For bi guys, has sex with men changed you? And if so, in what way?

[BiBtm64]

Many of us have started out in straight relationships then given in to our curiosity. Did sex with men change you? If so, in what way?

Do you carry on different traits in everyday life? Or is man-sex just something that happens in the moment then you go back to your regular pre-bi self? Do you ever regret it or has it changed you for the better?

 

[magicdick]

Many of us have started out in straight relationships then given in to our curiosity. Did sex with men change you? If so, in what way?

Do you carry on different traits in everyday life? Or is man-sex just something that happens in the moment then you go back to your regular pre-bi self? Do you ever regret it or has it changed you for the better?

I started out straight and I obsessed over pussy (still do) until my ealy 20s when I saw a cock presenting itself and within 3 milliseconds I knew I had to have it in hand and in mouth and receive the cum. I'd never contemplated any of this before, so why the sudden desire? The woman latent within me surfaced. Simple as that. There is, anatomically and mentally, a woman in every man and vice versa. Change? Now I could have twice as much sex. Never ever regretted it. Actively seek cock to suck and fuck. The cum part is a little puzzling. How did I know I would love it, crave it, need it? I think most men would object, at least initially, to the a mouthful of cum.

 

[BiBtm64]

I started out straight and I obsessed over pussy (still do) until my ealy 20s when I saw a cock presenting itself and within 3 milliseconds I knew I had to have it in hand and in mouth and receive the cum. I'd never contemplated any of this before, so why the sudden desire? The woman latent within me surfaced. Simple as that. There is, anatomically and mentally, a woman in every man and vice versa. Change? Now I could have twice as much sex. Never ever regretted it. Actively seek cock to suck and fuck. The cum part is a little puzzling. How did I know I would love it, crave it, need it? I think most men would object, at least initially, to the a mouthful of cum.

Great answer - and I know you, so I'm not surprised, but it's great to read it so well articulated. "The woman latent within me surfaced."

For me, there was a realisation of what it's like to be a woman and the feel the force of dick. When I feel all that raging lust powering into me, and he's using my body for his pleasure and sexual release, I feel feminine traits of of empathy for my fellow man, nurturing and caring, and collaboration - working together for a common purpose. The pleasure is also mine, of course. I've grown to understand more what it's like for women, and I've taken that understanding into straight sex. I don't feel womanly, as you do, during receptive anal sex or when giving a blowjob. When I get fucked, I feel like I'm taking it like a man. It's simply an awakening of what might be regarded as feminine traits.

Also for me, in my daily life, there's a quiet confidence in what I can achieve. I don't feel the need to openly compete as some men do. I think many who do are inwardly insecure; I'm the opposite. Any man I meet, I know I could take him, please him, and if he's straight and especially if he's homophobic, I know I could milk him and make him question his sexuality. It's something I inwardly know I can do, and I don't need to boast about it. I feel like I have a secret game that nobody knows about nor should know about.

It's a weird thing with cum, isn't it. I'm about to have steak for dinner, and cum is not my choice of sauce to go on it. You don't see cans of cum flavoured soda at the store. Why do we like it? I think it's the association with sex, and giving of pleasure. For me, having eaten my own from a young age, I was curious for a long time what it would be like to receive it straight from the dick. I had that curiosity from a young age, as well as poking things up my ass and wondering what a dick would feel like, but rural small-town backwardness and homophobia meant I suppressed my feelings, even to myself. Ultimately there comes a time when we realise we should live for the present and enjoy the experiences we crave. I'm glad I did.

 

[SmoothRythmic69]

Like most straight dudes I was drawn to pussy from the get go. It wasn't until my early 20s I started to think about dudes having fun on there own. I've realised I love to please, whether its a cock or a pussy. At first I thought what the fuck is this, I like chicks. Have since come to release fun is fun and it doesn't have to have some romantic outcome. Now comfortable with who I am and what turns me on. Can only have romantic feelings with a female but God damn it's hot fun to just relax with a fun like minded bro and please each other's cocks. With a guy I'm just much more open about what turns me on. I've found it really is a case of.. you need to have a cock to understand.. most chicks just don't get it and the ones that are freaky enough to get down are alao a world full of trouble that you just don't get when playing with a dude

 

[magicdick]

Great answer - and I know you, so I'm not surprised, but it's great to read it so well articulated. "The woman latent within me surfaced."

For me, there was a realisation of what it's like to be a woman and the feel the force of dick. When I feel all that raging lust powering into me, and he's using my body for his pleasure and sexual release, I feel feminine traits of of empathy for my fellow man, nurturing and caring, and collaboration - working together for a common purpose. The pleasure is also mine, of course. I've grown to understand more what it's like for women, and I've taken that understanding into straight sex. I don't feel womanly, as you do, during receptive anal sex or when giving a blowjob. When I get fucked, I feel like I'm taking it like a man. It's simply an awakening of what might be regarded as feminine traits.

Also for me, in my daily life, there's a quiet confidence in what I can achieve. I don't feel the need to openly compete as some men do. I think many who do are inwardly insecure; I'm the opposite. Any man I meet, I know I could take him, please him, and if he's straight and especially if he's homophobic, I know I could milk him and make him question his sexuality. It's something I inwardly know I can do, and I don't need to boast about it. I feel like I have a secret game that nobody knows about nor should know about.

It's a weird thing with cum, isn't it. I'm about to have steak for dinner, and cum is not my choice of sauce to go on it. You don't see cans of cum flavoured soda at the store. Why do we like it? I think it's the association with sex, and giving of pleasure. For me, having eaten my own from a young age, I was curious for a long time what it would be like to receive it straight from the dick. I had that curiosity from a young age, as well as poking things up my ass and wondering what a dick would feel like, but rural small-town backwardness and homophobia meant I suppressed my feelings, even to myself. Ultimately there comes a time when we realise we should live for the present and enjoy the experiences we crave. I'm glad I did.

Standing in the arms of a man kissing and stroking each other (stroking gets no respect!), or beneath him, my legs wrapped around him, or beneath him my legs straight up in the air, eyes locked… BiBtm64, baby, I take my comfort there.

He does, too. Some men see it as domination. I do not mind. Others see it as mutual and temporary submission. I do not mind. As long as I please my man, I am content.

He flips me over to take me from behind, tells me, “That’s a good girl…” I am his. He knows it. I know it. We make love as human beings, as man and man, as man and woman, however you want to look at it.

“That’s a good girl…” I've heard it only once and I was his. Strange how those four words were as powerful as the thrust of his cock and the taste of his cum.

I believe in one thing and one thing only: human love.

Do I go limp-wristed or develop gay mannerisms before, during, or after sex? No. (Not that there’s anything wrong with that.) Am I subservient? Most of the time. Depends on what he wants. I can and do switch to the dominant role and we make love and fuck and suck and shoot cum again.

Baby, this being naked with a man and his cock, his balls and his ass, this being a receptacle for his cum—it is an unsurpassable, intimate connection just on a physical level. Throw in an emotional attachment—even if just for the moment—and it becomes one of life’s magic moments.

 

[BiBtm64]

Like most straight dudes I was drawn to pussy from the get go. It wasn't until my early 20s I started to think about dudes having fun on there own. I've realised I love to please, whether its a cock or a pussy. At first I thought what the fuck is this, I like chicks. Have since come to release fun is fun and it doesn't have to have some romantic outcome. Now comfortable with who I am and what turns me on. Can only have romantic feelings with a female but God damn it's hot fun to just relax with a fun like minded bro and please each other's cocks. With a guy I'm just much more open about what turns me on. I've found it really is a case of.. you need to have a cock to understand.. most chicks just don't get it and the ones that are freaky enough to get down are alao a world full of trouble that you just don't get when playing with a dude

That's a great answer, as it's a path many of us have taken. Women are lovable, but men fuck, for mutual enjoyment, release, convenience, bonding and brotherhood. Men don't need begging and cajoling to get occasional sex when she'd rather be sleeping. Don't get me wrong, I've had a lot of great sex with my partner and I've made the effort to be a good lover and to give her pleasure, and there's nothing like a silky smooth pussy to eat and slide into. She would sometimes be that type you describe who understands cock and goes a little crazy to please, but it's a rare thing.

Like you, it's just fun to relax with a like-minded bro. To know we don't have to negotiate; it's inevitable what will happen. We give each other pleasure. When I feel the force and strength of male lust inside me, we're giving each other pleasure, and it's a mutual bonding of brotherhood. When it's all over, we're both satisfied. I don't need sweet texts and flowers, and I don't need to worry if he's going to cheat on me. Cheat away, you don't owe me anything. We share a moment in time and there's no obligation after. It's a wonderful thing.

 

[magicdick]

Like most straight dudes I was drawn to pussy from the get go. It wasn't until my early 20s I started to think about dudes having fun on there own. I've realised I love to please, whether its a cock or a pussy. At first I thought what the fuck is this, I like chicks. Have since come to release fun is fun and it doesn't have to have some romantic outcome. Now comfortable with who I am and what turns me on. Can only have romantic feelings with a female but God damn it's hot fun to just relax with a fun like minded bro and please each other's cocks. With a guy I'm just much more open about what turns me on. I've found it really is a case of.. you need to have a cock to understand.. most chicks just don't get it and the ones that are freaky enough to get down are alao a world full of trouble that you just don't get when playing with a dude

Agree with all you said. Especially romantic feelings for women only. Women who want to get it on with two guys? Only did it once with a cutie in her 40s and her husband who picked me up in an anything-goes bar. Soon as I put my mouth to his cock, hubbie says, "Honey, he's good!" She joined me. We shared his cock and cum then took it 5 levels up. One of the best nights of sex ever.

 

[Zachary170]

nope not at all I love both cock and pussy

 

[magicdick]

nope not at all I love both cock and pussy

Me, too. One of my fantasies is eating a pussy freshly filled to the brim of cum. What a flavor combination!

 

[magicdick]

Many of us have started out in straight relationships then given in to our curiosity. Did sex with men change you? If so, in what way?

Do you carry on different traits in everyday life? Or is man-sex just something that happens in the moment then you go back to your regular pre-bi self? Do you ever regret it or has it changed you for the better?

At the certainty of stating the obvious and re-re-re-repeating myself, I love having a man’s cock in my mouth. I love having a man’s cock pounding my pussy. I love having him cum in my mouth. I love having him cum in my pussy. I love having him cum all over my face. I love pleasing him, submitting to him, being used by him. Love? More than love. I need these things like I need to breathe.

 

[cumlover91]

Like most people have said, for me it made me realize that I prefer men. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy hooking up with a woman now and again but just that I enjoy guys a lot more. I will say that when im with a woman, I am definitely more in charge in the sex role while when im with a guy, Im more submissive and love being dominated (verbally and physically).

 

[magicdick]

Like most people have said, for me it made me realize that I prefer men. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy hooking up with a woman now and again but just that I enjoy guys a lot more. I will say that when im with a woman, I am definitely more in charge in the sex role while when im with a guy, Im more submissive and love being dominated (verbally and physically).

I submit to my men. I want to be dominated. Verbally and physically, as you say.

 

[Superboy69]

Like most straight dudes I was drawn to pussy from the get go. It wasn't until my early 20s I started to think about dudes having fun on there own. I've realised I love to please, whether its a cock or a pussy. At first I thought what the fuck is this, I like chicks. Have since come to release fun is fun and it doesn't have to have some romantic outcome. Now comfortable with who I am and what turns me on. Can only have romantic feelings with a female but God damn it's hot fun to just relax with a fun like minded bro and please each other's cocks. With a guy I'm just much more open about what turns me on. I've found it really is a case of.. you need to have a cock to understand.. most chicks just don't get it and the ones that are freaky enough to get down are alao a world full of trouble that you just don't get when playing with a dude

Fun is fun! You got that right, bro!

 

[Ben_Dover]

I have never had a "pre-bi self". I didn't start heterosexual or homosexual.

 

[magicdick]

I have never had a "pre-bi self". I didn't start heterosexual or homosexual.

So you were bi from the get-go? I wonder now if I was but didn't realize it because I never encountered the right situation or person. Likely not. My only goal until I was in my early 20s was pussy, tits and a nice ass. (Having said that, I did turn bi in a microsecond on being surreptitiously teased with a cock. I saw it. I wanted it in my mouth. I told him to cum in my mouth. I loved stroking his thick meat. And having that meat in my mouth exceeded all hopes and expectations. I knew I was bi and was excited by the opportunities it opened up. Never stopped being excited.)

 

[hagTreehouse]

Many of us have started out in straight relationships then given in to our curiosity. Did sex with men change you? If so, in what way?

Do you carry on different traits in everyday life? Or is man-sex just something that happens in the moment then you go back to your regular pre-bi self? Do you ever regret it or has it changed you for the better?

In my life, I played with a neighborhood guy. We did everything, played with, sucked, anal, but didn’t cum.
Later, I did the parlor scene and have had scores of massuses since. Even after marriage. In the parlors I even befriended my girls with them seeing me in their homes with full service. I’ve bedded many girlfriends.

The girl who busted my cherry was a lesbian and left me for a girl. She was a hot lay though. I fucked her left and right but never got up the courage to eat her (I was 17.) I wish I did. Course still could have lost her to a chick.

Since then I sought out the pussy and love eating snatch. I’ve eaten scores of women and have endeavored to get them all to cum. I work at it till they tremble uncontrollably or I’ve notice their taste changes. That’s gotta be some kind of orgasm. But, I LOVE eating pussy!

When I sucked dick as a kid it tasted like a garden hose. But when I sucked my next dick, 40 years later. Fuuuck! It was like I’d cum home. This CL hookup that I was on my knees in a motel 6 bathroom sucking his wang was absolutely delicious. It tasted good, it felt good, it was magnificent. I don’t know if all that pussy acoustomized me to that kind of skin on the body. Or, he had an exceptionally sweet Peter. But I want more. Anybody near me I want more.

He didn’t cum. Told me it was hard for him to cum from just sucking but said for someone who hadn’t sucked in decades I was good. I came when he had me ass fuck him, hell, almost instantly. When he sucked me prior I felt like bursting. I ended with a furious suck off of him but to no avail. WHo wants to fulfill my craving and bucket list wish.

Yah that dick changed me, I desire it more, only get hard to gay pornos now. I’m different.

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[BiBtm64]

In my life, I played with a neighborhood guy. We did everything, played with, sucked, anal, but didn’t cum.
Later, I did the parlor scene and have had scores of massuses since. Even after marriage. In the parlors I even befriended my girls with them seeing me in their homes with full service. I’ve bedded many girlfriends.

The girl who busted my cherry was a lesbian and left me for a girl. She was a hot lay though. I fucked her left and right but never got up the courage to eat her (I was 17.) I wish I did. Course still could have lost her to a chick.

Since then I sought out the pussy and love eating snatch. I’ve eaten scores of women and have endeavored to get them all to cum. I work at it till they tremble uncontrollably or I’ve notice their taste changes. That’s gotta be some kind of orgasm. But, I LOVE eating pussy!

When I sucked dick as a kid it tasted like a garden hose. But when I sucked my next dick, 40 years later. Fuuuck! It was like I’d cum home. This CL hookup that I was on my knees in a motel 6 bathroom sucking his wang was absolutely delicious. It tasted good, it felt good, it was magnificent. I don’t know if all that pussy acoustomized me to that kind of skin on the body. Or, he had an exceptionally sweet Peter. But I want more. Anybody near me I want more.

He didn’t cum. Told me it was hard for him to cum from just sucking but said for someone who hadn’t sucked in decades I was good. I came when he had me ass fuck him, hell, almost instantly. When he sucked me prior I felt like bursting. I ended with a furious suck off of him but to no avail. WHo wants to fulfill my craving and bucket list wish.

Yah that dick changed me, I desire it more, only get hard to gay pornos now. I’m different.

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I totally get you! Eating pussy is fantastic and I love it when the juices start to flow and she squirms and bucks her hips when cumming. Have you stimulated a girl's A zone with your fingers? It's deeper than the G spot and produces an intense result when she's warmed up from being eaten, and causes extreme wetness and sometimes squirting. I love to have my woman sitting on my face while I use two fingers inside her and I lap up the juices.

But this is a forum for man fun and you were talking about sucking dick. You're right - all that skin that fills your mouth, and the hardness and thickness of male strength is so totally hot. You really need to seek out a cum load. To feel him build up, taste the precum, and then the squirting or sometimes just oozing of cum as he pumps it into your mouth, and you gulp it all down. Pussy is nice but dick and cum are the ultimate oral experience.

 

[hagTreehouse]

I totally get you! Eating pussy is fantastic and I love it when the juices start to flow and she squirms and bucks her hips when cumming. Have you stimulated a girl's A zone with your fingers? It's deeper than the G spot and produces an intense result when she's warmed up from being eaten, and causes extreme wetness and sometimes squirting. I love to have my woman sitting on my face while I use two fingers inside her and I lap up the juices.

But this is a forum for man fun and you were talking about sucking dick. You're right - all that skin that fills your mouth, and the hardness and thickness of male strength is so totally hot. You really need to seek out a cum load. To feel him build up, taste the precum, and then the squirting or sometimes just oozing of cum as he pumps it into your mouth, and you gulp it all down. Pussy is nice but dick and cum are the ultimate oral experience.

Wish I could go down under on you!
No, I never did ass play while munching a snatch, but I did do G spot rubbing while licking and she came squirting all over. A girl I knew loved fingering my ass, once.

Oh but suck from soft, to feel that rod stiffen, see those balls rise, and then it explodes in my closed mouth and his knees buckle ….oh please Jeezus Fuck meeee I need that.

 

[SmoothRythmic69]

That's a great answer, as it's a path many of us have taken. Women are lovable, but men fuck, for mutual enjoyment, release, convenience, bonding and brotherhood. Men don't need begging and cajoling to get occasional sex when she'd rather be sleeping. Don't get me wrong, I've had a lot of great sex with my partner and I've made the effort to be a good lover and to give her pleasure, and there's nothing like a silky smooth pussy to eat and slide into. She would sometimes be that type you describe who understands cock and goes a little crazy to please, but it's a rare thing.

Like you, it's just fun to relax with a like-minded bro. To know we don't have to negotiate; it's inevitable what will happen. We give each other pleasure. When I feel the force and strength of male lust inside me, we're giving each other pleasure, and it's a mutual bonding of brotherhood. When it's all over, we're both satisfied. I don't need sweet texts and flowers, and I don't need to worry if he's going to cheat on me. Cheat away, you don't owe me anything. We share a moment in time and there's no obligation after. It's a wonderful thing.

Exactly

 

[hagTreehouse]

A parlor girl (who’d been cheated on in relationships) said to me once, “That men are out to spread their seed while women are there to nurture their brood. It’s instinctual, baked in, that’s the difference in their sexual desires.”

What I read all over this site proves that. The possession of the penis is what makes women crazy about infidelity. I’ll read on Quora the scorched earth policy women feel about men who cheat …to a posting.

But as a man, I’ve bedded scores of pussy and would suck loads of dick just to satisfy my desires. Nothing more, no love, no nurture. Wouldn’t even think twice about it. Personally, so I wasn’t hypocritical, if my partner told me she cheated on me, I’d be OK with it. I’d have to be. It would be tough, but I’d really have to be. Some MMF posters here have said the same. I emphasize Some.

I told an exceptional parlor girl once; someone who I had stratospheric, mind blowing sex with for years! “ I was glad I was married when I met her. Otherwise, I’d have persued her vigorously to marry.”

She replied, I’m glad that didn’t happen because you’d made me stop being a masseuse. I replied although, “I knew it would be tough but it would be so hypocritical to deprive her of her chosen profession, I’d have to accept it. If I’d truly loved her. And besides I’d wanna know “how was work today dear?” When she cum home from a hard day of erotic massaging.

Not to be sexist (too late, right.) but these different impulses are why Men and women are different kinds of leaders in Work. Men will get the job done without much emotion. Like in the military, “it’s an order!”

Women, I’ve noticed as bosses, agonize and are far more vindictive, “cattier,” In business. And driven! Admittedly this leads to the unfortunate axiom, a woman who’s strong in business is a bitch, while a man is just considered a good leader.

My liberal, liberated, wife would be the 1st to shoot down my assertions here about female leaders. But female bosses have demonstrated nurture/over seed spreading continuously in my life since women’s lib started. Even before that era, with strong willed school teachers I had since grade school