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Destroying Somebody

Depending on what they had done, and if they were not remorseful or apologizing for their actions....

They have a chance to redeem themselves and make up for it, otherwise then yes.

Everyone should have the chance to apologize, even if you have to confront them to apologize.

If they still refuse, or give a fake one, then they do deserve it so that you can let them experience how people feel with the way they treat others.
 
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Just encountered a situation something like that this week on monday. I almost accidentally ended up in the same dr/s waiting room with someone I have not seen nor spoken to in over 16 years. I fled immediately.

But there is something that i did do to this individual that was/is totally out of character for me. And it does not bother me one bit. My conscience is very clear and it never disturbs my sleep.

However, seeing this person, did effect me for a few days.#-o #-o #-o

eM:(
 
Originally Posted by ahotjock71:

Just to clarify, this is a hypothetical situation, not something I am contemplating.

I'm a big believer in the karma thing too, and have been tempted many, many times to seek out retrobution for wrongs done to me. But in the end I figured that yes, they will destroy themselves in the end.

What get's my goat though are those people who do others wrong and yet they continue to prosper in life & love. I only hope that an afterlife of unimaginable horrors await them.
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I'm somewhat of a believer in universal suggestion. With that said (bring out the healing crystals and incense...and a little Yanni for BG music--I prefer "Swept Away"), I've come to find that thinking about the success of those who screw other people over only brings more success to them. I mean this person that had hurt you, you'll go on about their good fortune and overlook the fact that you're sending out some cosmic message that this person has done good for themselves, which in turn keeps it coming to them. Don't waste another minute of your energy on this fool. If they would hurt you, they will probably do it again to someone else, since they're most likely unconscious to the fact that what they're doing does hurt other people, and never attempt to reason with it; therefore never think about it...which is why they can prosper and move on without looking back at the "trail of the dead" they left behind. Forgive them. Doesn't mean you have to be friends with them, or reconcile, just forgive them for their lack of heart, and soul, and move on. In time you'll prosper in life and love as well, and this will be a something, overtime, that you can thank them for in the end cuz it helped you grow.

WOW, where in the hell did that all come from? Uh, er, I mean chill out, yo. :gogirl:
 
I wouldn't do it. I do not need to waste the time, energy or emotion required for revenge. I just trust that in this life, they will get all that they deserve, for both the good they do as well as the bad. It does no good anyway. You cannot control anyone, other than how you react to those around you. Just my opinion mind you........
 
It depends on what exactly they did to me. I am a very vengeful person under the right circumstances and I would want them to feel the same pain I felt. It may sound horrible, but I like having dirt on all of the people I know for that very purpose. I never plan on using it, but if I ever needed to, I like knowing that I could.
 
ahotjock71 said:
If someone hurt you very badly, and you had the opportunity to destroy them (say by telling their job about them or something like that) could you do it? Would you do it?

Keep in mind this individual hurt you very badly.

Post honestly.

Food for thought.
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NO. Don't stoop to their level. Move on and stop letting this person keep you captive.
 
I think every at one point or another everyone has those feelings/questions of whether or not to get back at someone and yet after the moment passes, most think better of it. Is it really worth it? I think it would be time well spent to just let it go....that way there is no guilt.....
 
Ten years ago I used to work in a bar. And one night after closing time one of the regulars, a married guy, followed me home to the dorm I lived without me noticing. He some how got inside the building and surprised me in my room. I had left the door unlocked because I wanted to go take a shower. Anyway he threw me on my bed, tried to out power me. I fought him. Lucky for me before he could realy hurt me some of my neighbours woke up because of the noise and kicked him out. Back then I was a real hot head and had the whole "don't fuck with me" thing going on. I swore to myself I would get even with him some day. 4 years later I'm at a gay party and guess who comes up to me, hitting on me, a little drunk, not reconising me... Mister married! He told me his wife was out of town until the next evening, if I wanted to come his place with him for some kinky stuff. Some how I knew this was it. I would get my revenge and I wanted it!So I went along. He ended up handcuffed to his own bed, with the sheets and blankets thrown of and the window open (november is cold in europe) for his wife to be found the next day. Call me a bitch for doing so if you want, but back then I couldn't help myself. Now a day's I wouldn't even consider doing something like that. An eye for an eye ain't the solution.
 
sangoma said:
Ten years ago I used to work in a bar. And one night after closing time one of the regulars, a married guy, followed me home to the dorm I lived without me noticing. He some how got inside the building and surprised me in my room. I had left the door unlocked because I wanted to go take a shower. Anyway he threw me on my bed, tried to out power me. I fought him. Lucky for me before he could realy hurt me some of my neighbours woke up because of the noise and kicked him out. Back then I was a real hot head and had the whole "don't fuck with me" thing going on. I swore to myself I would get even with him some day. 4 years later I'm at a gay party and guess who comes up to me, hitting on me, a little drunk, not reconising me... Mister married! He told me his wife was out of town until the next evening, if I wanted to come his place with him for some kinky stuff. Some how I knew this was it. I would get my revenge and I wanted it!So I went along. He ended up handcuffed to his own bed, with the sheets and blankets thrown of and the window open (november is cold in europe) for his wife to be found the next day. Call me a bitch for doing so if you want, but back then I couldn't help myself. Now a day's I wouldn't even consider doing something like that. An eye for an eye ain't the solution.
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It may not be the best solution, but it's sure as hell satisfying. That was a good story.
 
No, I couldn't and wouldn't. To me that's bringing myself down to the same level of the one who caused me pain, and I would feel as lousy of a person than him/her. I just move on and try to learn from those situations.
 
doctorsun said:
It may not be the best solution, but it's sure as hell satisfying. That was a good story.
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It was satisfying then, but gmoney is right. By doing so I did lower myself to his stupid level. And it did bite me in the ass a little. The story got arround some how and now I'm still known as the wicked bitch from the west in the gay scene arround here. Well if that's what they want to think off me, be my guest. My friends know I'm not (anymore;) )
 
Jordan_White said:
I just think of what Divine said at the end of Pink Flamingos:
"Kill everyone now. Support first degree murder. Advocate cannibilism. Eat shit! Filth is my politics! Filth is my life!"

Wait, what was the question again? :badgrin:
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HELL YES!!!

A former employer screwed me out of 3 weeks pay.

My response: An anonymous phone call to the IRS - detailing his various schemes, scams and hidden assets.

The result: A complete audit of his finances, followed by a prison sentence.
:badgrin: :badgrin: :badgrin:
 
I don't know if I would want to "destroy" them, necessarily. But if I felt like they intentionally hurt me and they didn't make an effort to apologize, then I would definitely want to get even.
 
No, that's notsomething I'm likely to do. I've had the circumstances AND option a couple times in the past. I didn't do it...even in one case I ran into that person again much later, and of course it was brought up but I didn't threaten, or start throwing punches, etc.

I know a couple people who swear they would KILL that other person who wronged them, if they even saw them again.
 
It is hard to say if one is not in the same situation. When one is overtaken by rage, he will do things that he wouldn't have done otherwise. So it depends. I think the best course of action is to wait 48 hours and make a final decision only if one is stone cold sober. I have done things under the influence of alcohol that I have regretted later. I don't want to repeat that.
 
No way. What goes around, comes around, every dog has his day and the good you do will come back to you, just as the bad will.

etc etc etc.

I've had the wrong thing done to me twice in my career but two truly evil Managers. But I've had pride in being able to walk away with my head held high although as soon as I was out of sight, I pulled out the voodoo dolls I'd made and started sticking in the pins!!!
 
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