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deal breakers

Wow, I didn't realise so many guys were so picky...threads like this make me not wanna date anyone!
 
Drama queens! I understand that people aren't perfect, and sometimes we have a bad day and say or do things that maybe we shouldn't (I'll admit I've done it), but if it happens a lot, that's a problem for me. I don't want to get involved in somebody else's drama either.

Jealous and controlling is a red flag right there. If I see that, I'm bailing.
 
AllMan said:
OK, call me what you like, so let's call names like little children, huh?? Are you feeling better about yourself now? ANYWAY, if someone has no BASIC sense of matching or knowing what to wear or not to wear & what looks good/doesn't look good on them, then---for crying out loud---they have some hidden organizational/rationale issues going on anyway. God know's what else they can't get together in their life....



Yea, you would say that wouldn't you----you're not even close to being on my level anyway, so there wouldm't even be a deal to break in the first place; you would be well below my standards, regardless!!! I would probably see how much of a hot mess you were as you were walking up, and stop you in your tracks before you even speak. :wave:



Um, ok---a misogynist? Come on dude, was the best insult you could think of? That's your heavily flawed opinion. That is just totally wrong---you are using that word completely out of context and ignorantly.

So you think it's ok to tie something around your waist that is MEANT to be worn on your chest/torso??? Well why don't you just let your true colors show, and put a damn dress on and save yourself the hassle of even tying the shirt around your waist!!!!! ](*,)
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*snorfle* I was going to say more, but really...that's enough.
 
AllMan said:
-Femininity
-Being a queen
-Talking with a lisp
-Owning only sandals (it's already bad enough you are femininie, but you have nothing masculine and manly in your shoe wardrobe????)
-Wanting to introduce me to all your friends on our first date/meeting/encounter
-Expecting me to pay just because I am financially secure
-Bad breath
-Dirty House
-Roaches/bugs in your house
-Dirty white shoes (or any dirty shoes, for that matter)
-Demands
-Excessive talking/texting while we are togther
-Talking over me every other word---I mean, can I just get a complete damn thought out ONCE without you interrupting me????
-Guys who wear make-up
-Switching while walking
-High pitched voice to the point where it's just annoying
-Doing excessively "gay" and female-inspired stuff just because you feel the "urge" to do it for attentention, because you think that that's what being gay is all about
-Wearing knock-off Louis Vuitton or Gucci (or any Italian, French, or British label) and confidently flashing it like you are "doing something grand"
-A dirty car
-Tagging your friend(s) along for the ride/date/etc
-Being late to our agreed meeting time and place
-Talking to other people in the background while you are supposed to be talking to me on the phone
-Being a "typical" Latino (selfish, childish, arrogant, selfish, immature, picky, oh did I mention selfish??)
-Not being able to speak proper English
-Not having at least finished high school and you are in your late 20's
-Not having attended college (ok, so yea everyone has not been to college, but they at least have a well-paying career). I hate people who have not been to college AND they still work at McDonalds or Wal-Mart on an hourly wage, but then they have the nerve to complain about work or not having money AND they still live with their parents, etc etc
-People who judge me as snobby or rich, or are overly concerned and fascinated by, my material possessions
-Not having a car AND not living alone---I can deal with one or the other, but both??????
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^^ With that many hang-ups, I'd just get nervous. And that's a deal-breaker. I do agree on certain points, though.
 
i had a guy tell me once after one date he wanted me to move in with him. needless to say i never talked to him again. he still tries to get in contact with me, but i ignored him.

another one is whining throughout the entire date.

texting is another one. i usually ignore my phone unless im expecting a phone call, but even then i usually just call back.
 
Well lets not talk about the chemistry issues, like smell, breath etc, those are different issues but can be a deal breaker . Here is the list that will make me stand up and leave.

1. The guy asks about my size and hole tightness condition on the phone, though the size has been mentioned on the profile as "Average". I prefer to have the element of surprise, provided that a hint has been given in advance.

2. Guys who ask "What do you like in sex?", I consider it offending, and a hint that the person is not interested in me, and is trying to arouse himself through dirty talk.

3. I actually count the usage of Egocentric words like "I" and demanding words like "Want". If someone uses those words more than often, then certainly he has some issues.

4. Being an ass to people around him. A single inappropriate word about me, or anyone else like Waiters etc, is an indication that he is not a good human being.

5. Education level really matters, if a person doesn't know the basics of language and appropriate usage of words then he is a turn off.

6. He should be confident about himself and his sexuality, and should not expect me to be his guiding light.
 
BigBoss said:
3. I actually count the usage of Egocentric words like "I" and demanding words like "Want". If someone uses those words more than often, then certainly he has some issues.
5. Education level really matters, if a person doesn't know the basics of language and appropriate usage of words then he is a turn off.
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I agree ..|
 
Those guys (you know the ones) who are so hot that they never notice you or try and catch your eye contact...or they give you the wrong phone number, or if they already have a super hot/younger/richer boyfriend---total Deal breakers.




Everything else--negotiable.
 
1) Not actually being single.
2) Being a drug user. I have no problem with weed (unless you're a total pothead) and the jury is still out on XTC (mostly depends on frequency). But meth, GHB, cocaine, heroine and the like warrant immediate disqualification.
 
For me I can't deal with the attitude or really bad flamers. I've met some guys that talk and a Gucci bag flies out of their mouth.

Mark
 
BigBoss said:
2. Guys who ask "What do you like in sex?", I consider it offending, and a hint that the person is not interested in me, and is trying to arouse himself through dirty talk.
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I'm not sure that that's a bad question, really. I mean, do you read minds? Is it bad to find out what a guy likes before you hit the sack? I think I'd like to know if someone is into defecating on my chest BEFORE I take my clothes off. :eek:

If someone asked me that question I wouldn't feel offended at all. I see it as a compatibility check.


To add to my original list: I forgot Drug use. Anything more than a joint... No way. I've known enough addicts to know I don't want their problems.
 
StationToStation said:
this a bit too Liz Lemon for me
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Nothing is too liz lemon. ever. she was my muse for this thread.

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1:
Somebody who wants to date someone who's like himself in every way. Just stay home and jerk off while looking in the mirror.

I'm the quiet one, you be the boisterous one.
I'm the skinny one, you be the built one.
I'll build the rough framing, you do the finishing details.
I'll be the writer, you be the talker....
I fly planes, you climb mountains, that kind of thing.

2:
Somebody who figures out Number 1 but then wants it to be Set In Stone Forever. The reason I like somebody different from me is so I can grow too. Maybe I'll get good at some of the things you do, and vice versa.

3:
"Tops" or "Bottoms." I can't handle it. When we get together in bed, it is the time that sharing each other's experience is most important to me. I would be willing to try a lot of things in bed, or stick with somebody's preferences, but I couldn't handle being in a "role."

4:
Any religion other than pure wonder and curiosity. If you've signed up, eaten the biscuit, chanted and waved, or even just put a name on it, you're too out there for me.
 
This is probably bad, but if a guy put his jacket around his waist around me, it would be done. Over. It's just one of those things.

Also, pail hairy guys with cankles and high socks.

I have a lot of problems i need to get over.
 
Being in the closet
Being addicted
Being ignorant of politics
Being contrary just to be contrary
Being too into his own looks
 
operafan said:
Being a Republican.
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I would have to say this is probably the only one I could think of that would be an actual deal breaker. It's obvious, we could have nothing in common regarding the treatment of others and having any humanity.
 
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