Do you think more advantage to gays who prefer older guys and disadvantage to gays who prefer younger guys?

[aaggii]

The thing is some people we know think that's a big age difference.

When we first started dating, he took me to a party with his co-workers. They composed mostly of young guys in their early to mid 20's. They seemed uncomfortable that I was dating him. One of them, in his drunken state, mentioned that I was a lot older than my boyfriend.

It just seems sometimes that people see us as having too big of an age difference.

The problems that people have with you are their problems, not yours. Tiny minds and big mouths. You do what makes you happy. Unless you know, it´s killing people or stuff like this.

 

[JPGhost]

I know one thing...If someone called me their Daddy I would have to cease any further contact with them.

But if he's young, fine and not calling you daddy, would you bang him?

 

[JPGhost]

Young guys ARE flaky. They will use you and then drop out of sight. They find it funny to use you real quick and then move onto the next victim like a cheap, fast and easy slut.

Not true. At least I remembered correctly I wasn't that type when I was young-er. Some of us inexperienced and soul searching, some are just evil.

 

[JPGhost]

All I know is this one guy once called me "slut son"...and that happened to be a one way ticket out of my pants...

So..was the result severe enough?
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p....tv&utm_medium=embed&utm_campaign=embed&t=1.6

 

[JPGhost]

Bitch please - I'm 24

You should change your avatar not like that 15th century dude/lady. Very misleading imo ^^

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want to come to DC and go out with me?

If Im in DC

 

[JPGhost]

Unfortunately there are some that are desperate, they need to prove that younger men finds them attractive. :-(

I dated one guy before and we weren't an item yet or anything but he already snapped my pic with him then posted it on his fb

 

[JPGhost]

The thing is some people we know think that's a big age difference.

When we first started dating, he took me to a party with his co-workers. They composed mostly of young guys in their early to mid 20's. They seemed uncomfortable that I was dating him. One of them, in his drunken state, mentioned that I was a lot older than my boyfriend.

It just seems sometimes that people see us as having too big of an age difference.

I get it..you are a kind of guy who looks 'older' than your actual age. 'Still it's a small petty thing to concern about that.

 

[JPGhost]

If I were in the dating/mating scene my first test would be if we were attracted to each other, second would be intellect... could we have any thing but sex together? Of course this all comes after the typical character assessment stuff, if he spent in prison time looks and intellect would not over rule that.

That's true though. But not after he spent time in prison

Age would be part of the physically attractive thing. If you're hot, you're hot, if you're not you're not.

Beauty is relative and some people have it fluctuate through out the years/over time. I was really butt-ugly when Im 16 under.. but my best shape when I was 25, some guys overweight when they were teen and suddenly a hunk in his late 20s, some blossoming later in life and looks good as daddy fuck yeah

 

[JPGhost]

One thing I have to eliminate when looking for older guy, my penis should not be the foremost indicator. Some older guys just straight came from porn fantasy..http://www.datedicklive.com/tour_2003/index_next.html
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he obviously will distract my purpose.


and that makes me no better than those older guys who hunting the youngest pristine twink based on lust factor.

 

[eastofeden]

But if he's young, fine and not calling you daddy, would you bang him?

No...I would mentor him or watch out for him but if he is young enough to have been my son...we are never gonna fuck. I am attracted to guys around my age...10 years plus or minus is the general rule...

Even in porn...I like older men....

 

[blackbeltninja]

I think 24 and 30 is easily a pretty big age-gap. 24 might be fresh out of college and pretty naive, 30 could be someone who didn't study further and has 12 years work experience. It's probably a manageable age-gap though.

My ex and I were 7 years apart, but it was massive. He was 27 going on 20, I was 34 going on 50, and it showed quite heavily. That's a large part of the reason why ours didn't last.

The guy I'm currently sort-of half-half seeing unofficially (long story) is only 24; and I've just turned 38. I'm more aware of the age gap than he is, much to his annoyance sometimes when I mention it, but it is quite a chasm. We're very alike in many ways, but chalk and cheese in others. I could see myself with him permanently later, but not now - there are things he needs to get out of his system first before I would seriously consider a proper defined relationship, things I know he would have to give up if we tried now because I simply can't do them, and I don't want him to miss out on them. He recently suggested we make things more official and I declined and proposed we think about it later. It all got very messy, but we're patching things. And no, before anyone asks, I don't expect him to wait; I just asked him to not write the idea off down the line if we're both still single when the timing is better.

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[JPGhost]

I think 24 and 30 is easily a pretty big age-gap. 24 might be fresh out of college and pretty naive, 30 could be someone who didn't study further and has 12 years work experience. It's probably a manageable age-gap though.

Yes but many of 30 yo still immature while having leisure/hedonistic life the same as early 20s, they could cruise together and complementing each other. The difference...that the 30s have more period breaks for career while the 20s living in college life.

My ex and I were 7 years apart, but it was massive. He was 27 going on 20, I was 34 going on 50, and it showed quite heavily. That's a large part of the reason why ours didn't last.

Pardon, I dont quite understand..

The guy I'm currently sort-of half-half seeing unofficially (long story) is only 24; and I've just turned 38. I'm more aware of the age gap than he is, much to his annoyance sometimes when I mention it, but it is quite a chasm. We're very alike in many ways, but chalk and cheese in others. I could see myself with him permanently later, but not now - there are things he needs to get out of his system first before I would seriously consider a proper defined relationship, things I know he would have to give up if we tried now because I simply can't do them, and I don't want him to miss out on them. He recently suggested we make things more official and I declined and proposed we think about it later. It all got very messy, but we're patching things. And no, before anyone asks, I don't expect him to wait; I just asked him to not write the idea off down the line if we're both still single when the timing is better.

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But some of younger guys seriously into older types and they happen to be a responsible old soul

married 4 years and counting+ 4 children