Whatevz. I can't believe someone in fucking NORWAY is bitching about their country not being gay friendly enough.
*is this real life?*...
You have NO IDEA how it is to live in Norway. I assume you don't live, or have lived, here? Then how can you possibly know how it's like being gay here?
Maybe I am exaggerating a little. It's not like Norway is Sudan or whatever. Yes, we DO have it better than many other places, but is that simply enough? Should we compare ourselves to other countries saying "oh well, it could be worse", and just being complacent with everything as it is now? My answer is no. We must strive for total equality, not just in laws, but also in society, to be accepted as we are. I do not feel like gays are accepted in Norway. The Christians still have a hold on his country, it's still a VERY conservative country compared to Sweden and Denmark. It is still tough being gay in Norway, especially in the south and west, aka the bible belt.
At least you have big gay communities in USA, even in the more conservative parts of the country. In my town we have ONE gay bar, and I live in one of the biggest cities in Norway. We have more churches (anti-gay, that is), than I can count. I read about gays being discriminated against EVERY day in the news. A guy was even lit on fire because he was gay! A gay couple was thrown out of a cab in Oslo because they were gay. A lesbian couple were denied IVF to become pregnant from their doctor, siting "religious and personal" reasons. There was an outrage when a gay man was on a dating show for farmers on tv here. The channel got hundreds and hundreds of complaints (which is a lot in tiny Norway). Heck, even our most famous lesbian handball player got hate mail when she announced she was pregnant and that she and her partner would become mothers. She got fucking HATE MAIL, she read a lot of hateful stuff, from Christians and conservatives. She said it was very tough to read it. Trust me when I say.. you have NO IDEA how it is in Norway. You probably think because Sweden and Denmark are liberal, we must be too? You couldn't be more wrong. Norway is a CHRISTIAN nation with a state church, and the bible belt is even worse, because we have all the anti gay, pro life, pro creationism idiots here, and they have a lot of power too. The state church is fairly liberal (but still against gay marriage, gays can NOT get married in the state church yet), but most of the churches here are very, very anti gay, spewing their hate. Most of the population here supports their view on marriage and homosexuality. I'm sure if people here were polled about 20-30 % would say they support gay marriage. Heck, a bitch from my town is even SUING the state because of the new marriage law.
Don't you dare say that I can't complain because I live in Norway. We still have a LONG way to go. Acceptance in society is still low. We got the marriage law before we reached full acceptance in society. There's a clash. Just slightly over half of the population supports gay marriage, and we never even would have had it if it wasn't for our socialist government. Yes, I'm sure it could be worse, I could live in Saudi Arabia were being gay is illegal, but this is FAR from paradise for gays. I feel like gays are not accepted, we are being discriminated against every day, the Christians are still against us, people still use a lot of hurtful words to describe gay people... I want to get away from here. I don't like it here. It's so bad that I want to move. So please.. don't you dare say how I can't be upset because I live in Norway. Try living here before commenting on it.