Okay one of my close friends'. It's the things he has been saying to me at work, makes me wonder, I don't know if he's joking or if he is being serious? He texts me that I have a sexy butt, and that he wants to see my penis, cum in the bum, and so on. He also tells my other co workers about his sex jokes. Maybe trying to make everyone laugh, which doesn't work because they get confused of the message that he tries to get across. The expression in his voice, and the choice of words that he chooses. He does however have a case of Asberger's syndrome and ADD.
I did go into his room and there wasn't a single poster of a guy hanging in his room. He has posters of women. Which tells me that okay he's still into women. But he never dated he only wanted the girls to be in a friend relationship and no further than that. He is a bit religious, so that's maybe holding him back a bit. To have sex until after marriage that kind of thing.
I talked to one of my other friend's that spread the rumor to me that he might actually be gay, because he went to one of the concerts that was happening in downtown. A few of my buds caught him saying, that he likes dick. At the end of it he is all of a sudden joking about it. He is very confusing!! How should I go about helping him to open up? Or should I let him be to figure it out himself? There is that possiblity that he is closeted. But jokingly expressing his gay side is very immature. It's embarrassing, creeps everybody out. It's almost like he's insulting the gay people out there, because he doesn't like one of my gay friends just because he's Angus and he's gay.
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I gotta admit that (Angus is a little weird.) He obsesses on Apple products that will revolutionize the world, and also likes to talk about his bf a lot and beer and movies, work etc. Angus does invite me over to his place to relax and to eat supper with him and his family. He did ask me if I had a bj before. I said yes I have, from my gf who is now an ex. He said okay... Do you want me to give you a blowjob? I said no, because he has a bf already. He says okay. But I gotta mention that he already talked over with is bf that he encourages him to hang around with me. But I'm not that kind of guy who is falling for any guy. Nor willing to have any sex with him because, I do not feel comfortable at all. He does want to me to show him my porn videos. I said noooooo waaaaay buddy!
There's a point where it crosses the line.
I did go into his room and there wasn't a single poster of a guy hanging in his room. He has posters of women. Which tells me that okay he's still into women. But he never dated he only wanted the girls to be in a friend relationship and no further than that. He is a bit religious, so that's maybe holding him back a bit. To have sex until after marriage that kind of thing.
I talked to one of my other friend's that spread the rumor to me that he might actually be gay, because he went to one of the concerts that was happening in downtown. A few of my buds caught him saying, that he likes dick. At the end of it he is all of a sudden joking about it. He is very confusing!! How should I go about helping him to open up? Or should I let him be to figure it out himself? There is that possiblity that he is closeted. But jokingly expressing his gay side is very immature. It's embarrassing, creeps everybody out. It's almost like he's insulting the gay people out there, because he doesn't like one of my gay friends just because he's Angus and he's gay.
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I gotta admit that (Angus is a little weird.) He obsesses on Apple products that will revolutionize the world, and also likes to talk about his bf a lot and beer and movies, work etc. Angus does invite me over to his place to relax and to eat supper with him and his family. He did ask me if I had a bj before. I said yes I have, from my gf who is now an ex. He said okay... Do you want me to give you a blowjob? I said no, because he has a bf already. He says okay. But I gotta mention that he already talked over with is bf that he encourages him to hang around with me. But I'm not that kind of guy who is falling for any guy. Nor willing to have any sex with him because, I do not feel comfortable at all. He does want to me to show him my porn videos. I said noooooo waaaaay buddy!
There's a point where it crosses the line.
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