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Fooled around with my "straight" friend

I don't know Jinx. That's a question that has been bouncing in my head. A damn good one. I tend to grab on to the familiar because I don't like the unknown. I don't stumble out and meet nice new friends just like that. I've tried!

I don't understand dropping someone especially someone who has been in your life for over 10 years just suddenly. It confuses me. But my thirst for knowledge is about quenched. I really don't care anymore......
 
OK Phoenix,
It's time to step out of the box and look at the bigger picture. Your friend is newly divorced. He's going through a rough patch right now. He's on the rebound. He's having a "man-whore" phase. Chances are he wants to fuck his problems away. While I understand your situation, clearly he is going through his own.
That night he called you did not come out of the blue. He thought about this before and finally got up the nerve to ask you. He turned to you for compfort and you gave it to him. Like most men, he didn't think of the consequences. He was only thinking of himself. I'm sure he didn't set out to hurt you and now he's really messed up. The best thing for you to do is forgive him. He's not thinking clearly so don't take it personally. The next thing you need to do is pat yourself on the back for bagging your straight best friend. Plenty of gay guys wish they could go where you have gone. Chalk it up to experience. He may have had you, but you had him too!
 
Blueboy369 said:
The next thing you need to do is pat yourself on the back for bagging your straight best friend. Plenty of gay guys wish they could go where you have gone. Chalk it up to experience. He may have had you, but you had him too!
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Blueboy369, I can pretty much assure you that I won't be patting myself on the back anytime soon. I wish I hadn't gone where I went. The cost was way too high.

Touche' Diodorus ;)
 
Hey Phoenix,

I think you're going to be just fine. By the way, don't feel guilty or embarassed about what happened. Just add it to the list of 'Didn't see that coming' experiences and try to laugh about it as time rolls on.
 
Thanks rareboy, I'll keep that in mind. I apologize for any snippiness on my part. You've been very helpful.
 
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