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Curious... Is my friend too? - Discussion

I still think this is a very cute story. I wish I had a friend like you xtc! :)

Ans that guy is so hard to read. He wants to use the fleshlight, he talks about it to you, he talks about jacking off to you, but he still is a very private person. Those things do not really match. Have you ever seen him in the nude btw?
 
He has changed in front of me. But I was on the computer and I could see out of my peripheral that he was staring right at me so I couldn't catch a peek. Then one day I was at his house and he was changing out of a towel into underwear in his closet. I was sitting on the couch and could see right into were he was standing. He was facing away from me but I saw his butt and his sack when he lifted his leg up to put on his boxers. Then I was taking him somewhere one morning and he was sporting some morning wood. It was clearly there. He was kinda trying to hide it, mostly just keeping it pressed against his leg. But it the outline was obvious.

That's exactly what I think too. It just doesn't add up. He is very open talking about his load and jacking off, tells me the size of his cock, has changed in front me before, I've seen the shape of his hard cock and talked to him about it (in text message) and he didn't seem to care that I noticed, and the list goes on. But he doesn't want to be seen or bothered while jacking off?
 
For a Fleshlight, you need to go for a water-based lube. No silicon lubricants. It will ruin the insert. I recommend Astroglide or Wet. Pricy, but they are the best.
 
Ya I knew it was between those two and the water-based gun oil. Gun oil and Astroglide are so much more expensive than Wet. So I think I'll just get the 3 pack they offer. Won't need to order and for a while.
 
I ordered my Fleshlight. I'm pretty excited. I payed a lot though since I'm having it overnighted to get to my house so I'm there and no one else is. $130 total. Ouch. Better be worth it.

I hinted to my friend that I was willing to do things if he wanted to. Which I think he got the point. We were talking about how he had missed so much when he was younger because when I ask if he did (sexual) things when he was younger he always says no. So I said well you can always try them now. The invitation is there now all you need to do is ask. He just said "alrighty". So... I don't know... I thought about telling him I would give him a special ;) birthday present, but I don't know how he will react/say. So I didn't.

I told him to come over this weekend to try it out. He isn't sure if he can though.
 
All those hints... Omg, if you were my friend I would have taken the invitation immediately.
I would really like to know what happens next, so keep us posted ;)
 
Haha. Well like I've said he is afraid of all of it... Our religion probably affects it the most. Then all the taboo about anything involving two guys sexually.

And sad news... I canceled the fleshlight order. It wasn't going to get to my house when I would get to it first and not have questions asked. So I will wait another few weeks. The guy from customer services was an ass though. I asked if I would be getting an email about my order being canceled. He was like "uh... no" in a tone like he had never heard such a question and I was an idiot for asking. He just said "take my word for it." My thought... I don't know you... therefore I don't know you well enough to take your word as truth and make sure you actually canceled it.
 
Ok.... Got my fleshlight (finally!) in the mail today. I didn't really get to enjoy it much. Just played around with it some. But it's good so far. And we're planning on my friend coming over to use it. I know he will want to be left alone doing it. Which I understand and respect.

And he has admitted to me the reason he freaks about about some of the stuff is because he feels awkward around me. The reason for the awkwardness... Who knows.
 
i dont think there has to be a reason y he prefers not to masturbate infront u, its not something i do infront ppl, some ppl like privacy, unless the person there, ur in a relationship with. i never got circle jerks, and how they cud do that
 
beachguy22 said:
i dont think there has to be a reason y he prefers not to masturbate infront u, its not something i do infront ppl, some ppl like privacy, unless the person there, ur in a relationship with. i never got circle jerks, and how they cud do that
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"Circle Jerks" are, generally, just a way of letting Everyone drop ALL of their barriers/inhibitions, and signaling there is "True Trust" among Friends! Though it is, indeed, Sexual, it doesn't, necessarily, imply anything Personal/Judgmental, or, even, "Preferentially Defining"! Though it may be considered a Contest/"Pissing Match"/"Sword Fight" kind of Competition! *|* **wars** (Especially among/with "Str8" Guys!! :-< )

"Proper Society" can put SO much, unnatural, Stress on ALL of Us, that, sometimes, it's just nice to know there is another Guy that we can completely Relax with, and show our "True" selves to! It doesn't HAVE to be a "Gay Thing" at all!! ..|

Yes! I've been Sexual with "Str8" AND "Gay" Guys! And, it's gone beyond just "jerking off" with many of them! There have even been times when Girls were also involved!!:eek: ..|

But ... it has never "Meant" anything, except for One of "Them"! And ... we've been together for 26yr. now! (group)

I'm not sure if that is going to make any sense to You, Yet! But ... if You're LUCKY, it WILL!! (!)

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz ;-)
 
^, i see where ur coming from, im not sayin wen i see circle jerk porn and stuff its not hot as shite, im jus sayin i dont think i could do it with jus friends, but i wud do it with a bf or gf, so that level of trust and bein urself would be there. i dont think circle jerks are gay at all, very straight actually, i jus dont think i would do it just like that, but maybe if i had a few drinks Lol
 
beachguy22 said:
^, i see where ur coming from, im not sayin wen i see circle jerk porn and stuff its not hot as shite, im jus sayin i dont think i could do it with jus friends, but i wud do it with a bf or gf, so that level of trust and bein urself would be there. i dont think circle jerks are gay at all, very straight actually, i jus dont think i would do it just like that, but maybe if i had a few drinks Lol
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Are You a beer/wine Guy? Or ... more the "Hard Licker" type? Just wonderin' ... :-<

(O.K.! I know! "Shut up, Chaz!" :slap: )

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Kyanimal said:
Are You a beer/wine Guy? Or ... more the "Hard Licker" type? Just wonderin' ... :-<

(O.K.! I know! "Shut up, Chaz!" :slap: )

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
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haha well i got drunk as shit from wine this summer, had a bottle and half in less than 20 mins lol just set out to get wasted, it was horrible lol passed out in my puke! but i'm more into smirnoff, or cocktails, i like stuff that tastes really good, and gets u happy :) lol beer is good too, if its good beer.
 
Well... Anyway... My friend came over and used the fleshlight. I think he feels more comfortable now that he knows he doesn't have to worry I'm going to intrude on him. But he got really nice afterward. He got pissed at me again here recently. After this though he was right back to his usual self. Which is good.
 
So... hypothesis. So my friend asked me if I talk about the things we talk about with one of my other friends. This other friend used to be best friends with him and they aren't friends anymore. And... I wonder... maybe when I asked him if he had jacked off with another guy (which he quickly said he didn't want to talk about)... this other friend could be the guy if there was one. I mean why would he care if I talk to him about the same things? Other than being afraid of having a secret of experimentation told to me.
 
He could also be checking to see how TRUSTworthy You are! Are You keeping Your personal knowledge about Him PRIVATE? Or ... might You be blabbing to people that He knows, too? And, perhaps He thinks this particular "other" might be a good candidate for You to be "sharing" with. Does He have a possible concern there? Or ... is He "safe" with You knowing so much about Him?

Then again ... He might be checking to see if You're like "that", discussing "jerking", etc., with others, too. Or, do You talk about such "stuff" only with Him?

Hmmm ... I certainly don't want You to stop "talking" with "Us"! But ... what would Your friend think if He ever stumbled across this Thread? Just saying ...

This "discussion" certainly is interesting! And ... I do hope You continue with updates! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
He probably wouldn't care really. I'm not including names or personal things that would indicate who he is in real life.

But ya... he knows I wouldn't discuss our personal discussions with someone else we interact with in the real world.
 
THAT is a "Good Thing"! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
More info for my speculation.

This friend of mine that used to be friends with my other friend... confusing I know, sorry I'm vague. But like I have said before they had a falling out and are no longer friends. The other friend said he was going to text him about them not being friends anymore since he doesn't really understand. He told me what was said. Basically my friend (the one I think is curious just wont say it) says he didn't like the way he was acting. In other words he had become a different person. The other friend asks what he means by that. My friend says for example gay jokes.

To shorten up the rest of the story my other friend asked me to talk to him and figure out a little more. I asked for specific things he didn't like about him now and he got extremely moody.

But... why would he worry about gay jokes? Perhaps they had done things and my other friend started saying gay jokes and such around him and he didn't like it...? Gay jokes shouldn't bother him... he plays football so I know he hears that stuff all the time. And then when I try asking why they aren't friends again he gets all testy.
 
And now my friend has been dumped by his girlfriend. He was texting another girl... shame shame. But ya... he is like a little lost puppy at this point. He has like texted me the entire night asking for advice or what I think is going on in her head. Kinda pathetic IMO... I'm not much for the lovey-dovey stuff. And he is a dumbass for talking to another girl when dating someone.

It's funny though... loses his girlfriend and he realizes how important I am to him and he is to me.
 
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