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This thread is exactly how I wish I was treated. I hate being "fucked cold" but I love having no control. I'm rock hard reading all of this.
Ugh
When my bottoms cry out - I call them cry babies and remind them that they begged for it... ate my ass for it..... sucked my cock for it...... licked my balls for it - jacked themselves off for it - Take it like a man! 
Versatileplayer is my kind of stud, a manly sex-hero who puts his own pleasure and enjoyment above how a piece of ass feels.
I also applaud otkboy for his enjoyment he gets by pleasing Tops and making them and their dicks feel good. He's my kind of bottom.
This also boosts the Top's ego and feeling of manhood, accomplishment&well-being. One bottom said it's also about the glow he gets by respecting us Tops and making us feel good about ourselves and our masculinity and giving us good orgasms in his ass and mouth.
Some will also literally kiss our asses as part of their service to us.
Thank you both for turning me on.
I'm not sure how it works for oral but I usually let my current lover of 3 decades get off first before I fucked his mouth.
I also know that versatiles have better sex fucking someone after they themselves got fucked(The man's dick stimulates the guy's prostate).
Sometimes my ex would cum after my first piece of his ass. I usually fucked and came in him, continued laying on his back with my dick still up his ass while I "reloaded" and fucked him again half an hour later, my dick staying semi-hard up his ass and hardening fully once I started fucking him again. He sometimes said he had cum from the first fuck but never whined about pain when I fucked him again and pumped my second load up him before yanking out.
I liked the tightness of an asshole after he came and yes I'm proud to admit that putting pain to an asshole while enjoying fucking him added to my pleasure and made my dick and my orgasms feel that much better. It's about us Tops being manly and using bottoms for our sexual enjoyment and the bottom doing his duty to please us Tops. Most bottoms I fucked told me they loved being used by us men for our pleasure while taking the pain we enjoyed putting to them with our love-muscles. Another bottom complained that some Tops ruined a session by being overly concerned how the bottoms feel when being used and fucked, they considered those Tops less manly than Tops who care only about their own sexual pleasure.
I think this is why so many bottoms have fantasies of getting used, degraded or even raped(some gang-raped) by masculine self-centered Tops, or at least any Tops who are non-fem for that matter.
They might cry while your tearing their hole up - but 15 minutes after you're done with them - they'll be back begging for it
You'll be jacking yourself off for weeks afterward and you'll beg for it again - then when you're getting it you'll wiggle and try to get off of the dick - only to have it jammed up in your guts even harder
Once in a while I'll fuck you nice. But that's just to keep you horny - you're never happy unless you're abused. 
And you'll beg for it.
> [if your partner does not want to use lube]
> You could compromise, and use your cum as lube.
Yes, that arrangement would really dissuade the bottom of trying to have just a small orgasm – he would work hard to completely empty his balls of cum so that he had lots of lube for his fucking. That’s a very kinky idea which I like!
On a related topic, I am also really into spanking, and in addition to my experience getting fucked after orgasm I have also had a little experience of getting spanked after orgasm. For those of you without spanking experience let me tell you, getting spanked while you are turned on can feel really great and result in a big orgasm. HOWEVER, getting spanked after you have cum is a completely different experience. Once you have squirted your cum and your cock is soft the only thing to think about while getting spanked is the pain in your butt. A post-orgasm spanking is a completely non-sexual experience (for the guy getting spanked) and it’s much more akin to a real punishment spanking. Most guys into spanking would never want to cum before the spanking because it can be so difficult to submit to it. If I’m going to get a post-orgasm spanking it needs to be a private location because it’s impossible for me to be stoic, I’m going to be yelping and pleading in no time!
> [if your partner does not want to use lube]
> You could compromise, and use your cum as lube.
Yes, that arrangement would really dissuade the bottom of trying to have just a small orgasm – he would work hard to completely empty his balls of cum so that he had lots of lube for his fucking. That’s a very kinky idea which I like!
On a related topic, I am also really into spanking, and in addition to my experience getting fucked after orgasm I have also had a little experience of getting spanked after orgasm. For those of you without spanking experience let me tell you, getting spanked while you are turned on can feel really great and result in a big orgasm. HOWEVER, getting spanked after you have cum is a completely different experience. Once you have squirted your cum and your cock is soft the only thing to think about while getting spanked is the pain in your butt. A post-orgasm spanking is a completely non-sexual experience (for the guy getting spanked) and it’s much more akin to a real punishment spanking. Most guys into spanking would never want to cum before the spanking because it can be so difficult to submit to it. If I’m going to get a post-orgasm spanking it needs to be a private location because it’s impossible for me to be stoic, I’m going to be yelping and pleading in no time!
Because you know you want it.
Now you're getting it - whether you want it or not.
yes Sir. id probably hate every second but id gladly beg for more after.
and you know you would and you'd fucking love it. 
>On a related topic, I am also really into spanking, and in addition to my experience getting fucked after orgasm I have also had a little experience of getting spanked after orgasm. For those of you without spanking experience let me tell you, getting spanked while you are turned on can feel really great and result in a big orgasm. HOWEVER, getting spanked after you have cum is a completely different experience. Once you have squirted your cum and your cock is soft the only thing to think about while getting spanked is the pain in your butt. A post-orgasm spanking is a completely non-sexual experience (for the guy getting spanked) and it’s much more akin to a real punishment spanking. Most guys into spanking would never want to cum before the spanking because it can be so difficult to submit to it. If I’m going to get a post-orgasm spanking it needs to be a private location because it’s impossible for me to be stoic, I’m going to be yelping and pleading in no time!
It's like jacking your dick when you're taking a big cock .....
Arousal can counteract pain.
