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The friends I have and the interests I have don't really lead me to much interactivity with other gay guys. As in none. That I know of.

In the last 4 years I have met no new gay guys. Only had 1 gay guy as a friend who I don't speak to anymore. So very little interaction with anyone who'd actually have sexual feelings towards me.

People keep saying "Were going to take you to zero's (gay club here in Plymouth)" but they never do. Not so sure about it myself. I doubt they'd have a rock night O_o.
 
I blame being single partly on living in L.A. - a bit to living with my straight brother. I have companionship from him, and so I'm not all that motivated. I lived here for seven years before he joined me here, however, and I was in a relationship in Texas before I moved here, but my BF refused to move to L.A. with me. He thought I would find someone younger and prettier, but I think his fears were unfounded. He was only 21 at the time and probably wasn't ready to settle down, although he seemed very much like the loyal type - a type that is rare out here.

When I lived in San Francisco, I had relationships, but they never lasted more than a year. When I visit NYC I always meet guys that I think I could have a relationship with, but I really can't live in NY - same with Houston - I meet great guys there but couldn't relocate. For me, I think geography is really part of my problem. I had a BF in Mission Viejo (beyond the Orange Curtain) and I think he wanted to get serious, but neither of us was willing to relocate - I just can't handle that much of O.C.

Maybe one day I'll move to Palm Springs and find a relationship there.

I did meet a guy through an on-line dating service here who was seriously looking for a new relationship (after his BF had left him), but on the third date, he took me to a Christmas party given by some friends of his in WeHo, and I caught him making out with another guy. He tried to explain to me that the guy was leaving the next day for New York, and that was his only chance with him (He was also from NY, by the way). His friends at the party got mad at him and gave me a present but not him! Plus I made him take me home.

I had a date with one guy in Malibu, who I later saw on Blind Date as a dance instructor at his dance studio (I already knew he was a choreographer). I really, really liked him, but he was a huge Barbra Streisand fan, and that's something I really cannot live with. I've broken up with other guys because of their taste in music.

Another problem I have is that I don't like repetition, and I guess I get bored easily. I can't stand it when someone tells the same story over and over, and actually my brother is the same way. We recently visited my exBF Greg, whom I really loved, but he had little habits that really got on my nerves. When I explained this to my brother, he told me that he could understand why.
 
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