Eliminating sexual desire

[hotatlboi]

Sounds like a very unhealthy desire. Definitely seek assistance from a counselor.

 

[1o1dcoD]

Don't hurt yourself.

Before you do something irrational, you should be more realistic.

Have you ever felt insecure about your appearance? Are you depressed?

I think you should take care of yourself better. Sex is an animal instinct and we're animals, not plants nor bacteria so it's impossible for humans to be asexual.

Even if you cute your penis off, your brain will send hormonal signals to your body. So to be very scientific, you'd have to remove your brain to be truly asexual.

But I think you should take care of yourself.

I used to be 5'9 and 180 lbs with a 36/38 inch waist, this was in high school. I was so upset and did not like myself. but I realized I was holding myself back. I started eating better. I avoided all foods that were artificial, junk foods, candy, foods that dirty the colon.

Then I began taking care of my health by exercising and everything else fell into place. Men and women complimented me more and noticed me more. My self esteem grew.

Just don't think too much. Dissect everything and think about everything one thing at a time.

 

[Quarkesd]

The drugs exist . . . it is just made to other reasons (high blood pressure, etc)

That's what I was thinking actually, remember that one Sex and the City episode when Samantha met a guy who couldn't get it up but simply didn't care because he was happy?

It would also be nice to get rid of that deep pain in your gut every time you walk down the street and look at a handsome young guy knowing you can never ever have a handsome young guy because you are too old and not handsome..

 

[asu1117]

Not literally.
But women express they are not interested in sex and I felt the same way. I was not getting horny much.

Sweeping generalizations are great.

 

[MindBlast]

You're still young yet... early thirties isn't biologically "decrepitude"... that happens in your latter forties.

Not even close.

More like 70's or 80's if you take care of yourself and exercise.

I am friends with a gay couple who are 53 and 49, and they are solid muscle, hot as hell, and they still have sex with each other several times a week even after being together longer than I've been alive (I'm 27).

It takes effort to do this, and people don't like to put in effort. I'm going to be stronger when I'm 50 then I am now, I guarantee it, assuming I don't die in a horrible car accident because I'm a fast driver.

Enjoy your life Quarkesd, masturbate, have sex and prosper. You don't even have to change your body really to do that. You just need to meet a guy who you're interested in and who is interested in you, and there are a lot of guys that think like you and think they aren't interesting to anyone. But you guys never meet each other because you assume it can't happen.

But I will say this: Most guys who are hunky and muscled are into the same thing. They put in the effort and hard work to get that way, and they want to meet a guy who cares about his body equally. It may be slightly superficial, but it's also the fact that it's "You get an E for Effort!" attitude that those type of guys typically like. I'm actually a good example of that. I look pretty good and I'm in great shape and young, but my chances of having sex with some of those superstud models I see sometimes is pretty much zero. Everything's kind of relative.