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First Sexual Experience - w/ a guy or a girl?

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Hello fellow Bisexuals!

I thought that this would make a great thread topic:

---- "Was your first sexual experience with a male or a female?"


I swear that I would be straight if my first sexual experience was with a female, however this was not the case for me. My best friend growing up (who is now straight and has a girlfriend) coaxed me into "experimenting" with him.

This is the very reason that I still, to this day, find myself struggling with a sexual identity. I still have incredibly intense orgasms thinking about dudes, but when I started dating a girl, those fanstasies left me. We broke up after about a year, and my fantasies returned.

Just curious has to what experiences other JUBBERs' had growing up...
 
Well i guess it would have to depend on what a sexual experience is defined as, becuase when i was really young i liked to play "you show me yours ill show you mine" with the girl across the street.. but the first thing i would actually call sex would have been in middle school with a guy, but that was mostly oral and one time with penetration. Then in high school it was girls all the way. So there, that is the best answer i can come up with :)
 
Hi, Con! ;) With a guy. It was fast and quick, I didn't even get a good look.

T
 
Mine was with a girl, actually the first few were a girl, then I started getting interests in guys :D :D
 
Thank you all for your input...

Seems most guys experimented with girls first, then became interested in guys.

Do you guys have more fantasies that tilt towards male or female?

I have some intense fantasies about guys, but found that when I acted on it (with another guy), I was not nearly as interested as I thought I was.

My point is that the first sexual encounter you have profoundly effects you and your sexuality (at least in my case.) Anyone agree/disagree?

And Trish, I have to know more...did you get off, or was it a minute guy?
 
Hi, B’Woof! ;) ..Yes. I was 15. All my friends were, so. My mom had put me on the pill the year before, she said to regulate my periods but really because guys were getting interested. And I didn’t know about girls yet.

Hi, Con! ;) More like 30 seconds, he didn’t even pull my panties off.

T
 
Well I guess you can say my first sexual experience was with a guy. I was about 10 years old and I would play hide and seek with my neighborhood friends. i would "hide" with the oldest one out of the group who was around 15 or 16 i think and i would suck his cock. one time we hid in his closet and he tried to fuck me. i do mean try bcuz he didnt get much inside.
 
I came out as gay in high school, but because of my religious beliefs, I tried to become straight. My first sexual experience was with a woman, at 18. We had a 4-year relationship, with regular sex, and it was great -- except that I always fantasized that I was actually having sex with a guy. Then I came out as gay, and thought of myself as exclusively gay for some time -- until I had a few more experiences with women.

I dunno. It's confusing, but, on the other hand, why the compulsion to label everything?

So, anyway, no, I don't think one's first sexual experience can determine one's orientation. But I suppose it can make realize that there's a wider range of possibilities out there than one would have expected.
 
I first kissed a guy, and actually had sex with a girl first. I still haven't had sex with a guy yet.
 
When I was in 3rd grade I was spending the night at a freind's house. We fooled a lot for our age. It was just that one time though. It was definately taboo at the time. I have always thought of that as the spark that ignited the flame, no pun intended.
 
First experience was with a guy. I was 14 and the same friend who had showed me how to jack cock showed me how to suck cock. We had a great relationship for almost two yeras after that. (We didn't have time for girls since we couldn't hardly keep our hands off each other). I wasn't with a woman until college.:D
 
Girl. I have actually never done anything with a guy. JUst had raging fantasies about them lol. However the sleakness of the femine body turns me on as well.
I am a very confusing person.
 
I never had sex with a girl until I was out of college by a year, I was 22 years old. Prior to then it was only with guys. Started as childhood games, I touch you and you touch me, and that lead to an occassional blow-job. In jr. highschool I got fucked for the first time by a guy who was in highschool and I thought the world of him. Not only did he allow me to kiss him but he kissed me back and I was in heaven. Here was a guy that all of the girls wanted to fuck him, but he was fucking me. I did not know that I was getting used at the time, but I enjoyed the attention that I was getting.

Through out college it was guys only and even though I thought about going all the way with a girl, it really did not get to serious.
 
When i was 11, my parents would send me to the neighbor's house often to get me out of their hair.

The neighbors' kid was a Freshmen in high school and very antisocial and withdrawn, I dont think he ever left he house or had any friends. Apparently very horny too because he would some times masturbate in front of me when i was in his room. He would also make up reasons to get me out of my clothes (always wanted us to use the pool when i came over, etc) and then he would want to wrestle around. It usually ended with me pinned face down and him grinding/rubbing his cock on me until he came. I didnt really get turned on much by it, i just didnt care really when it happened. I figured 'cause he was older that it was normal. It was the norm when i went over there. After a while it got on my nerves because he got really aggressive and i ended up beating the crap outta him. (yeah, i really did!) that was the last time it happened.

I had other experiences with people closer to my age after that. I didnt have any sexual encounters with a female until i was almost 14. I lost my virginity 'officially' at 16.
 
with a girl first; actually a woman several years older than my tender 17. some fun experiences with guys in college but also several girls, and a fairly long str8 relationahip. Still more women than men, by far, but I feel strongly attracted to both, often.
 
First messed around with girls but I've done more with guys.
 
My first sexual experience was with a girl my junior year of high school. That next summer her family moved away and as time went that next year we grew futher apart.

I wonder now that had she not moved away, would I be straight? While we were together and even before I didn't even have any thoughts about guys. It wasn't until my Freshmen year of college and off on my own that I crossed over the fence. It has taken me about 10 years now to become attracted to women again.

So I guess one could say I'm sitting on the fence now.
 
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