^Yours is a different situation mikey. You are one of the lucky ones who gets his cake and is allowed to eat it. The OP seems to be referring to a man who does not have sex with another man because he equates it to drug addiction. So married a female instead.
You were lucky that your wife was understanding and supportive.
Luck and a lot of hard work. 2x the squabbles, emotions, feelings, mood swings, wants, needs and insecurities, But it's twice the happiness at times too. It's definitely not for everyone, but it works for us. And I still get judged all the time.

