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do you think you're good looking, average or ugly?

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Screwdriver4 said:
lmaoooooooo so's jealousy henny b
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A little advice with social skills... Even if you think you are good looking, you should not go around broadcasting the fact or acting like you know it. That comes across as arrogant and is indeed a major turn-off. Your looks should speak for themselves and you don't need to announce or promote them in any way. You should just remain polite, humble and down-to-earth; that is far more attractive. counterspade is very handsome yet modest about it. He doesn't boast and that makes him more attractive. Nothing makes you more unattractive than arrogance. It makes your looks seem like a paper-thin façade that covers up the ugly you inside. The impression you will leave with people is not "Wow, he's good-looking," but instead "Ick, what an arrogant bastard."
 
Although I'm not drop dead gorgeous with looks that can stop traffic, I do think I'm above average. If I saw myself in the street, I think I would say I was attractive but not my type. I'm asian and have a preference for caucasian men :) I have thick, wavy/curly black hair and people always comment on my smile. I am always referred to as "cute" rather than handsome as well, which I've accepted. I've never been called ugly but I'm not complimented on a daily basis either. So its this nice balance of thinking I'm good looking, but not overly so that I've become egotistical about it.
 
On any given day, I'd say I float around average. When I'm trying to look good, I'd say I'm pretty good looking. I wouldn't label myself as hot; I think on a good day I'm what most would call "cute." Now, when I'm dressed as a woman (I mean legitimately dressed as a woman, not over-done drag), I'm gorgeous (and I've been told so).
 
I think this is a difficult question. I think I'm good looking, but not Drop-Dead-Everyone thinks I'm hot good looking. I'm more attractive to some people than others, and I'm not physically what I'd look for in another guy - but I recognize that my looks are good.
 
To be honest, I think I'm pretty good looking. I always thought I'm average at best, but throughout the years, people were just insisting I'm good looking and yeah, it stayed that way.;)
 
joswanprince said:
Right now my confidence tells me that Im above average but you guys can say Im below or ugly, it doesn't matter.

Once my self image fixed, Im pretty much trust my instinct for my own appearance. ..|

Maybe I should make a comic strip, this is interesting idea, thx fujie ^^
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I think your amazing ^.^

<3
 
As I never tire of telling people - most recently Anders :) - "You don't get to choose what other people find attractive."

It seems most of us get that in an abstract way. We understand that some guys are attracted to twinks, and others attracted to muscular guys, and others attracted to bears. And we'll accept it when it comes to our OWN preferences. But then we seem to think we're exempt when it comes to us being the object of it. As if yeah, other people that look something like me might be found attractive, but ME? - forget it!

But see, that's just it. We're not some sort of magical exception. If you put yourself out there, and do some interacting with people, there are people who will find you attractive. Maybe not most of them, but some. And THAT's what you should be playing to. THAT's your target audience. And I don't mean you should jump into bed with the first guy that says you're hot - you still should click and feel comfortable with him and all that. But that group is where you should focus your energy, and everybody else doesn't matter when it comes to your looks. Those three guys at the bar aren't interested in you? Fine - mentally cross them off your list, and keep looking for somebody who is. Because they're out there.

Lex
 
Over the past year, I've developed in regards to these foreign concepts of "confidence" and "self-esteem." I vary anywhere from "I don't have too much I can complain about," to "Why is everyone more attractive than I?" Though I do wish I'd lose a few pounds...
 
I always thought I was below average when I was young. I was pale and scrawny. Could have gone EMO.

But now in my late 40's, I have matured and am in great health for my age. People tell me that I'm quite handsome and look younger than my age.

So take it how you will.
 
bw92116 said:
A little advice with social skills... Even if you think you are good looking, you should not go around broadcasting the fact or acting like you know it. That comes across as arrogant and is indeed a major turn-off. Your looks should speak for themselves and you don't need to announce or promote them in any way. You should just remain polite, humble and down-to-earth; that is far more attractive. counterspade is very handsome yet modest about it. He doesn't boast and that makes him more attractive. Nothing makes you more unattractive than arrogance. It makes your looks seem like a paper-thin façade that covers up the ugly you inside. The impression you will leave with people is not "Wow, he's good-looking," but instead "Ick, what an arrogant bastard."
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If it wasn't for my nerves of steel and my charming wit, I doubt many would see me as attractive. Course I have been told by many I am far too hard on myself and void myself of any compliments.
 
Huntneo(PT) said:
I think I'm just average. I know I'm not devastatingly handsome, but I'm not entirely unattractive either. My partner thinks I'm hot--so that's all that matters right now. :lol:

I have my good days and bad. Some days I look in the mirror and I think 'damn...I look pretty good'. Then there are days when I look like I should hide under the nearest rock. lol :help::eek:
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I hear ya. Some days, I wake up and I'm not repulsed by my reflection. Other days, I avoid mirrors so I don't turn myself to stone.
 
I'm probably slightly above average. I'm in perfectly fine shape (people say I look good) and my face isn't awful. I've spent plenty of dissecting my face to find what's good and what isn't: as a whole, the only things that are "unattractive" about my face are just from my Asian heritage: slightly droopy eyes, big cheeks, big lips. I do have pretty ruddy skin though, which has always annoyed me.
 
i consider myself to look average. i really don't consider myself ugly but i really dont think i look really attractive either.
 
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