Do you get grossed-out by your partners skid marked shorts, when it’s your turn to do laundry?

[pat grimshaw]

I'd take one Hard-up1 over a thousand GiancarloCs… You have shown yourself to be one-dimensional, tedious, self-absorbed, verbose and self-aggrandizing.

don't forget narcissistic, pettish, misguided, overly-entitled, over-indulged and (sadly) an exemplar of California's PC education system and a harbinger of the next generation of Americans.


A link to another thread~ http://www.justusboys.com/forum/hot-topics/371553-princess.html

 

[oakpope]

I am my own person. I don't like to be tied down to someone who cannot help themselves. That's my outlook on life.

Thank you for your reply, things are more clear now for me. Apologize if I have offended you, it was not my goal.
We differ very much on this subject, maybe your problems in your youth lead to your outlook. Maybe the ones that take care of their love ones who become handicapped don't feel tied down. But I'm lucky in not having been in this situation, those who have may give their insight on this if they wish to, I'd love to hear from them.

Would I be wrong in thinking that you rate personal freedom very high in your values ?

 

[pat grimshaw]

…And I'm leftist. Which means I stand with the people…

Yes, and Evita Peron used to say "We are all shirtless"

 

[pat grimshaw]

…You have to try harder if you're gonna troll me.

I get the impression you say that every day to your lecturers at university.

 

[sixthson]

hey, if your partner ever comes down with cancer or MS, you can drop them like a rock and start a club with Newt Gingrich

Only if Newt doesn't have skidmarks in his boxers. One must have their standards, dontchaknow?

 

[mikey3000]

I get the impression you say that every day to your lecturers at university.

What? Really? You've GOT to be joking...

GiancarloC, you better be prepared for a lonely life after your forties, cause, to be honest, it sounds like you don't deserve anyone to be tied to you when your body starts to fail.

And remember, people judge you every day by what you say, they don't have to meet you in person. You say plenty right here.

 

[mikey3000]

then watch what you say and people won't judge you so easily.

 

[pat grimshaw]

(Narcissists and spoilt children know how to make themselves the centre of attention)

 

[80KGold]

I used to work in the spa of a really posh hotel. Work-out clothes were provided for the patrons. One of my jobs was to do the laundry. It's amazing how many (and how often) rich dudes shit their pants. I always threw the shitty shorts away.

I would do the same with my partner's shorts, 'cause fecal matter doesn't wash away easily. Also, I'd give him the same talking to that my mom gave me when I was in 3rd grade: "You need to be sure to wash your ass! I bet' not see that shit again!"

Soap-and-water are a must after every sit-down.

 

[Asenath]

It is amazing how a little box of baby wipes in the bathroom clears this source of domestic some other website right up! They even make ones you can flush right in the commode with the TP!

I'm just saying.

 

[Native Son]

Accidents can always happen, but I don't think that is the issue.
And we are not debating the case of someone with a serious health problem, I don't think that is the point either.

We are talking about perfectly healthy people who either do not shower daily or don't bother to wipe their ass properly on a regular basis. The question is, would you put up with someone who doesn't give a shit about their personal hygiene?
The answer is NO

You're making way too much sense ES. You need to cut that out.

 

[EuroSoccer]

You're making way too much sense ES. You need to cut that out.

Cheers mate
Sorry can't help myself

 

[ibill1]

I might have many years ago but not now..With his cancer affecting his body it is not unusual for that to happen....Or for him to unexpectedly wet the bed...I just dont make a big deal about it..We have other more serious issues to deal with than thatT!! When he had his first surgery I had to change his "diaper" and clean him up..You do what you have to do for the one you love...no restrictions..

Exactly. In over 30 years I've cleaned up his vomit, wiped his ass when he was too sick to do it himself. Cut his hair, cut his toenails, bathed him, fed him, you name it we did it for each other. If I could have him back I would do it all over again. I enjoyed making his life easier when I could

 

[ibill1]

I am my own person. I don't like to be tied down to someone who cannot help themselves. That's my outlook on life.



Where did I lose this debate? I stated my opinion on why I do what I did. There is nothing I'm evading as this isn't a debate. It's more just where a few people are stating their opinions. My answer to every one of his question is a flat out NO.



You can assume that, but that's not true (at least with the second part). I've experienced a lot in my life... some things people shouldn't experience. I've had a rough growing up, but I don't want to get into that.



This isn't about wrong or right. Some people have certain outlooks on life. I am not going to be tied down to someone who can't help themselves.

This proves what I have said before that some people are not able to love. They may think they can but you can not possibly make a statement like that and say you are capable of truly loving someone. From what I have read, and correct me if I am wrong, if you loved someone and they became disabled, you would end the relationship. I can't imagine who would want to enter into a relationship with someone like that. Actually, I wouldn't even want to be friends with someone with so little caring of a fellow human being, let alone someone they say they love.

 

[CowboyBob]

Exactly. In over 30 years I've cleaned up his vomit, wiped his ass when he was too sick to do it himself. Cut his hair, cut his toenails, bathed him, fed him, you name it we did it for each other. If I could have him back I would do it all over again. I enjoyed making his life easier when I could

Bill...... that's love!

Bill...... As you and I have discussed before I did the same thing for my companion Dan when he was ill and dying. I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat. In our relationship he put me first and I put him first.

When do you really need someone...... when you're doing your best and making everything easy, or when you're at your worst?

I quit my job for him so he wouldn't have to go into long term 24 hour care. I bathed him, fed him, changed his clothes for him, cooked, cleaned did everything for him. And I'd do it all over again for him. This afternoon I went to his grave, planted flowers, cleaned the lantern and statue I have out there for him and sat and talked to him. I'd give anything to have him back.

And someone gets "grossed out" by skid marks on underwear? Good God!

 

[CowboyBob]

You have to do gross things for the people you love? I don't think I have that kind of mindset.

I'm really surprised at some of the remarks you're making in this thread, Giancarlo. It's obvious you've never been in love. You don't have to do things for the person you love.... you want to do things.

Hopefully you'll feel different when you're older. You'll see.

 

[oakpope]

Exactly. In over 30 years I've cleaned up his vomit, wiped his ass when he was too sick to do it himself. Cut his hair, cut his toenails, bathed him, fed him, you name it we did it for each other. If I could have him back I would do it all over again. I enjoyed making his life easier when I could

Bill...... that's love!

Bill...... As you and I have discussed before I did the same thing for my companion Dan when he was ill and dying. I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat. In our relationship he put me first and I put him first.

When do you really need someone...... when you're doing your best and making everything easy, or when you're at your worst?

I quit my job for him so he wouldn't have to go into long term 24 hour care. I bathed him, fed him, changed his clothes for him, cooked, cleaned did everything for him. And I'd do it all over again for him. This afternoon I went to his grave, planted flowers, cleaned the lantern and statue I have out there for him and sat and talked to him. I'd give anything to have him back.

And someone gets "grossed out" by skid marks on underwear? Good God!

You are the real heroes, and deserve the highest praises possible. I can only hope that I could be as loving and courageous as you have been. I salute you.

 

[Shepherd 2]

Exactly. In over 30 years I've cleaned up his vomit, wiped his ass when he was too sick to do it himself. Cut his hair, cut his toenails, bathed him, fed him, you name it we did it for each other. If I could have him back I would do it all over again. I enjoyed making his life easier when I could

Sir, I am with you, although I have only been partnered now 28 years at nearly age 72. There is simply nothing that I would not nor will not do for him, and as I have seen, he for me. He is now 66. Loving one another and making love seem to go together. I am very moved by your story and FlaMan to whom you responded in post 102.

Do I ever feel a bit uncomfortable at things I may need to do, perhaps, but I quickly realize what is really important in our committed relatonship. One does not really fall in love, but grows into it. Since I am the only laundry person in this household, I can tell you, I do not think twice about skid marks in my man's undies. It is not important.

Since I wash the sheets daily for the two of us, they usually bear the marks of our love making, and we are quite active. I see them as a badge of faithfulness, love and honor. There may be more challenging times ahead, but I am in this for life, and that makes me quite happy.
Shep+

 

[oakpope]

I'm so happy to read those kinds of posts. It's inspiring for me, such love shown. We need more people like you lot.

 

[streetblackcock99]

I ain't cleaning no bitches ass, he ill, he goin in a home.