Gay but think anal is disgusting?

[mikey3000]

It wasn't important to me either till I recentky got it, and, yeah, I'm a convert. Just clean first.

 

[pat grimshaw]

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Nope. I said you are ...

You belong to a different culture.

Los Angeles isn't the world (even though your Entertainment Industry has fairly well eliminated half the indigenous cultures on the planet).

 

[xbuzzerx]

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Well adjusted gay Australians have no problem with their sexuality.

You do.

 

[jakebvt]

Does it hurt?

 

[pat grimshaw]

Does it hurt?

Yes it does. A lot. Choosing a man to teach you how to do anal is just as difficult as choosing a man to marry.

(No doubt Buzzer will soon tell you how to do it with some Kwik Eezie Lessons from personal experience in L.A. )

 

[oakpope]

Being gay (man) is being attracted to and falling in love with men. What part of the man attracts you and what part disgusts you is no big deal and should only matter to you and your(s) lover(s). There is no need to search for approval or rebuttal from other people, in my opinion.

 

[jakebvt]

I'm actually sort of curious but I don't have a partner. What is a good strategy for finding other guys? I feel like I might need to try via the internet since the percentage of the population that's gay is fairly low. Any good sites? Is this site good for finding people?

 

[xbuzzerx]

from personal experience in L.A. )

I'm beginning to sense an inferiority complex.

 

[Beachguyj]

Am I alone in thinking anal is disgusting? I love rubbing my bod with another man and I love softcore porn (guys in underwear, naked, jocks, hunks, blowjob, you name it) but anal doesn't appeal to me at all.

I'm sure you are not alone, but most gay guys like anal or are not disgusted by it.

It's one thing not to be into it, but another level to be disgusted by it.

 

[jakebvt]

I'm sure you are not alone, but most gay guys like anal or are not disgusted by it.

It's one thing not to be into it, but another level to be disgusted by it.

I guess as long as the "hole" is clean it's not that disgusting. Haha.

 

[jakebvt]

So it's not the thought of anal that disgusts me, it's just two potential issues:
1. Cleanliness of the Rectum
2. Tearing, bleeding, damage, pain.

I think if I had a good partner who would be gentle to start out I would try it.

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So it's not the thought of anal that disgusts me, it's just two potential issues:
1. Cleanliness of the Rectum
2. Tearing, bleeding, damage, pain.

I think if I had a good partner who would be gentle to start out I would try it.

 

[Gentleheart]

haha, I definitely don't find anal disgusting--but I'm not a huge "cheerleader" about it like some gays seem to be. It's fabulous when I'm in the mood for it, and when I'm not...sucking a nice cock or getting a great rimjob is much better.

 

[DonQuixote]

Jake,
You could explore anal stimulation solo by getting a good quality prostate massager and water based lube -
Aneros has some silicone covered ones - don't buy the BIGGEST one - the smaller ones can actually be more responsive inside you, massage your prostate more effectively.

http://www.aneros.com/

The Helix Syn is very comfortable and stimulating. It's not cheap, but it is effective and comfortable.
The ID Pleasure is a good lubricant to use, too - it has Ginko Biloba, Red Clover, and Menthol to add an extra stimulating sensation to your experience.

Ingredients

Water/Aqua/Eau, Vegetable Based Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Cellulose Gum, Ginkgo Biloba Extract, Trifolium Pratense (Red Clover) Flower Extract, Polysorbate-20, EDTA, Carbomer, PEG-90M, Tetrahydroxypropyl Ethylenediamine, Methylparaben, Sodium Benzoate, Potassium Sorbate, Menthol.

 

[eastofeden]

I love anal...would never be compatible with someone who didn't.

 

[jakebvt]

I think I will give the dildo/prostate thingy a try and then once I get a partner try actual anal.

 

[LeicsDom]

Am I alone in thinking anal is disgusting? I love rubbing my bod with another man and I love softcore porn (guys in underwear, naked, jocks, hunks, blowjob, you name it) but anal doesn't appeal to me at all.

If it doesn't appeal to you. Don't do it. Why bitch about it? Move on

 

[Alnitak]

Love a good ass fuck

 

[G-Lexington]

Nothing wrong with not doing anal. Just keep re-evaluating. When I first came out, I was pretty sure I'd never do anal. Then topping started to sound appealing. So I gave that a try...and decided I was a committed top who would never bottom. Then, after watching guys really enjoy bottoming for me, I thought maybe I should give that a try, too...at which point I decided I was actually more of a "versatile top". But one thing was for sure - I was never going to rim a guy. Until one day...

Lex

 

[journo25]

"Disgusted" is strong. I don't personally know gay men who are disgusted by the act but I know a few who have removed it from their main menu over the past few decades. They have been out forever, and fucked around plenty in their day. But they are adamant that their decision to stop fucking is what has kept them alive when many of their friends have died. Perhaps a bit melodramatic in this day and age... but no one should be pressured to engage in activities they'd rather decline.

I say "stop fucking" rather than "stop anal" because I'm not sure how they feel about rimming.

OP, I suspect you'll want to try it -- with the right person and the right preparation -- out of curiosity. Then you can make up your own mind as to whether it's something you want to do again.

 

[mark1111]

I'm actually sort of curious but I don't have a partner. What is a good strategy for finding other guys? I feel like I might need to try via the internet since the percentage of the population that's gay is fairly low. Any good sites? Is this site good for finding people?

Jake, I could show you a good time! I'll be gentle, promise.