Does race/ethnicity matter....

[slave4supernewty]

Well i ask you. Why do you guys like white dudes so much when you guys claim a mass majority of them are not attracted to you ? This has always boggled my mind. I personaly like Brazilian guys, and they like me, so it works out for me in a good way. However, if i knew Brazilian men are not attracted to my "kind" them maybe i would move on, or just grab the few i can and head for the hills.

I would say I and maybe some other people in here like white guys because we've been conditioned to. In gay culture, all you see are these pretty white people with other pretty white people. Look at the covers of Instinct, DNA, XY, even look at porn, EVERYONE IS WHITE!! You have to specifically look for other races and they are all lumped together like some fetish thing or ghetto-ized group that only belongs out of the mainstream.
As a result so many others feel that white is only beautiful and won't even take a chance on someone of another race. It is very disheartening to see all these ads that say "White Only" "No Blacks" "No Asians". Yes, people are entitled to their own racial preferences but when Whites are the majority in the gay community and you see and hear the same things over and over and over again and you talk to guy online and then it's dropped when he finds out your black time and time again, it's so damaging. I'm an attractive guy. I have a nice face, work out 5-6 times a week, have a nice muscular body, am a nice down to earth guy, I get nothing.
I need to stop because I should know by now, in Southern California, there are very few guys who like Black guys. Other places like the Bay Area and East Coast, it's much easier but SoCal is just so hung up on the white thing.

Not everyone is going to be a straight white jock.