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Curious... Is my friend too? - Discussion

Hi X,

I just registered to post a comment on your post, First of all i got to give you props for putting yourself out there. It's difficult for someone to tell someone you life experiences. I'm still in the closet and i have a hard time showing my true colors.

I like hearing about your experience with your friend, i'm sure there are plenty of people going thru the same situation as you.

From reding the message the guy is defenitly into you but to embarressed to let anyone know he likes guys. I had a similar situation with my friend and we ended up comparing our sizes one night. It was kinda immuture but w got into who's the biggest and things went from there.

By the way have you got your friend to try the fleshlight. I wish i had one of those
 
Ha well thanks for joining for me. And thanks for saying something.

I agree with you on him not wanting people to know. I don't think he even wants himself to know. And yes he has used the fleshlight a few times now. But he is extremely picky about where he will use it. He wont use it with me in the other room even. He wants me to be on a completely different floor of the house. The other time he took it home with him. I don't understand why he is so private with it. I assured him I wouldn't try looking at him or bother him when he was using it.

I think mostly he doesn't want us being around each other when this stuff is happening because he is afraid something might actually happen between us. He obviously liked sleeping in the same bed as me. Ha.
 
xtc99992003 said:
I don't understand why he is so private with it. I assured him I wouldn't try looking at him or bother him when he was using it.

I think mostly he doesn't want us being around each other when this stuff is happening because he is afraid something might actually happen between us. He obviously liked sleeping in the same bed as me. Ha.
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I think a different way. How can he masturbate himself with the thinking that you are around sticking to his mind. It's not comfortable. He just wanna free his mind.
Sorry I dont have much time to catch all the story, so dont be upset if I ask: do you like him or not?
 
Coffee said:
Sorry I dont have much time to catch all the story, so dont be upset if I ask: do you like him or not?
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Well truth is he is my best friend. I have never been this close with anyone. Even my own brother. Which is why I see him more like a brother than a friend. So I love him in that sense. I will admit I am attracted to him physically... which is probably the whole motivation behind my interest in messing around. I see it as a lustful thing... not really as in "I love you let's have sex to better our relationship" because our relationship is best friends/ brothers and I will not let that change.

And ya that is true with the masturbation thing. But still... he has done it in my house... when I was there (in the shower just a wall away) and he had no problem doing it then.
 
xtc99992003 said:
And ya that is true with the masturbation thing. But still... he has done it in my house... when I was there (in the shower just a wall away) and he had no problem doing it then.
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May be... he is so horny thinking (or peeping) you're smoking hot naked there, and wanna release ASAP. lol
 
Ya see I just don't understand somethings with him. He claims he doesn't like doing it when I'm around because he likes his privacy... but that day he did it when I was in the shower I noticed something was up. I got in the bathroom started taking off my clothes when I realized I forgot a towel so I went into the hallway to the towel closet to get one. I noticed him kinda dart back into my room but I didn't think anything of it. He told me later once he got home he jacked off. I was like woah... what? This was also when he told me he accidentally got cum on my bed... HOT!

He obviously didn't have a privacy issue with it then... I know he was checking to make sure I was in the shower when he darted back into my room. Unless he was afraid I would find out what he was really jacking off too...
 
Oh... no... still think you're misunderstanding. All that stuff happened a very long time ago. It doesn't occur anymore. They aren't and never were boyfriends.
 
xtc99992003 said:
He is coming over tomorrow and staying the night! Ha.
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Is it my Imagination? Or ... do I hear a LOT of Snuggling going on??! (At least I certainly HOPE so!) :badgrin: (group) (!w!) :zzz: ..|

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Haha. Well... I will see how things start out I guess. Then maybe I will get really close. Heh...
 
There is nothing like the Heat, radiating from another's Being, to warm You up in Heart, Mind, and Soul!! (group)(!w!)..|

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Ok... last night was awesome. I didn't sleep a wink. So he did the same stuff. Except I think he stepped it up a notch. He would put himself in a position so I would either have to sit there or if I moved I would be kissing his arm or have to back away from him... and I didn't want to do that. And then he got into a position that his butt was right on my crotch. Then he was so close to my face and we would rub our feet against each others. Basically we would just find a way to have skin touching or be really close.

I'm thinking about asking him about it all... see what's up with it. It took me everything I had to not grope him or rub my boner against him. Ha.
 
FANTASTIC!!! I'm nearly as Happy to hear that, as You must be now, having done that!! (!w!)

However, I might caution about Talking about it. You already know that bringing up "stuff' like that often makes Him uncomfortable. And, it would certainly seem that the Main thing is to let Him get, and stay, as comfortable as He wants! (group)

Now You've got even more reason to ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Ya that's true. But I'm just confused where this comes from... he seems so turned off by it all but then gets close to me (in interesting ways that might suggest he wants something) when we're sleeping?

I feel like I should at least bring it up. Maybe not question him about it. See what he says first. I don't know. I'll think about it.
 
It would seem it's the Talking, not the Doing, that makes Him uncomfortable. And, in a way, I can kind of understand that.

If He considers Himself Str8, and has defined His own Self Image as such, whether He "really" is, or not, THAT perception is what He is comfortable with. Actually Talking about any contradiction to that Image probably raises a conflict, in his mind, and makes Him "edgy".

In a way, it seems to be a General "Guy Thing" that if something isn't brought up, it doesn't exist/matter. "I'm Str8 ("Normal"), but I still like to "Play", as long as it isn't Talked about!" You wouldn't believe how many times I've run across those "conditions"! "Suck me, fuck me, and I'll even do it back. But, Talk about it and I'm Gone!" It's also like, "Sex? Sure! But, don't dare try to Kiss me!" Denial is more than a river in Egypt! #-o](*,)

I'm not trying to say that He will ever want anything more than Snuggles. Only He knows that. So ... since You already Like what He's willing to do, so far, RELAX and let Him keep going! He just might, or maybe not, eventually be willing to move a bit past His own "acceptable level". But, He has to be the one to make that move! Just don't do anything (like Talking!) to get in His way! :cool:

Simply ENJOY the Closeness as long as it's there!! It doesn't need to be made any more Complicated than that! (group)

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
So I just mentioned it in a jokingly way and he said he wasn't even aware of it. So ya... you're probably right with your assumption. I know he is aware of it. I know he was awake.
 
i wouldn't risk talking about it. i think your better off just doing stuff without verbalising anything. i think it might scare him off
 
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