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Friend wants piece of me?

Blondeboy73 said:
I've been in pretty similar situations with a couple of guys. One worked out well and we had great sex for months - still do from time to time but the other was not so great.

This guy was a new friend - we worked together and travelled on business lots sharing a room - and indeed a bed as most of the hotels never separate their twins. I quickly came out to him as bi - he let me know that he had snogged a guy once but was not really interested in going any further. I decided to take the bull by the horns and let him know that i had a serious crush on him and needed to let him know - he said he wasn't into guys again. a few days later we were at a work thing and both very drunk that night in our room. I asked him if he wanted to cuddle and he agreed - he said nothing was going to happen so i turned my back and let him spoon me. I couldn't sleep all night with his arm around me - turned me on so much. He also had a semi-hardon for most of the night... This flirty thing went on for months - various pretend fights, almost kissing moments, cuddling, and like you blewboi101 i would brush against him in the middle of the night - and not sleep just in case he reciprocated. Alas, he never did.

The closest i got was one night he was really seriously drunk and i was actually asleep - he got up and this woke me up - he was standing at the side of the bed - not sure what he was doing - asked him to come back to bed and he came and cuddled me - the next thing i knew he had my hand and it was pressed against his cock which was getting hard. I pulled my hand away (he is my friend i wanted to be sure he was up for it and not just really drunk and horny) he grabbed it again and put it down his pants. I started to wank him off and just as he was getting solid in my hand he changed his mind and pushed me off - i tried to cuddle some more but he really pushed me away. I took this as a real signal not to push it any further and that was an end to it. I decided we needed to clear things up - told him how much i wanted him and how his flirting was really eating me up - we agreed to be friends but i knew from his response that we were never going to go any further no matter how much i wanted it...

Anyway my advice is tell this guy you have a crush on him - maybe do it in a way that suggests that you "know" he's not interested - leave the ball firmly in his court - let him tell you one way or the other what he feels. Tell him you don't want to ruin your friendship but you really need to know... It's best for both of you! If he's not interested you'll need to move on - it's hard - i'm still in love with my friend 2 years later and speak to him daily at work but i know nothing will happen.

Hope that helps.

By the way, RRRalph your advice is always sound! Keep it up!
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IMO i like this idea.
 
This was the first time I read this thread and the whole time I have had an erection..haha
 
zfoxx said:
I always get amused when I read some of the comments. "Don't do it, you might ruin a friendship!" "You haven't known him very long, so be careful!" "I would wait until he made a move on you before I did anything!" "You should put little hints out there and see if he picks up on any of them!"

I'm so glad when Henry Ford was developing the automobile and Orville and Wilbur Wright were trying to fly an aircraft, or when Daniel Hale Williams was performing the first heart surgery and Bill Gates was experimenting with computers and computer program, that none of them asked your opinions. They never would have gotten their inventions and ideas off of the ground. The world is ever revolving because people are not afraid to take chances and see where it leads them.

An explorer to the moon could never survive if he/she always hung around people who kept saying, "wait until..." Go out and find out if this friends is interested in you. If he's not interested, you have your answer. If he is interested, then you have your answer. Always remember, "a scared man can't gamble and a jealous man can't work!" GO FOR IT!
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Sorry, but I LOL when I read that...
 
oh em gee!

what the fuck!!!!!

tell the bitch he's a hot ass!!!

get it going!!!

you're driving me insane...and RRRalphs hot pic...such a pretty interlude between your posts.

DAYUM!
 
straight farm guys with nice bodies...... mmmmmmmmm my fav.
 
I just found this thread and it reads a lot like a gay story. Not very believable. Besides - there's not even a pic of the guy, yet he claims to be attractive and muscular etc. I want pics before believing any of this story. Quite well written anyway. I enjoyed reading the updates *adjusts hardon*
 
it's definately been about a month since we've gotten our update....

ehhem, we have dramas we need to catch up on! lets have it! did you two shag like bunnies yet?:sex:
 
yes, I was wondering also what happened. Lets finish the story!!!
 
Okay Okay, here goes

I saw him for a week on holiday, we spent a few days alone, just me and him. doing fun stuff a farmboy would do. we really had a great time and bonded very well as best friends.

Although I did everything in my path to look great, eg. get a great tan go to gym everyday, when I arived at his place I really looked my best. I walked infront of him many times with just my boxers on, looking really hot.

Iam sad to say we did not have any sexual encounters yet:cry: . Although I yet again slept next to him a few times! eventhough there were many open couches for him to sleep on. I just think he really trusts me on anouther level, lots of guys wont have towards their friends.

I just cant understand, why he hasnt made a move yet? Its funny, because so many girls throw themselves at him, yet he doesnt want sex from them. I dont know what he wants. all i know is he cares for me in a deeper level, we talk to each other every day. I even found a photo of me and him next to his bed. what is he saying?

many of you say go for it, its just not that easy. I cant just ruin this friendship for a few minutes of pleasure. I honestly dont know what to do:confused: this is tearing me appart emotionally, I desperately want this guy but I know I cant have him. I cant stop thinking of him. .............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................:cry:
 
If you know you can't have him...it might be best to let him go...
I'm not sure this relationship is healthy for you, when you are so frustrated..
 
SWEET MARY MOTHER OF MERCY, MAN!!!!!


he has a fucking picture of you and him next to his bed!!!! he thinks about you and him, or atleast enough to put a pic of you and him together next to where he sleeps. it's not even about pleasure anymore!!!!

the guy loves you...ask him. this is pulling my heart strings, it has to be pulling his.

he wants to sleep next to you! he has a picture of you two together! he calls you everyday!

if this guy isn't in love with you then i'm fucking straight!

seriously though, you don't even need to make a move now, you just need to ask him if he loves you. the dude is acting like you're fucking married.

if he refuses women for sex and chooses to lay with a man, he loves you.

cool, passionate love. not even sex love per se, but he loves you. you fucking complete him!

that's what i'm getting.

you need to ask him if he loves you. just throw it in. maybe when you two are watching one of your movies shirtless together. be as serious as a mofo! look him in the eyes, if he looks at you like "WTF?!?!" laugh it off!

this bitch loves your ass! and it's so cute!!!!

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
 
Blewboi101 said:
Okay Okay, here goes

I saw him for a week on holiday, we spent a few days alone, just me and him. doing fun stuff a farmboy would do. we really had a great time and bonded very well as best friends.

Although I did everything in my path to look great, eg. get a great tan go to gym everyday, when I arived at his place I really looked my best. I walked infront of him many times with just my boxers on, looking really hot.

Iam sad to say we did not have any sexual encounters yet:cry: . Although I yet again slept next to him a few times! eventhough there were many open couches for him to sleep on. I just think he really trusts me on anouther level, lots of guys wont have towards their friends.

I just cant understand, why he hasnt made a move yet? Its funny, because so many girls throw themselves at him, yet he doesnt want sex from them. I dont know what he wants. all i know is he cares for me in a deeper level, we talk to each other every day. I even found a photo of me and him next to his bed. what is he saying?

many of you say go for it, its just not that easy. I cant just ruin this friendship for a few minutes of pleasure. I honestly dont know what to do:confused: this is tearing me appart emotionally, I desperately want this guy but I know I cant have him. I cant stop thinking of him. .............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................:cry:
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why doesn't he make a move? WHY DON'T U MAKE IT!

it's alright... don't do anything... keep on getting teared emotionaly... i mean after all that's better than u actualy trying to deal with this and maybe loosing a friendhsip, but u'll get over it and u'll be fine... some poeple just like to suffer slowly
 
It's time you take a different approach. Next time you two are in bed together, ask him a simple question "Don't you think other people would think it's odd that two grown men like us like to sleep together in the same bed?" Maybe that will instigate a conversation that leads you into deeper waters.
 
Just cause you make a move won't mean its over...I made a move on my best friend and he stopped me. After talking it out, it made our friendship deeper. Platonic, but deeper.
 
Ok, I've been reading this thread for some time now...and I haven't posted (until now) cos I felt what the other guys were saying was enough .

But now...I gotta say something :

ARE YOU FRICKIN' STUPID, MAN ????????????!!!!!!?????????????????????

It seems to me that you just expect a relationship with him (or maybe even "just" sex) to just 'HAPPEN". It's not gonna happen without anyone doing anything !! JEESUS-FUCKING-CHRIST ! You gotta actually DO SOMETHING, man ! It's not gonna happen on its own. You can lay together on your bed watching movies in your boxers until you've sprouted roots if you don't do something.

Am I explaining this properly ? Do you understand what I mean ? It's not gonna "happen" if no-one does anything about it . Things like that don't just happen BY CHANCE, they require some actual ACTION(s) to be taken. Unless you do something/tell him I (even better), this can go on forever and ever and EVER until hell freezes over. It hasn't "happened" for god months now, and it will never happen on its own. You gotta make your own luck !

Sorry for yellin' atcha .

Best wishes and lots of luck (cos whether he responds positively or not IS a matter of luck...however, wheteher you ever gather the balls to tell him is NOT luck, It's your DECISION)

Love,

Lumi
 
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