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Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

you put Draino in his box of Mr.Bubble?
I'm just sayin'













Disclaimer: JUB does not advocate the deliberate sabotage anyone's bathwater.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

NeedingHelpASAP said:
On the contrary the feeling of not allowing someone to stomp all over you by defending yourself effectively and causing them harm can be the most fullfilling and mind easing, releasing thing in the world.
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Those thought patterns are also held by some sociopaths.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

You need help from Dr Phil
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Well based on your posting history and this thread, which I believe should have been moved to CO&R, I think it is fair to remind the Op of my earlier advice.

You should seek the help of a qualified therapist to resolve the issues you've raised. Your problems are far too complex to be solved by posters on a porn forum and I fear that we all may do more harm than good by encouraging or advising you in any way.

I think before posters engage in an argument with the OP, a review of some of the OP's previous threads and posts would shed light on the issues being raised here.
 
How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

Time and time again i've experienced people overstepping their boundaries with me harming me emotionally, verbally abusing me, disregarding me, not listening to my voice and treating me like a 2nd class or even 3rd or 4th or non-existent citizen. It's beyond hurtful and terrible and everyday it makes me feel small. I hate it and need to beat them. How do i defeat a mean, corrupt, menacing, and disrespectful person who is geared towards bringing me down and hurting me?
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

You need Dr. Phil to help you!
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

See the advice you were given the last 2 times you asked / started threads on this very topic. Cheers!
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

Shut yourself in a closet. Then only the voices in your head can harm your fragile mind.

But for the love of all that is pure evil, don't make a post about how you can avoid the voices in your head, or how you can make them love you. In fact, I'll do one better - I'll ignore you until you grow a set. Because it's obvious that you're just another troll that instead of taking advice, whines about every petty little thing. You don't listen, thus, you won't learn, and i'm sick to death of caring. I got my own shit to deal with.

Suck it up sweetheart, and either get help or swim in the pile of shit you create.
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

NeedingHelp, you're a 23 year old guy, that isn't showing healthy emotional responses. Please accept that your thinking is off, and your brain isn't processing your thoughts in a correct way, and needs medical help. Please, please, book an appointment with your doctor today!
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

bankside said:
I'm sure I'm attacked just as often. The difference is I don't care. Or really even notice. So far, this obliviousness has contributed to my success in life.

I recommend it.
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I don't usually quote myself but my previous post was unacknowledged and may have been missed. Needinghelp, you seem to respond mostly to what you perceive as attacks. I recommend that you not do this but instead consider, respond to, and implement the advice. Honestly don't bother worrying about online friction, or friction from your childhood. All of us experience those things and the only way we are able to find the time to enjoy our lives is by picking our battles. Let some or all of it go.
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

I definitely think this thread is about relationships with others and believe it may be best answered in CO&R, where responses may be more apropos to the issue you raise.

You desperately, desperately need to work these types of issues through with a qualified therapist. Seriously. No joke.

Just review your posting history here to date. It is full of anguish and anger. No one here is qualified to help you in any meaningful or long term fashion. This needs to happen with someone you are talking to and listening to.

The worst thing in the world will be having anonymous avatars validate your anger and frustration without having a complete picture of your history.

Please tell us that you will search out the professional help you need. When you do, you'll find that there are lots of people here who will be encouraging and supportive.
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

You don't like what people are saying in the other thread you have in HT, so you make another that is essentially the same? An online forum cannot help you; you need serious, long term therapy.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

I cannot allow people to abuse me on a daily basis and co-sign it by doing nothing.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

NeedingHelpASAP said:
I cannot allow people to abuse me on a daily basis and co-sign it by doing nothing.
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Doing something does not require you to engage with people you perceive as being abusive. You could engage with people who have made respectful efforts to be supportive. You could thank them for instance. It would represent action that is both positive and polite. Try it!
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

Here's what you should do. Report them to Judge Judy! See this thread
 
Re: How do I defeat disrespectful and menacing bullying/bullysome people?

^ I can certainly give tips on how to spank a naughty pussy :twisted:
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

So: To the OP

I have to assume that you have been diagnosed with a Bi-polar or schitzophrenic delusional disorder at some point in the past.

You may be feeling persecuted by those who are trying to get you assistance or who are part of your mental health care team.

This is not uncommon.

While people can continue to give you excellent advice on how you can deal with the perceived abuse, it will be of no help because you likely only see these efforts as re-inforcing the hurts and feeelings of frustration that you are feeling.

You need to discuss your problems with the real life people witha qualified counsellor who can help you understand their and your motivations and perspectives more clearly. Although, I suspect, you are including your therapists on this list as well at the present time.

If you continue to post these types of threads on a porn forum Hot Topics board, you are only going to feel more persecuted and misunderstood. Please do not let this deter you from sticking with your medications and therapeutic counselling.

I have asked this thread be moved to a more respectful Coming Out and Relationships forum but apparently this is not going to happen.

So you will eventually just be treated like a troll in this forum. Which is a shame. Because it is nakedly clear that you are in some state of mental health crisis and in need of focussed support.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

I know but am legally constrained from saying it.
 
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