! :eek: OMAGAH!!

I ran a miles to find where that is..and thank god (Jupiter) no body paid attention to my precious backpack. :) I remembered..see, because last night forecast told me so :rolleyes:
 
I dont care if this damaging my reputation but I miss Cgymike :(
 
carey579 said:
Who is he then?
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I think he is the older, fatter self of my slight infatuation object at Beijing, over ten years ago, but I am not sure: the confession part lies not so much in the actual, accurate result, as in the fact of going to search the direction he gave me back then.
 
belamo said:
I think he is the older, fatter self of my slight infatuation object at Beijing, over ten years ago, but I am not sure: the confession part lies not so much in the actual, accurate result, as in the fact of going to search the direction he gave me back then.
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He still looks really attractive [-X
 
My parents still pay the bills of the house in which I am living, basically because it is still legally theirs... while of the one in which they are living now, I am only one of three legal owners... and do not pay anything either.
 
^ Though we can't really be young and beautiful anymore we can still hang on to the illusion somewhat by being financially dependent on our parents.


We might past beyond being children, but we can still be childish!
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
^ Though we can't really be young and beautiful anymore we can still hang on to the illusion somewhat by being financially dependent on our parents.


We might past beyond being children, but we can still be childish!
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All the more childish the more we get paid for being so: F1, ball games, congress games, financial games, managing games, acting games... heck, kids themselves, childish or not, earn literally millions with developing apps, or testings toys, or elaborating on being a blogging celebrity...


Oh, and I never was young and beautiful, not even young... :cool: :rolleyes:


In any case, twenty years ago, I still didn't pay for my hos, my books and my food... some improvement, no? :mrgreen: :roll:
 
My sister called last night.

My relationship with my sister has always been fairly straightforward. Despite being younger than me by over half a decade, once we settled into adulthood, she was the mature one. She moved to a new city, she went on the fast track of her career, pulls in a huge salary, owns several homes that she rents out, vacations around the world etc etc. And that's awesome. She looks at me....I guess "fondly" is a good word. She thinks it's kinda neat to have a gay brother, and especially one that leads something of a boho existence. We get along pretty well.

I'm not crazy about her phone calls, though. Partially because, although she invariably starts the conversation with "just calling to catch up", the phone calls tend to be more akin to monologues. She'll have her basic topic ready to talk about, and within a few sentences, she's off. I'll occasionally weigh in an opinion or supportive comment, but mainly it's a lot of "uh huh" and "I see" on my end. Even once we finish her main topic, any talk about what I'm up to tends to be a lot more desultory. So I've taken to just summing up what's going on in my life in a compact paragraph that I can fit in at the end of the call.

Worse, she tends to talk in circles. Most of the time, when people tell a story, they might do something of a sum-up at the end. For instance, let's say you were telling me about an annoying phone call you got. You might end your story by saying "...and I finally just gave up and hung up on him. I really hate phone calls like that." My sister, however, would say "...and I finally just gave up and hung up on him. I really hate phone calls like that. Especially ones that start so promisingly. Him saying 'hi, how are you'..." and we've started the story over again. I'll catch certain phrases going by again and again. In the past, I've tried to break them up. I've said "Yeah, you've said that" or "I think you've made that clear" or "yeah, then he called you a name - got it". But she generally responds to that with "you're right, you're right, I told you that. I told you about him saying that. But when that happens..." and the story continues. :)

Mind you, this isn't a complaint really. Yeah, I'd prefer the phone conversations were more two-sided. But it eventually occurred to me (again, I'm kinda slow) that these phone calls were important to her. Not for the familial bonding that she sort of seems to think it is, but because...well, I think she needs the gargoyle's approval. When she tells me about her giving a talk to a bunch of industry bigwigs, it doesn't sound like she's bragging...or even just sharing a story. Deep down, I sort of sense this "Can you believe it? I'M doing this." And me giving my "that sounds great" comments seems to provide her with reassurance. That I think she's a good person with a good head on her shoulders, who is good enough to make the right choices. I guess it's nice to have that, even in the guise of a gargoyle you-go-girl. :)

Last night's phone call was a bit different. My parents are getting up there in years. My mother's memory has started slipping a bit - nothing drastic yet, but just simple forgetting of unimportant conversations or whatnot. My mother, being my mother, has worked on compensating - she writes a lot of notes down, keeps a calendar for everything, and rereads both to make sure she's not forgetting anything important. But my sister is clearly concerned. She realizes (as do I) that we're approaching the last phase of their lives. Unfortunately, the repeated phrase last night was "I wish I could do more, but I'm two thousand miles away."

I finally asked, "OK, say you WEREN'T two thousand miles away. What would you do? And am I supposed to infer that since I'm NOT two thousand miles away, I should be have come to the same conclusion on what to do, and done it already? When she forgot that I had a friend coming in from out of town - something I mentioned in passing, that didn't affect or influence her in any way - should I grill her on it? Should I say 'but I TOLD you this! Why don't you remember'? We're all watching her. She still remembers almost everything, she's working on compensating, and what she forgets is piddling stuff. When this takes a turn for the worse, I think we're all ready to make a move." She said "No, you're right, you're right..." and I realized that this hadn't been an accusation. She was...well, she was seeking the gargoyle's approval again, I think. She IS two thousand miles away, and she may be feeling guilty about that...and she wants to know that she's not "abandoning her post". That my mother is in good hands, with my brother and I nearby (and my father still living with her).

I probably shouldn't have have responded like that. But then again, I think it got the message through. And hell - the gargoyle has needs, too, right? :)

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
My sister called last night.

My relationship with my sister has always been fairly straightforward. Despite being younger than me by over half a decade, once we settled into adulthood, she was the mature one. She moved to a new city, she went on the fast track of her career, pulls in a huge salary, owns several homes that she rents out, vacations around the world etc etc. And that's awesome. She looks at me....I guess "fondly" is a good word. She thinks it's kinda neat to have a gay brother, and especially one that leads something of a boho existence. We get along pretty well.

I'm not crazy about her phone calls, though. Partially because, although she invariably starts the conversation with "just calling to catch up", the phone calls tend to be more akin to monologues. She'll have her basic topic ready to talk about, and within a few sentences, she's off. I'll occasionally weigh in an opinion or supportive comment, but mainly it's a lot of "uh huh" and "I see" on my end. Even once we finish her main topic, any talk about what I'm up to tends to be a lot more desultory. So I've taken to just summing up what's going on in my life in a compact paragraph that I can fit in at the end of the call.

Worse, she tends to talk in circles. Most of the time, when people tell a story, they might do something of a sum-up at the end. For instance, let's say you were telling me about an annoying phone call you got. You might end your story by saying "...and I finally just gave up and hung up on him. I really hate phone calls like that." My sister, however, would say "...and I finally just gave up and hung up on him. I really hate phone calls like that. Especially ones that start so promisingly. Him saying 'hi, how are you'..." and we've started the story over again. I'll catch certain phrases going by again and again. In the past, I've tried to break them up. I've said "Yeah, you've said that" or "I think you've made that clear" or "yeah, then he called you a name - got it". But she generally responds to that with "you're right, you're right, I told you that. I told you about him saying that. But when that happens..." and the story continues. :)

Mind you, this isn't a complaint really. Yeah, I'd prefer the phone conversations were more two-sided. But it eventually occurred to me (again, I'm kinda slow) that these phone calls were important to her. Not for the familial bonding that she sort of seems to think it is, but because...well, I think she needs the gargoyle's approval. When she tells me about her giving a talk to a bunch of industry bigwigs, it doesn't sound like she's bragging...or even just sharing a story. Deep down, I sort of sense this "Can you believe it? I'M doing this." And me giving my "that sounds great" comments seems to provide her with reassurance. That I think she's a good person with a good head on her shoulders, who is good enough to make the right choices. I guess it's nice to have that, even in the guise of a gargoyle you-go-girl. :)

Last night's phone call was a bit different. My parents are getting up there in years. My mother's memory has started slipping a bit - nothing drastic yet, but just simple forgetting of unimportant conversations or whatnot. My mother, being my mother, has worked on compensating - she writes a lot of notes down, keeps a calendar for everything, and rereads both to make sure she's not forgetting anything important. But my sister is clearly concerned. She realizes (as do I) that we're approaching the last phase of their lives. Unfortunately, the repeated phrase last night was "I wish I could do more, but I'm two thousand miles away."

I finally asked, "OK, say you WEREN'T two thousand miles away. What would you do? And am I supposed to infer that since I'm NOT two thousand miles away, I should be have come to the same conclusion on what to do, and done it already? When she forgot that I had a friend coming in from out of town - something I mentioned in passing, that didn't affect or influence her in any way - should I grill her on it? Should I say 'but I TOLD you this! Why don't you remember'? We're all watching her. She still remembers almost everything, she's working on compensating, and what she forgets is piddling stuff. When this takes a turn for the worse, I think we're all ready to make a move." She said "No, you're right, you're right..." and I realized that this hadn't been an accusation. She was...well, she was seeking the gargoyle's approval again, I think. She IS two thousand miles away, and she may be feeling guilty about that...and she wants to know that she's not "abandoning her post". That my mother is in good hands, with my brother and I nearby (and my father still living with her).

I probably shouldn't have have responded like that. But then again, I think it got the message through. And hell - the gargoyle has needs, too, right? :)

Lex
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Ego te absolvo a crucibus tuis in nomine Faggis et Faggiculi et Spiritus Fagginus. Amen.


Vade in pace.
 
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