Dominant Boy - Submissive Older Man

[Beanstalk]

Domination and Submission is about the oldest kink/fetish there is, but it seems to be almost always about a dominant older man with a submissive younger man. But for me, I am so powerfully aroused by the thought of enjoying a submissive relationship for a dominant younger boy ("boy", of course, refers to legal age or above - for an older man like me, a young man of 18 - 25 or so is definitely a "boy").

Most of my life I have felt like I was one of a kind - are there other men who relish the thought of being used and dominated by younger men? I would love to hear from other men who enjoy these fantasies, or who are able to experience them in reality.

I would also greatly love to hear from young men who either enjoy fantasies of dominating an older man or who actually experience such a relationship!

For me, personally, I prefer oral service -- I want to suck, lick, massage the body of my dominant Boy Master, bathe his whole body with my tongue, kiss and lick his feet -- but the kink is really the same no matter what kind of sex you enjoy.

For me, there are two ways which make the fantasies even better -- if I can enjoy being the submissive sex slave for not just one boy, but a whole gang of horny boys! I love the party atmosphere where the boys share their submissive older sex toy with each other, watching, laughing, commenting on all the action, and just enjoying a whole party. The other turn-on for me is being watched while serving my boy or boys. If there are a whole gang of boys, they can all watch while I am serving any of them, but any other audience is all great -- somehow it intensifies the submission if there are witnesses to it watching it all.

It even continues -- for the fantasy to reach fully intense orgasmic levels, it is best if the relationship is not just a one-off event, but an ongoing relationship, in which I enjoy regular submission to my boy, or gang of boys. It just gets better and better with every day's service! In some of my fantasies, I imagine being kept in some young men's basement all the time so that I can be used for their pleasure any time of the day or night they want it. Perhaps they might host frequent parties in which I am offered to any number of their friends to play with and to use for their pleasure.

I have had occasional experiences that have come close, but my desire to serve a young Master (and his friends) so greatly outstrips any experience that I could never imagine being able to completely satisfy this desire!

I wonder if I am not alone with these fantasies and desires, and if young men realize that there are, perhaps, lots of men like me who would like nothing better than the chance to offer unlimited and unconditional service to some young boy?

Since I have started having these fantasies, the desire just gets more and more intense, and no other sexual fantasy really comes anywhere close to the kind of excitement I enjoy when dreaming about finding a boy who would want to own me as his personal sex slave, to use when and where he wishes, to share with his friends, without any limit, and forever.

Now I need my towel!

 

[GamerBear]

So rare to see this kind of stuff in the gay world. It's always the older guy dominating.

 

[cocksucker4use]

I have played with a 23 yo black guy who really enjoys dominating, using and abusing an older sub white guy like me... He really gets off on humiliating and degrading me and making me grovel and beg naked at his feet for permission to worship and service Him. Young and hella HUNG, He knows that He is in control and that I will do anything he wants to be his personal white pig. He is really creative and very confident as he teases and doles out reward and punishment His white sex slave scum. I am a lucky white pig bitch to be allowed permission to serve Him.

 

[careandrespect]

Hi Beanstalk,

After reading your words I can certainly understand where you are coming from. It definitely adds a new twist to this kind of fetish. So often it is the older male who does all the dominating. Most of the time this is done because he is presented as the master and the one who "knows more" when it comes to sexual expression.

If I let my mind wander I feel the same way you do. Younger partners have a lot of built up energy they are looking to release and I know that they are always looking for new ways to release it.

Thanks for starting this thread I am looking forward to what other JUB members have to say.

 

[cocksucker4use]

Hi Beanstalk,

After reading your words I can certainly understand where you are coming from. It definitely adds a new twist to this kind of fetish. So often it is the older male who does all the dominating. Most of the time this is done because he is presented as the master and the one who "knows more" when it comes to sexual expression.

If I let my mind wander I feel the same way you do. Younger partners have a lot of built up energy they are looking to release and I know that they are always looking for new ways to release it.

Thanks for starting this thread I am looking forward to what other JUB members have to say.

Hey CARE...
yessir, an older sub is more experienced, grateful and willing to obey, submit and be used to satisfy a younger DOM / MASTER who has more stamina. a lot of guys who say they are sub have fantasized, but not really done it enough, and freak on the reality of what it means to be a true, unquestioning sub. This is a frustration for any DOM, unless patience and training are part of the deal. If the DOM wants satisfying action and follow through, having a willing, experienced sub that knows what the deal is and is prepared roll with the punches and go with the flow to satisfy a REAL MAN is what will work for Him.

 

[careandrespect]

That is true. The one thing that will make such a situation more enjoyable for both partners is being open with each other and willing to share the thoughts and desires.

Thanks for raising such a good point.

 

[RicanKicks]

I have done this Im 23 and in shape. Im top. On the downlow. Met up with MANY Old guys like 50s and stuff 40s
Im very picky as they gotta have a banging ass!! And in great shape. Just my luck too cause when I do them its some of the best sex Ive had. I Love dominating MUSCLE!

However I stopped doing that with older guys man I been on a fuck binge for 3 months straight no lie I lost count how many pple I been fucking...with condom of course so IDK what to do now as I seem to have lost intrest in all men. Guys my age older in their 30s 40s great shape as Im not conceited just know what I want. But now I want to like I guess have an off season

 

[Beanstalk]

Thanks for all the input. I guess I can't think of much to add from my point of view. But I would still love to hear from other young guys to hear what they think about it? Are there young guys who would get into this if only they realized how many older men want it so bad?

Just spread your legs and let me devote myself to the joy of giving you all the pleasure I can manage to give you!

Maybe that's why I like to suck so much -- I really like taking the active role: licking, massaging, sucking, and making love to my young boyfriend, while he just receives my expressions of devotion and love. Any young guys want this? I'm so hungry!

 

[GamerBear]

When I was single I could never find an older guy who wanted to be submissive some even told me to keep it that way cause the older guy was NOT suppose to be submissive but dominant.

When I got with my partner I basically haven't really done anything with the whole submissive/dominant roles. Maybe some just have it easier than others.

 

[careandrespect]

Hi

After reading GameBear's post I realized that sometimes relationships don't always have to have a dominant/submissive role to be successful. It is true that it can add a little excitement once in a while but it is not always required.

I also think that sometimes these roles are not always fixed. I'll admit that there are days when I want to play the more dominant role and others when I want to be more submissive.

Flexibility can add so much excitement for both partners when it comes to this topic.

 

[Monkeydonkey]

I am in my sixties and you just made this old boy's cock as hard as it has ever been before!!! A dominant young boy (over 18, of course.....legal) and a guy my age would be sooooo hot. I need one of those boys!!!

Is that you in your avatar? If so, damn I hope I'm as hot as you when I turn sixty.

 

[Beanstalk]

Yes, Care, you are right -- it doesn't really matter to me whether a young guy wants his older man to be submissive or dominant -- I just want a younger guy, and I am totally happy to do whatever it takes. It is easy for me to be dominant -- that is my "natural" role anyway! I just remember when I was young, and I would love it when an older guy just wanted to give me pleasure, asking nothing in return but the chance of contact with me on any terms.

But so many younger guys (at least the ones who are into older men) seem to be looking for a stern daddy figure to fuck them silly, order them around, take full charge of the relationship, and "force" the younger guy to serve as the vessel for the older man's pleasure, so I can get into playing that role. However, I usually can't hide the fact that I really just want to kiss their feet and bathe their whole body with my tongue! It is so much easier for me if I can find a young man who loves to be the center of attention all the time, and exclusively. The more a boy wants it, the more I enjoy giving it to him.

I wish I could hear from more boys who like submissive men!

And, Monkeydonkey, if that is really "you" in your avatar, I just love it -- smooth and slim turns me on every time! Yum

 

[careandrespect]

Hi Beanstalk,

You are speaking a great deal of truth.

I like to think that not all younger guys want to be treated like an object. Maybe I dream too much but I feel the same way you do. The ultimate dream "reality" would be able to be very gentle with a younger partner and share time with him. Being able to caress and hold him in my arms is really where it is at. Being able to message and rub his smooth body and being able to offer him as much pleasure as I possible can.

Spending time with him just listening to him and offering him the opportunity to share how he feels. Being able to just gaze into his eyes and hold his hands in mine is probably the best thing of all. Being able to learn from him and see him as a caring person who has feelings and emotions like me.

I know I am getting of track, but your last post just made me think a lot more about what we are sharing in this thread. I feel most comfortable in saying that just being able to spend time with a younger partner is always rewarding.

I just hope there are some younger guys out there who feel the way I do and want to go beyond the aggressive treatment and just share some gentle times together.

Thanks for letting me share this with you.

 

[alapin]

This doesn't seem to happen very much - although there is every reason it should. There are legions of older guys out there who want to suck dick - and there must be loads of younger guys who woulnd't mind having someone at their beck and call to suck them off - but...

 

[Beanstalk]

I think a lot of younger guys don't even realize how eager many of us are to suck them off or massage their bodies, or kiss their feet -- I remember times when I would be licking and sucking some cute boy, and he kept thinking he had to "return the favor" or something -- he couldn't seem to just relax and spread his legs and just enjoy my eager service for him! Whenever I find a boy who doesn't care at all about "returning any favors" and just wants me to suck him, that is the best for me! I just love it when a boy wants to enjoy my full attention on his precious young cock, and spreads his legs to enjoy my efforts without being distracted in any way by any thoughts of doing anything for me in return.

What I want so much is to give as much pleasure as I possibly can to the boy I am with, so he can please me best by just letting me serve him -- and never mind how I want to do it -- I just want to serve him the way HE likes it best!

It's not just the sex -- there is the emotional bond which excites me -- I just love being the submissive sex slave for a young, hot, hard, and horny boy! It is hard to explain or understand, but the more selfish a boy is, the more arousing it is to me, sexually.

The boy doesn't even need to be "dominating" or anything else -- he just has to understand that my WHOLE pleasure is focused upon pleasing him and playing with his hard cock. As long as a boy understands that, and enjoys that, he can even be friendly and loving to me if he wants. I would just love to find a boy who would love a man like me whose whole sexual desire is to keep my young boy's hard cock at the center of both of our worlds, all the time! I want to marry a boy like that, and live with him happily ever after as his full time sex slave.

That is just how I want to enjoy the sex with him -- apart from sex, we can enjoy a committed relationship, partners in business, loving each other. The point is that if a boy wants to express his love for me, he can do so best by using me exclusively for his sexual pleasure, all the time. I would just love that, and I need that. I need a boy to love and serve.

 

[Chuck69]

This is the ideal age-related sexual scenario. An in-shape older guy who bottoms for a boy, allowing the boy to do whatever he wants. There's no exploitation of the younger guy because he controls it.

It's a generous and training situation. I wish I could find more porn of this kind, because I know a lot of guys like it. But the porn makers don't think so.

 

[RicanKicks]

This is the ideal age-related sexual scenario. An in-shape older guy who bottoms for a boy, allowing the boy to do whatever he wants. There's no exploitation of the younger guy because he controls it.

It's a generous and training situation. I wish I could find more porn of this kind, because I know a lot of guys like it. But the porn makers don't think so.

True man. I member this one guy 47 years old bangin body and He let me do whatever I wanted to him i was sex-starved that day too haha
But I have an innocent looking face but inside I HUNGERED!
Started SLow but then Just went at it so hard he loved it and exploded his cum in the bed

I was um 18 at the time
Muscle Sex is the best

 

[careandrespect]

Beanstalk - I certainly understand where you are coming from. Sometimes younger guys do have these feelings inside and sometimes they want to act upon them but they are still uncertain as to how to make the first step. Things such as uncertainty, anxiety as well as not knowing exactly what to say can sometimes stand in the way.

I agree too, it does not even have to do with sex, I guess the biggest enjoyment is enjoying the company of a younger guy and being there with him. As they call it "sharing space" with him. That can bring so much pleasure.

 

[nickslave]

It's my wildest fantasy, but it's never gonna happen. Younger men are not that interested in mature men. They have to be very self confident to dominate and abuse an older man. And usually it's the other way around.

 

[Beanstalk]

I don't want to be abused -- I just want to give love to a younger man. He should love me, not abuse me! Why is there so much fantasy about abuse and forced sex and throat fucking a man while he gags and chokes? What ever happened to love? I just want a boy to love.