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Do you regret having cut someone out of your life?
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People grows apart.
Its not your fault or their fault. People just have other things to do and day by day passing by, weeks passed by, months passed by, years passed by, decades passed by without contacts ... and some already returned to the soil without notice. Thats how life is, sad but true.
theFallenGod
P-Chan love
I would have regretted it ... if they showed even the slightest hint of remorse for their own actions.
Then again if they had showed remorse I probably would have forgiven them and not cut them out to begin with.
Then again if they had showed remorse I probably would have forgiven them and not cut them out to begin with.
seven_sins
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I did it once. No regrets.
BINOWGAYLATER
Do that 2 me 1 more time
I do regret it - I didn't speak to a very close relative for around 15 years - - it was over something that could have been "fixed" - because i felt I was owed an apology that didn't come. -- but at the end of the 15 years - (more or less) it was the other person that contacted me -- and we kinda picked up right where we left off -- but nobody apologized - we kind of agreed to "start over" from that point forward -- I'm glad I agreed -- we kinda need each other now. more than before.
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Growing up, we moved every 3-5yr. So, I learned, very early on, how to cut people out of my life. It was a self-preservation thing for me. And, unfortunately, I became very good at it. 
It wasn't so much about "cutting them out", as it was "letting them go" ...
But, when it did come to the point of purposefully, with all intention, of "disposing" of someone, for whatever reason(s), I have had no qualms about it. No regrets, no "looking back".
I am happy to say, though, that there have been very few people that I've had to forcefully disconnect with. Most of the time, it's only been a "drifting apart". Some tried to maintain contact after I had already "moved on". There have been an exceptional few, though, that I've maintained contact with for decades. Those are the ones I cherish, above and beyond!
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
It wasn't so much about "cutting them out", as it was "letting them go" ...
But, when it did come to the point of purposefully, with all intention, of "disposing" of someone, for whatever reason(s), I have had no qualms about it. No regrets, no "looking back".
I am happy to say, though, that there have been very few people that I've had to forcefully disconnect with. Most of the time, it's only been a "drifting apart". Some tried to maintain contact after I had already "moved on". There have been an exceptional few, though, that I've maintained contact with for decades. Those are the ones I cherish, above and beyond!
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
FirePhoenix
Insanity v2.0
The people I have chosen to not include in my life anymore where the ones I was better off not having in my life so i do not regret those. I do regret how I have chosen to cut a few of them out though.
Cyanlaser
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My good opinion of one, once lost, is lost forever.
I do, however, regret cutting "him" out of my life. He was my first and only bf, and we had an internet thing going. (i know...I was 3 years younger and about 5 years stupider) He was my whole world. He lied over and over and over. Cheated on me with 12 other people & got a girl pregnant. He lived across the country from me, but the 13 of us got together and got our revenge.
I don't know what became of him though...his facebook page is private and I often wonder about him. I'm still terribly hurt by what he did, but I do sort of regret cutting him out. He had it coming though, he really did.
I do, however, regret cutting "him" out of my life. He was my first and only bf, and we had an internet thing going. (i know...I was 3 years younger and about 5 years stupider) He was my whole world. He lied over and over and over. Cheated on me with 12 other people & got a girl pregnant. He lived across the country from me, but the 13 of us got together and got our revenge.
I don't know what became of him though...his facebook page is private and I often wonder about him. I'm still terribly hurt by what he did, but I do sort of regret cutting him out. He had it coming though, he really did.
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i have never regretted cutting someone out of my life. I don't do it often but when I do it, it is there is a serious reason. However, I will say that it hard for me to let new people in my life because of a combination of my shyness (which I have always been), the way I have been treated by others, and the way I see others treat people.
construct
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I almost never cut someone out. I just walk away.
Sometimes when I break off a romance, I'm pretty explosive, and it usually takes them completely by surprise. I guarantee you they would never want to walk into that kind of buzz-saw again.
When I've had to disentangle a meddlesome person, I just refuse to make any substantive response. I ask no questions, and I answer questions with "oh, I dunno," "I've never given it any thought," "well, I don't think I'm going to do that," "well, we'll see," and such like in the most bored, languid tone I can adopt.
Once I've walked away, I don't look back. No promises, no regrets.
Sometimes when I break off a romance, I'm pretty explosive, and it usually takes them completely by surprise. I guarantee you they would never want to walk into that kind of buzz-saw again.
When I've had to disentangle a meddlesome person, I just refuse to make any substantive response. I ask no questions, and I answer questions with "oh, I dunno," "I've never given it any thought," "well, I don't think I'm going to do that," "well, we'll see," and such like in the most bored, languid tone I can adopt.
Once I've walked away, I don't look back. No promises, no regrets.