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FYI - break ups SUUUUUUUCK!

Sunshine

Sunshine

all of this wasted pain..
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It's been a while since I've been on JUB. Always a great idea to come back when you need friends and people to listen to you and lend advice though right?

I literally just broke up with my boyfriend. My very first SERIOUS relationship. We lived together for 6 months. ...and now its over. At this point in time I have no idea what to do with myself. Sitting here crying and trying not to vomit seems like the best plan though. Break ups always sucked but this one definitely takes the fucking cake.

*headdesk*

So how are you?

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Sorry to read this sunshine. I know it sounds corny but its so true. Time really does heal all wounds. Hang in there and you will be ok. Dont let anyone tell you to 'just get over it' Take all the time you need. Sending you a giant cyber xanax.
 
Sorry to hear about your break-up. I had a nasty breakup 6 years ago, we were together for 3 years and in the end it turned really ugly. Time does heal although in my case I didn't really suffer for him. The guy cheated and gave me a STD and I was more angry than anything else. I mean if you give your ass to anyone at least make them use a condom. There literally was no way we can mend things... and there was no place for sentiments. I just wanted to get him out of my life forever. Well, that didn't least for long either, an year later we met and basically decided we can be friends (no benefits). He apologized and all that so I guess time heals everything. I managed to forgive and now we are sort of friends.

Every situation is different so it can be very hard for someone and very easy for another to get over "love"...

Just hang in there and go back to your regular life... meet friends, enjoy the things you do, music, sports etc. I'm sure in a month you will feel much better.

Oh and one important thing ... don't humiliate yourself, do not compromise your dignity. I know it can be hard but his affection is not the most important thing in your life... you are!

Hugz.
 
If it makes you feel better mate i know what you are going through. I was seeing my first BF for a couple of months and he suddenly called it off with me, id never been in love before then and it was incredibly difficult to deal with.
Its been a a month now and im starting to feel better about myself. Hang in there, things will get easier
 
Sometimes, rather than trying to "look on the bright side" (not that anyone here has done that) we just have to admit that a situation sucks and it will just have to suck for a while.

This sucks.

That said; some of the symptoms you describe could be related to anxiety/depression. These symptoms may be completely temporary; but it never hurts to reach out to a professional.

This will eventually stop sucking.
 
Ram said:
Sunshine baby. Sorry. (*8*)
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(*8*) Rammmm...

quasar said:
Sorry to hear that. It DOES get better with time, and the positive thing is that his loss is our gain! Good to have you back. :)
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:( I suppose.

alley said:
Is it fixable???
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Yes and no. we've been trying to salvage it. but..he wants to be him...not he and I.
He wants to have his life and all that but...you know he told me how much he didnt want to lose me and wish he could have both and now im just out of his life all together.

Just... gone.



I reeeally wish i knew what I should do with myself. I'm so inexplicably miserable and the only thing I can think of is "where did I go wrong?" and "is my heart going to stop beating now or later?"

It's melodramatic but... Im at a loss.
 
Aww, I'm sorry Matty-pants! (*8*)

Li'l Bit will always love you. :kiss:
 
Not to be insensitive to your plight or anything, but if you're so upset why did you break up with him in the first place? You obviously had to feel like you no longer wanted to be with him. Do yourself a favor and move on.
 
Time will heal all wounds...for now, just focus on yourself and stay positive... it will get better.
 
here's what you can do, go for a nice walk it helps you clear your head and helps with the feeling that you are not doing anything.
 
When I was faced with my last break up I coped with alcohol and then after that hook-ups. I recommend skipping the drinking, taking some time out for yourself and then doing hook-ups if that's your thing.

I hope you feel better and I'm sorry that you had to go through this, but at least it was only 6 months and not 6 years.
 
Its going to hurt for awhile but in time you will heal!! Just be gentle with yourself and you will see....IT GETS BETTER!!!!
 
Sorry to hear about your break up. I really feel for you. It hurts like crazy.
But like peeps say above it really does get better in time.
Trust me. It really does get easier.
Hugs (*8*)(*8*)

Alan
 
Sorry but glad to see you around JUB
 
BearDaddy said:
General consensus:

: it will take time

: dont do anything rash

: get outside and be with friends


All the best and sorry
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excellent daddy, you always make us feel better.....
 
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