Do you enjoy being considered attractive?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

folk wot a use internet of get folk say hey ya hot?

media lands ans da crap of it

so is vote fa da pizza in da window wot not piles shit on it

thankyou

 

[chrisw87]

Some of us aren't physically attractive. We just aren't.

I'm OK with that more and more each year. I was raised by old people, and few of them get there with much retention of handsomeness, sexiness, or the like.

I've always valued hospitality and kindness. I get quite a pleasure from seeing guests leave with a wonderful evening behind them, and knowing my preparations were in part responsible. It's who I am, and I'm proud of that. Can't do much about beauty, but can do much about my actions.

I like your sentiments, but I hope you aren't talking about yourself. If that is you in your profile (not your avatar lol) then you have a good face structure, a nice nose, and everything seems to be in proportion and as fairly symmetrical as humans can get So you aren't unattractive.

Compared to myself, I like my nose but I don't have very good facial symmetry . Apparently we are supposed to be more naturally attracted to people with symmetrical faces which I can understand from a species point of view, but lol... same as you I get over it. Can't change that about me

 

[GamerBear]

I like receiving a compliment, but thing is I rarely get them.

 

[fontana]

NO Compliments, NO pampering me, NOT being sweet = NO SEX, something you wouldn't want to happen.

 

[kevbo]

I'm still getting used to receiving them...

 

[Kabluey]

Yep - nice to receive compliments, nice to feel good about yourself.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Enjoy and believe don't go hand in hand.

But to answer. Yeah. Feels nice.

 

[mbamike]

Yes I do! They are usually from guys who want to fuck me, but I take them anyways.

 

[ixthrock]

I tend to be more appreciative and receptive of compliments about my artwork than any other types of compliments, but I'm grateful for all of them. I feel like physically the most that I can really do is clean myself and dress myself..nature does the rest :lol:. With art I can truly represent what is on the inside, though, so when people respond to that I really love it.

I was a skinny blonde kid, and I am uncomfortably aware of how a large segment of our community finds that attractive. I remember the garbage man repeatedly telling me that I was very attractive, and expressing incredulity that I wasn't a model, and THEN revealing that he could picture me modelling women's underthings . Okay, that was kind of creepy. But I had glasses, corrective shoes, a bird chest, and - because I unsuccessfully tried to tame my curly hair into the feathered bangs so popular in the 70's - the other kids called me "rat's nest." I had such a gorgeous mane of hair if I'd only understood how to work it...

Many of the compliments I recieve on my physical appearance - even today - are sadly filled with desperate longing and sexual need, and just depress me. Also, it is undeserved attention - a focus on something I have no control over or responsibility for, apart from cleaning up and dressing myself. My even temper, compassion, sense of humor, work ethic - those things require a lot of effort and character; I'd much rather be complimented on that kind of thing - even though I'm likely to give all credit to my parents.

 

[Kulindahr]

NO Compliments, NO pampering me, NOT being sweet = NO SEX, something you wouldn't want to happen.

Um...

... why?

 

[GamerBear]

When I receive them here on JUB it's probably just to describe my personality with my posts. Hardly received a compliment in person before.

I guess the people who have given me a compliment online it feels good but then again they are just seeing a picture of me the real truth is when they see me in person.

 

[HunterM]

Oh yes! Me like.

 

[TheBigDSergey]

Considering that I feel ugly as hell due to shallow jackassery, it feels great to, every once in a while, get a compliment from a guy that actually is open-minded about beauty.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

if attract pizza wot real pizza

it a good thang

* pizzas is disapear all ova world *
- ooh noooooo quick undergorwd shelts -
$ ya no like pizza?
- ooh yeah -

haaaaa

 

[Maestoso]

Yes, unfortunately being physically attractive gets you attention from BOTH sexes, the ladies can be pretty intense and annoying at times...

 

[ibill1]

I enjoy them and try to give them out when warranted. I'm always dressed to the nines at work and believe it is all about presentation. I can put it all together in a half hour. Even though I'm older, and do not get as many as in my younger days, I still enjoy hearing how good I present myself on a given day. I'm not sure it has much to do about general beauty as much as how we present ourselves to others.

 

[Kioygan]

My mums friends would always compliment how handsome I look but I always either think 1) They are just saying so to be polite 2) They are just saying so but they're lying

I really was a ugly duckling, but I guess I do look okay (and somewhat attractive ) now compared to back then. But I always look better in my mirror than a mirror in a public bathroom, or pretty much anywhere in public..... -_-

DAMN U MIRROR, WHY U SO DECEIVING!!

 

[Audio Tech]

I'm very flattered when someone pays me a compliment or considers me handsome. I do not consider myself anything but average.

Unfortunately, this usually comes from people that I'm not even remotely attracted to.

 

[Titanic]

Until a month ago I was almost never complimented on my looks, so I got fairly insecure about them. Then I moved to a new area, and suddenly I get plenty of people telling me I'm a handsome guy - one guy even asked if I were a model (didn't know whether to scoff or hug him!). It's really uplifting, and I'm so grateful to everyone who has complimented me.

~> Now where's the spin-off thread, "how often do you compliment others?"

 

[jmadaf]

You should enjoy every compliment and give some back.